Saturday, November 22, 2008

A very delayed part II

I don't have a single excuse other than the fact that I've been really lazy.  Yes, I'm working (we will get to that in a second), but it's not like I don't spend countless hours perusing through facebook on any given day.  I've been an awful blogger.  I don't deserve to have anyone read it anymore.  Forgive me?  

Alright, now that we've taken care of that-let's get back to the story at hand.

I stayed at Eva's Backpackers, a small hostel in the Kings Cross area of Sydney.  I didn't know it at the time, but Kings Cross is Sydney's Red Light district which made for some very interesting walks back to the hostel last at night.  Along with the prostitutes, it's full of backpacker bars, strip clubs, more hostels, etc.  It reminded me of the French Quarter in a way.  I think that was largely due to the smell and the massive amounts of drunk tourists stumbling about.  

When I arrived back at the Hostel after the day of furniture shopping for the new house, I mentioned to Travis that I had some a little research and found a pub that was going to be playing the LSU vs. Auburn game live...which was at 9 a.m. on a Sunday morning.  I asked him if he'd like to come and he agreed, perfect!  Originally I had just planned on going alone...but how much fun would it be to watch a game all by yourself?  This was just getting better and better; maybe Sydney wasn't so bad after all!  

For the entire first half, Travis and I were literally the only two people upstairs at Cheers watching the game.  Then Umie arrived.

Umie is a 22 year old recent college grad from the New York University.  If that's not impressive enough for you, he also double majored in Finance and Marketing...from one of the top 5 business schools in America.  Not to mention the fact that he's just flat out freakin' awesome.  Umie grew up in Beaver Creek, Ohio but decided to give 4 years in NYC a shot...big change.  His father is from England and his mother is from Pakistan.  White people think he's brown and brown people think he's white.  Most people would grow up with  severe self identity issues, but Umie seems to manage just fine.  You'll be hearing A LOT about Umie in the future, so get used to it.  This kid is here to stay.  

Alright, so Umie brought this British guy (Tom) that he met along with him so he could teach him a little about American Football, or "gridiron" as they say.  Tom didn't say much, but he did have a Spongebob wallet and is apparently a good breakdancer.  I never witnessed either of these things.   Anyway, as soon as Umie and Tom walked upstairs we invited them to join us at our table.  Conversation began and before you know it, we were all headed down the road to get $7 steak at some dodgy pub for lunch.  

After lunch, we parted ways and Travis and I headed back to the hostel.  We spent the rest of the afternoon visiting with the others at the hostel (around 90% of them were German) until it was time for Mass.  I still didn't have my "normal" clothes at this point as they hadn't arrived just yet.  I had to wear the same pair of jeans that I had been wearing all month in Asia and the only collared shirt that I owned.  Oh well, I'm going to Mass with what I have...God understands.  Mass was really beautiful inside St. Mary's Cathedral that Sunday evening, followed by a young adult group.  The young adult group wasn't what I was expecting.  Most of the people were from other parts of the world and the topic was very surface level...just not really for me.  I headed back to the hostel that evening feeling very hopeful and rejuvenated about Sydney.  

More to come I promise, but it's 4 am here and I'm exhausted.  

Monday, October 13, 2008

Go out and buy yourself a jar of Nutella.


Have you ever tried the stuff?  It's fan-friggin-tastic!  I had never had this hazelnutty sensation until yesterday...but man, I'm hooked.  I've successfully eaten TWO 600g jars of it on my own thankyouverymuch.  Do yourself a favor and search high and low until you find the amazing spread called Nutella.  You won't be sorry.

Ok, now that I've got that out of my system...I'll give you an update.  

Many things have changed since my last post.  Most importantly: my outlook on Sydney.  Last time I updated I was depressed, lonely, and extremely homesick.  Granted, I still get homesick on occasion, but it's more much palatable.  Things really began to turn around for me as soon as I got out of the awful living situation that I was in.  Here, let me paint a picture for you:

