
So, it turns out that Bethany has become a quite um... agressive soccer player. This is her second year playing and I almost didn't sign her up. Soccer always conflicts with baseball and I found that Grandma and the aunts were taking her to half of her games. It seemed like I just couldn't make it work. Plus, I didn't think she particularly loved it. Miranda certainly didn't. Fortunately (I think), one of Bethany's best friends begged her to be on her soccer team and we were able to get her on in a semi-legal legal way. :) Well, since about the third game of the season, Bethany has become a beast. She loves playing defense and has decided that it is up to her to protect the goal at all times - even when she's playing full-back or center. Often times, she will hang out in the goal box just because, "The goalie needed my support." Yesterday, her coach asked her why she was hanging back near the goal when she was supposed to be playing center and she answered, "But coach, no one else is defending." The coach laughed and told her to let him worry about it and just play her position. She also is seemingly always on hand when it's time for a corner kick or a throw-in. Yesterday, the coach was about to assign someone else to throw in the ball when Bethany just went ahead and did it. It went something like this. "Ella throw it in - or okay, Bethany, that'll work, I guess." And right before the end of the fourth quarter, the ball went off sides and Bethany ran for it. You could hear Olivia running behind her yelling, "Bethany, it's my turn to throw it in." Luckily, just then the game ended so we didn't have a brawl on the soccer field. I'm not sure what to think about this turn of events. I'm thrilled that she's becoming assertive and that she has made several goals and assists this year but I don't want her to turn into a total ball hog. Any suggestions? It's kind of funny now, but it may become less and less funny as time goes on.