Friday, February 29, 2008

Finish Strong

So today is our last day at the ministry site. Last year, one of our team said that he knew we were all tired, ready to be done, and just pretty much used up, but he encouraged us to "finish strong." So with those words of encouragement, we are going to finish strong. We can all hope for one day without rain, calm spirits and stomachs, and lots of people reached. But even if none of that happens, we are going to do our best and FINISH!! Anyway, we leave tomorrow at 3AM to make it to our 7AM flight, please pray that our flight is on time, that there is no fog, and that we have an easy trip home. Thanks for your prayers, I will let you know how it goes!

Thursday, February 28, 2008

A Success??

Ok, so I will consider today a success, but only because all 32 are still alive, but that is really the best I can come up with for the day. It started out great, we slept in a bit, the sun was shining, we were all ready to conquer the day. That is the end of the good news....Two of our team members had to be taken to the hospital for severe dehydration and bacterial intestinal infections (don't you all wish you were here?). The bus also had to stop halfway up the hill to drop off a member who didn't think he could make it anymore, a taxi came and got him and took him back to the hotel. When we finally did make it up the hill, we were greeted by 300 kids who had been standing outside for 3 hours waiting for us to get there. Chaos ensued, and I am not sure what all transpired after that, but I do know that the sun that greeted us was short lived. We had the mother of all storms up there, complete with thunder, lightning, hail, rain,mud sliding down the hills, really Kate, we can use you next time, please come with us and help us dress appropriately for the typhoon that is approaching. It really was an exhausting day. My dad made the comment that this is the closest thing to being a battle that he has ever been a part of. We have people wounded, incapacitated, and the rest of us sent out to continue marching on. It was a success, but not like we pictured it. Tomorrow is our last day, and then home again!! Please pray for us for safety, energy, and health.

Wednesday, February 27, 2008

Someone call 911

OK, so my dad says that no one will believe it if I lay this all out, but here goes. Waiting to get on the airplane, we had to call an ambulance because one of our team members was having an irregular heartbeat, they fixed it (by stopping his heart, not kidding), and a couple hours later he got on a plane to a third world country. Day one, another person fell down the marble stairs at the mall and probably disrupted some of the supporting structures of his knees. Day two, our team member who had brain surgery two months ago almost passed out when walking to dinner and had to sit down for a little bit. Our second day at the site, one of our translators who is 15 began having neurologic events like loss of vision, numbness in his mouth, and problems speaking. Then two of our team members fell at the site, one in a deep cement hole in the building, and the other in a pile of dog poo by dental van. So today rolls around and we wake up to a member with a migraine, one with extraordinarily high blood pressure, one with the stomach flu, one with an ankle effusion, one with a fever........and then to top it all off, tonight while we were at worship, one of our members began having an irregular heartbeat and some "cardiac" symptoms. Now I'm no doctor, but all that is pretty bad. What the heck is going on. OK, so minus being on the verge of a medical emergency at every moment of the day, things are going very well. We had a day off today and went to the Indian market to go shopping. We started at a leather market and had plenty to look at, then went to the outdoor market, where I became, "Erin, master bargainer." Chris is laughing right now I am sure, but really, I got some good deals!! It is easy when you don't really want anything, and you can just walk away if they don't come down to your price, you say no, they chase you through the market, and you get cool stuff for like $2. Anyway, pray for our team that is dropping like flies, and pray for our day tomorrow that many people will hear about the Lord, and please pray that we could have one day of sun, the rain is really keeping people away. So that is it, talk to you soon!

Tuesday, February 26, 2008

Welcome to the mudpit!!





So we are going to build an ark today, it seems like the responsible thing to do. It rains so hard, for so long every day here. It is the rainy season and the city is washing away. We have to climb a pretty steep hill on a makeshift road in order to get to our ministry site and it is more and more precarious every day. Yesterday, the bus driver couldn't see out the window because it was so humid and foggy and so he ran full speed over a huge speed bump, so we stopped so he could wipe off the window so he could see. But overall, the road looks like a riverbed. So enough about the rain, we had a record setting day yesterday and saw over 300 patients. This place is running like clockwork and we are having so much fun connecting with the people and meeting some of their needs. We even had a dog try his best to make it into our pharmacy, but he just had too far to go. If no one throws a chicken through the window today, I might protest. We did see a pig just hanging out on the side of the road near our site. This place is awesome. So enjoy the few photos.