Josh lives on Cleveland St. which is the dividing line of Surry Hills and Redfern (Sydney is made up of tiny suburbs...similar to NYC or any other large city--these are two of them.)  Surry Hills is a nice, trendy area with many good cafe's, pubs, restaurants, etc. while Redfern is an area that is to be avoided at all costs due to the constant muggings, rapes, and hoards of homeless people (largely Aboriginal) in the area.  Needless to say, Josh doesn't live in the   safest area of Sydney.  Rent is cheap and he doesn't mind the occasional shrieks that pierce   your eardrum in the middle of the night...clearly we are very different.  He has 3 roommates, of which he knows one of their names.  Her name is Anna.  Anna is originally from Russia, in her late 20's and has already had a stroke...she's a junkie.  The woman has totally lost it, here's an example:  one night she was so high that she went into the freezer and ate all of her ice cream that she had just purchased and yelled at the entire household (myself included) for stealing it!  Josh's other roommates were a 60+ yr old Indian man that I rarely saw and an Aussie in his thirties with a major drinking problem.  I would wake up in the morning around 8 and he would already be in the kitchen drinking beers.   Josh's room was pretty small and dirty along with the rest of the house, but I was able to clean up a small corner to put my things.  We shared his double bed the first few nights...something I wasn't thrilled on doing but hey-it was free.  The second night that I stayed with Josh, he arrived home around 2 am completely trashed out of his mind.  I was already asleep but was awakened with his stumbling around and such.  I helped him into the bed and went back to sleep.  The following morning I notice that my leg is wet...yep-he urinated in the bed.  I jumped out of bed and alerted him of what he did; his response was far too casual for my expectations.  Josh didn't even take the sheets off the bed.  I'm not joking.  I showered, left the house, and when I came back to the house the room smelled of strong urine.  I slept on the couch in the living room for two nights before finally getting the hell out of there.  I couldn't take the constant yelling between the roommates, the filth, and the overwhelming depressing atmosphere. 
My original plan was to stay with Josh for 2-3 weeks, which was cut much shorter.  By day 2 I was already scouring the internet trying to find rooms for rent.  I found a few prospects but nothing really caught my eye...except one.  I sent an email to the ad and was given a questionnaire to fill out, etc.  I was told to be at the location at 11:15 on saturday morning.  I showed up at 11:18 along with another American guy from California (Travis) and was caught completely off guard by how many people were already in the house.  Turns out there were 2 guys interviewing people as they would be taking two of the rooms and had two rooms available for rent.  Travis and I were shown the rooms and left shortly afterward.  Travis and I immediately hit it off...finally someone to talk college football with!  I briefed him on the awful living situation that I was in and he suggested I walk over with him to the hostel where I was staying to see about getting a bed there for a few nights until I found a room for rent.  Both of us were really hoping to get one of the rooms in the house that we had just seen as it seem like the perfect place.  Not only was the house big, it also had a nice backyard, great location, and most importantly: both the guys living there seemed really cool.  

Within 30 minutes of arriving at the hostel, I got a phone call from Andi and Bojan telling me that I was selected as one of the roommates!  I was really thrilled to say the least.  They invited me to come with them to IKEA to pick out a few things for the house as it is unfurnished.  I asked them who the second roommate was and they told me they were still undecided.  I knew right then and there that I had to go with them to sway their decision for Travis to be the 4th roommate.  Once I got off the phone, I went back and hung out with Travis in the hostel without being able to tell him anything about the conversation.  I made up a lame excuse for me having to leave and met up with the guys back at the house.  We had a really good afternoon getting to know each other and picking out stuff for the house.  I hadn't been that happy in such a long time, I finally had a nice place to live!  Andi and Bojan were both still really undecided on who they wanted as the 4th flatmate.  The list had been narrowed down to three: a british girl, a french girl who hardly spoke english, and Travis.  After much persuasion (and telling them how badly girls shed, how they take forever in the bathroom, etc), I got them both to agree on Travis.  Man, this was really becoming too good to be true!  We called Travis up and he was elated to hear the news...he had been house hunting for weeks now so it was a huge relief for him.

I got back to the hostel (stayed there for 4 nights until we could move in) absolutely elated.  

To be continued very soon!  



Tuesday, September 30, 2008

It just took a little time


Hey kids!

  Sorry it's been so long since my last blog, but I've actually been quite busy!  I can't go into too many details at the moment, but I just wanted to say that things are so much better since my last update.  

I finally got my computer up and running, so I'll be posting pics and sending out photo albums as soon as I have time to actually sit at the computer all day.  

I have a job interview at 2 today...wish me luck!

Just to get your mouths watering...here is a shot from sunset at Koh Tao.  




Wednesday, September 17, 2008

Sydney: Day 1

Well...I survived it.

Woke up this morning around 9 and headed to the bank with Josh to open up my account. Josh had an event to go to all day, so immediately afterward he was gone. I have this really nice map of the city, so I began to explore. It was windy, overcast, and combined with the cold (around 60), a cup of coffee was in order. Thank goodness for my iPod and that cup of joe, or I would've been pretty miserable. I eventually came up to Hyde Park (yes, they have one in England too) and noticed a beautiful Cathedral to the right of it. I ventured on inside and was blown away by the beauty...definitely one of the most incredible churches that I have ever seen.

