" In memory of our God, our religion, and freedom, and our peace, our wives and our children-and he fastened it on the end of a pole." (Alma 46:12)
This scripture has been so relevant to me during these elections that we just experienced. I have worried and prayed for our kids and our freedom and I feel that things might be going in the right direction. We'll see because our leader isn't exactly a virtuous person, but I feel that we have a chance at preserving our freedom and strengthening our country.
As I read about captain Moroni a recurring theme stands out to me. He is constantly trying to strengthen his cities. He builds walls and creates armor to protect his people. He could be angry and go fight the Lamanites, but he sees it necessary to strengthen his people from within.
I've been thinking about this in my own home.
How am I strengthening my home and my children so that they can be prepared for the temptations that they will face?
There is a motto in the business world that I love. It goes like this, "Prior Planning Provides Possible Perfect Outcome." Another thing my grandpa used to tell us was, "If you fail to plan, you plan to fail."
I love to plan.. Sometimes too much. ... I also have to realize that...
I can only control what I do and not what anyone else does.
When I am strong, my home is strong.
There is a lady named Donna Goff, www.mentoringourown.com, She feels it is her mission to strengthen Moms and help them simplify their lives so that they can homeschool and lead their kids on a good path. I was stressed out...I decided to listen to her webinar one day. She really hit a string with me and all of a sudden what she was saying made sense. I needed to do more little things each day instead of letting them pile up. I needed to create better habits for myself and let my kids watch me have better habits.
I once heard from another Mom that I admire, that it's like Mom's are in a box with their kids. Unless the Mom gets out of the box with the kids and pushes the box, the box isn't going to go anywhere, it's only going to stay in place.
Donna Goff invited me to join her in a 90 day challenge on ditching the stress. So, I decided to take this challenge.
She has a 7 point plan on what we need to do each day to feel fulfilled and put our needs as Mom's first and not get overwhelmed with life. Here is the list:
1. Pray, read Scriptures
2. Get ready for the day
3. Get a great breakfast, dinner prep and dishes
4. Put one load of laundry to wash, dry and fold by the end of the day
5. Homeschool
6. 30 minute Power Clean
7. Exercise
I have a little card that I posted on my fridge to remind me of my goals. Some days I don't get to everything but that's OK. But, I can honestly say that I am less stressed, I don't have dishes piling up and laundry piling up. It is amazing!!! As I've been reading my scriptures in the morning, the kids will run and grab their scriptures, everyone wants to read with Mom. I can definitely see areas that I needed to change so that I would be less stressed. One thing Donna stresses is to set the timer to 30 min. for cleaning and stick to it. Sometimes, I tend to want to finish everything in one day. I'm trying to stick to only 30 minutes so that I have more time to enjoy my kids.
In Conclusion...
If Momma' ain't happy ain't nobody happy!!
