Oh, the picture of all of us in the blue scrub tops, my dad was tired of being "Erin's Dad" or "Kelly's Dad" so he made us tops that said "Tom's daughter" and he had one that said "Tom" It was great!!

Monday, February 25, 2008

Day 3

Yesterday was incredible. We started with a church service at Santos Pamba. Last year, our group quadrupled the size of the church, yesterday, we were just the group standing in the back with all of the seats filled with people from the community. After the church service, the ladies in the church cooked a meal for our group (ok, I was a little scared to eat it, I will admit), but it was really good, and it gave them so much pride to allow them to do something for us. After lunch we got right to work. We saw about 120 patients in 4 hours. Those of you who know about the trip last year know that our operation was great, but very primitive. We in the pharmacy were outside with chickens in our meds, and dogs looking for food. This year, we had a room inside with shelves to put out all of our meds and all the suitcases went back to storage. It was amazing. We saw old friends from last year, who were just as excited as we were to see them. So, if everything continues at this pace, it will be amazing, but I believe we will continue to get better every day, so I can't wait to see what happens in the rest of the week. Thanks again for your prayers. I will post more pictures later!

Sunday, February 24, 2008

Ecuador



So we made it!! We had a great day yesterday visiting the orphanage. Seeing all the kiddos was so fun (no, they wouldn't let me take one home). My dad was feeding babies, so cute!! We then went to the Bascillica (I clearly cannot spell) fancy word for church. It was quite the adventure. They have a walkway that goes over the buttresses in the top of the church, you walk over, then climb a ladder made of rebar (not making this up) and you can get to the spires of the church. It was a very clear day and the views were amazing. We had wonderful dinner last night at an Italian restaurant and ate until we could eat no more. Today starts our ministry, we are having a church service with the locals and then starting to see patients at 1. I miss you all!!

Monday, February 18, 2008

Ecuador, Here I Come!!






So I leave this weekend with my Dad and sister to go to Ecuador for a medical mission trip. We went last year and had an absolute blast. I am actually worried that this year can't possibly live up to how much fun last year was, but I am hopeful that I will be pleasantly surprised. This year again, my Dad and I get to work in the pharmacy, hopefully there will be no chicken incidents or dog fights over our meds, but you just never know. Please pray for my sweet boys (I include Chris in that) while I am gone, and that I come home safely, I want to be excited for the trip, but also don't want to think about it because I will miss them so much. But, if it is anything like last year, I won't really have time to miss them, we were sooooo busy. Also, please pray that our flight is smooth and uneventful (if you know me, you know flying is far from my favorite thing to do). I will try and update the blog while I am there. Thanks again for your prayers!! God truly did miracles there last year, I can't wait to see what happens this year!! I have included some pictures of the trip from last year so that you can get an idea of where we will be!

Tuesday, February 12, 2008

A Flippin Wedding





So I had several people ask me from the post around Christmas if Chris's parents get mad at us for calling things in their town "the Flippin this" or "the Flippin that", so in my defense, I took the above picture to show that it is not mocking their town, things really are called the Flippin Church of God and the Flippin First Bank. So with that settled, lets talk about the Flippin wedding. Chris's brother Will got married to his lovely fiance Courtney this weekend. We were all on hand for the ceremony which meant another 10 hours in the car each way for the boys over a long weekend. They were wonderful, but really, we were all tired of driving by the time we got home. But it was another momentus occasion because all of the Topf brothers were together for the first time in about 4 years. Since the last time we were all together, one has gotten married, Chris's folks moved from Chicago to Flippin, and 4 more grandchildren have been added to the pack. So, it was a big deal. Also, Chris's Aunt Barb and Uncle Kurt were there, and it was really fun to spend time with them. The wedding was very nice, the kids had a ball, Marv and Marcie's house was packed to the gills (secretly, I think she loved it), and we got to visit with people that we just don't get to see enough since we are all scattered about the United States. Brandon got to play with his "big" cousins, Ryan kept calling Courtney a princess ("I have to tell her, she a princess"), and we learned that two 2 year olds together are much sneakier than one. It was a great weekend!