I walked in, sat down in a pew and tears began to well up in my eyes. This was the first time that I've been truly alone since my incident in the Vancouver Airport. Images of my family and friends began to overtake me. It was right then at there that I realized how much I truly love them. In all honesty, I didn't think I would have a single problem moving across the world on my own...boy was I wrong. After sitting there in prayer for a few minutes, I noticed that confession was going on. I got in line and had a wonderful confession and conversation with the Priest. He told me about the young adult program that they hold after Mass on Sunday evenings, so I'll be sure to attend that this week.

I left the church and within a few minutes saw a Public Library and took a look inside. I immediately though of my mom and Heidi because one of the library rooms looks like it could have come straight out of a Harry Potter movie! It was really neat, full of old books covering the walls, circular stairs, etc. I also found an art gallery within the library which was pretty interesting.

It was 1:30 when I left the library, so I went and found a small cafe for a sandwhich. The woman at the counter was extremely friendly and talked to me the entire time I ate. I needed that.

I then headed up toward Circular Quay (pronounced "key") to visit the famous Sydney Opera House. The views of the Sydney Harbor Bridge and the Bay are picture perfect...so I snapped a few. Nicole (one of my best friends) called me on my new cell phone while I was there and we were able to have a great conversation. Not one of those average conversations...but a good, heart to heart talk. I hung up with her, walked around the Opera House some more, and opted to take the hour tour of the building. The tour was good, but not worth the $20...considering the budget that I'm on. It was almost 5 by the time the tour was over, so I walked around the rest of the Quay before heading back toward the inner city. Josh still hadn't called, so I kinda walked around aimlessly watching everyone in their business suits scurrying from their offices to their homes.

It took me at least half an hour to get back to Surry Hills (where Josh lives) and I was getting a bit hungry. I stopped in one of these middle eastern shops and ordered a falafel pita. It wasn't the best, but it filled me up and was the cheapest thing I could find. I noticed a backpacker hostel across the street and went in to see if they knew of any jobs available. The woman at the front desk was really nice and gave me some websites to look at, as well as a few employment agencies to check out. She told me that since I'm an American, I will have no problem at all finding work. I've been told that a few times, so this is hopeful. Josh said he'd help me find a job too, so that's another option as well. Originally I had planned on working as a waiter or a bartender, but I'm beginning to consider working in Finance. The economy here is booming and I'd be able to make REALLY good money if I put my degree to good use. It's a toss up...good money or being able to really enjoy myself in the city. I need to figure these things out.

Josh finally called and I met up with him and some of his co-workers at a little pub down the road. I didn't feel like being too social, so I asked Josh for his keys and came home to get ready for bed (and blog.)

This is going to be a great opportunity for me...I just need to get over all this homesick business :)

Tuesday, September 16, 2008

It's cold here.

Finally made it to Sydney around 3 pm yesterday. It's much colder than I expected. All I have are my backpacking clothes at the moment, most of my stuff is still in transit. I did airmail one package, but it's at Josh's friends house who is out of town until Saturday.

I'm not sure what I think about the city yet. It's really beautiful, but much more "city like" than I had imagined. That's not necessarily a bad thing...just not what I had in mind. I'm going to spend the day out exploring to try and get a feel of the city and where I'd like to live. Sydney is basically comprised of several small neighborhoods within one large city, similar to NYC.

I'm staying with Josh until I get on my feet, which is really nice of him. He lives with 4 other people (he doesn't even really know their names), and the place is cold, dark, and not all that clean. It'll do for now...at least it has hot water. Rent in Sydney is sky high (along with everything else here), so it looks like I'll be roughing it for a few more months. Once I get a job (gotta work on finding one of those too), I'll try to find something better.

All in all, I'm just a little dazed about the whole situation. Arriving in Sydney has made me more homesick than ever. I miss my family, I miss my family, I miss my room, I miss my car...you get the idea.

It'll take me a few weeks, but I know I'll grow to love it.

Monday, September 15, 2008

Sydney, here I come!

Just a quick note to give you all a little update. I'm leaving Bangkok around 9 pm (9 am your time) and flying to Melbourne tonight. The flight is atound 10 hours, but I'll sleep most of the flight, which is great. I have a bit of a layover in Melbourne before taking an hour-ish flight to Sydney. I'm really excited about finally getting there, although I will really miss Asia.

I'll be staying with Josh for a few weeks while I get settled, but will be getting my own place fairly soon. That's all for now. The next post will come from SYDNEY!

Friday, September 12, 2008

Bankok thus far

As you know, I have been in Bangkok for 2 days now. It has yet to impress me.