Wednesday, February 6, 2008

Four and a half months


So this is what four and a half months of work gets you in adoption world. Doesn't look like much does it? But each of those papers has a little of our blood, sweat, and tears in it. (OK, maybe not blood, and not really sweat as most were compiled in the winter, but sure there have been some tears shed). So that is it, our Vietnam dossier, those papers are what get us a baby girl, strange don't you think. They still have to be authenticated by the Vietnam Consulate, but this is the last time we will see them, so I wanted to take a picture. They are off to our agency today to review and then send them to the consulate, and if all goes well, off to Vietnam hopefully before the end of the month. I am so excited!!!


We had a huge victory yesterday. I went to the Secretary of State to get our documents state certified. I was so nervous that something would be wrong, I couldn't sleep the night before. I kept having dreams that one of the notaries was someone's pet, and the pet had died and the office wouldn't certify my documents because the pet was gone. OK, you think only pregnancy gives you strange dreams, well, adoption does too. Anyway, my friend Alicia graciously drove to Austin with me, Amy couldn't come as she had a sick kiddo :( We made it there without incident, walked into the office, the documents were all done in 10 minutes, the lady even tried to help us find a place to eat lunch. What, a government employee not only tolerating us, but actually being nice to us?? What was going on? So Texas Secretary of State certfication lady....You Rock!! You have been the nicest person to us in this whole crazy adventure, thanks for making my day. And thanks to everyone for your prayers, I know it would not have been so easy without you all lifting us up. I can see a light at the end of the paperchase tunnel!!

Friday, February 1, 2008

What to say???

Ok, I have hesitated to post anything because the situation changes from day to day, and I am not kidding at all. Let me give you a little wrap up of the week. Monday, the department of state of the US government posted a "warning" to prospective adoptive parents considering Vietnam to be very cautious. The agreement they have in place to process adoptions with the US, will likely not be renewed as everyone thought that it would. So what does that mean? Well, a lot of speculation and heresay on the internet turns into no new dossiers in country, don't even try. So as of Monday, it was looking pretty bleak for us. Fast forward to Tuesday, so all is not so bleak anymore, more rumors that things will be processed as long as your dossier is in country by the expiration of the current agreement (Sept. 1). So we corresponded with our agency, I sounded like a complete lunatic to our agency, and finally we get the answer, well, proceed at your own risk, but we aren't really supportive of the idea. OK, Wednesday and Thursday morning, more of the same, from the agency, do what you want, but we are not supportive. So here are Chris and I trying to decide if we are the kind of people who just buck the system and venture off on our own in this whole thing, and if you know us, the answer is no, we are not, we like to make people happy, so the idea of our agency just giving in and saying, do what you want, is not very comforting to us. So then Thursday afternoon comes along, and low and behold, our agency has changed it's tune and is now willing to support families sending their dossiers in. What?? This whole adoption thing, I never know what to tell people anymore because the situation literally changes minute by minute.

So what does all of that mumbo jumbo mean that I just typed??? Well, it means we can now send our dossier in to Vietnam!! We must accept that we could possibly lose our agency fee, which is a significant amount of money, but we are ready to go forward. We tried to go this morning to get our background checks, but the lady was out today, so maybe this afternoon at another office or maybe Monday. We can get everything else we need this weekend, and then next week drive to Austin for state certification. I feel like a rush to do everything, because who knows what tomorrow will bring, maybe Vietnam will be crushed by a giant rabid unicorn, who knows with the way things have been going, nothing would surprise me anymore, but for today, we are hopeful.

Chris and I had a discussion this morning that maybe all this craziness and the background check lady being out were part of God's way of telling us not to proceed. I don't think that God's plan is necessarily easy, and delays don't mean that you are outside of his will. As a friend told me, we never get to see God work if we don't take some risks. So here we are, about to take a huge risk, stepping out in faith that God will be with us as we go...I can't wait to see where he takes us, and where the story ends. Because as my dad says, it is all part of the story, even if it is more difficult, it just makes that much better of a story. We will have one heck of a story to tell our sweet daughter someday.