While eating dinner on the stopover from Koh Tao to Bangkok (the busses always let you stop at least once to get food, stretch your legs, etc.) I met a really cool couple from Chicago. We immediately hit it off, as we both had America in common. You know, it's so funny how you can gravitate to someone for the most subtle things when you're in an unfamiliar territory. Meeting people this way reminds me of freshman year in the dorms: I became pretty good friends with some people from my high school that I had never spoken to before...all because they were familiar, but I digress. As we arrive in Bangkok and gather our packs from the bus, we part ways and wish one another good luck. After finding a guest house and putting up a blog, I decide to take a stroll down the road to see what the street vendors have to offer.

Before long, I bump into the two of them and again we strike up conversation. Marquee and David are their names and after having a beer while sitting on small plastic chairs on the sidewalk, we decide to meet up the following morning to go and explore the city. We decide to meet at 11 and get breakfast together. I was up at 9:30, so I read a little of my current book and then headed to the internet cafe where I got to Skype with my dad. I show up at their hotel at 11 where David is waiting for me. He tells me that Marquee needs another hour, so we venture out on the street to see what we could find. After walking around for a bit, we decide on McDonalds, haha. Neither of us have had Mickey D's in months, so it was justifiable. They had stopped serving breakfast, so a cheeseburger and fries were in order for the two of us.

We head back to the hotel, pick up Marquee, and head out on the town. We take a look at our Lonely Planet books and decide that the Grand Palce and Jim Thompson's house sound like sights worth while. We decide to walk instead of taking a tuk-tuk of taxi (although we are begged by a driver every 8 feet or so...extremely annoying!) It wasn't five minutes into our walk when we are told by several people that the Grand Palace is closed for the day due to a Buddhist holiday/the King's sister dying. We are then told about all these other great temples that we should see and that they would drive us to them for a minimal fee. Good thing I've read my travel book well...this is a classic Bangkok scam.

From what I gather, the driver will take you to a few temples, but before you know it you're stuck at a market and he is demanding for more money to take you back. All the other drivers are in on it and won't give you a ride back either. This scam has been around for quite some time, but it still seems to get people more often than you'd think. Anyway, we dodged the scam and carried on our merry way to Jim Thompson's house...deciding to forego the Palace.

On our way to the house (located in Siam Square), we passed several Wats (temples) along the way. At one of the temples there were hundreds of pigeons loitering around...gross. In my option, pigeons are the rats of the avian world. As we walk through them, this lady rushes towards me and forces a bag of corn kernels in my hand. Being quite alarmed, I drop them on the ground as I don't want them. Her face looked completely disgusted by my rude behavior, so I pick up the bag and hand it to her while apologizing. She then takes my hand, opens the bag, and pours the kernels in my hand. Before I can react, I have pigeons ALL OVER ME! She does this SIX more times before I finally snap out of my coma-like state and ask her to stop. I begin walking away as fast as possible. She begins chasing me and demanding that I pay her for the very bags that she poured in my hand! Is she really serious? I tell her that I'm not going to pay her for something that I did not ask for, and she begins to HIT ME! I couldn't believe it! She wanted me to pay her 150 baht (almost $5 usd) for the seed...so I eventually give her 90 bath (3 usd) to keep her away from me. I wasn't the only one who got suckered into the Pigeon Scam, Marquee and David fell victim to it too. Argh! These people are ruthless!

We shake ourselves off, put some hand sanitizer on our hands and continue on. Thank goodness David is a good navigator, or else Marquee and I would've been pretty lost. I'm not sure who came up with the road system here in Bangkok, but I'm pretty sure they were on opiates at the time of implementation. It took us FOUR hours to walk the 4-5 kilometer walk to the house, and by the time we were in the area it began to rain pretty hard. MBK (a huge shopping center) was right in front of us at the time, so we decided to go check it out. This place is MASSIVE! It is seven floors FULL of vendors...you can get anything that your heart desires over here (as long as it's fake). I immediately thought of Heidi when I saw all the knock off Gucci, Prada, Coach, etc. purses cluttering the walls.

We strolled around the mall for a few hours, checking out all the junk that they have there. David and I both bought these cool shirts for a "good price" as the locals love to say. After a while, we got pretty hungry and found a nice Japanese restaurant. We had great conversation, per usual. Marquee works on movies as an art designer (something like that...can't remember exactly.) Let's put it this way, she helped design the laser (among many other things) in the new Batman movie! She told me that she worked on that movie for 9 months...pretty cool, eh? David is a driver for the entertainment industry, which is also much cooler than it sounds. I could listen to the two of them all day; they've got some really cool stories to tell.

After dinner we decided to head back to Kho San Road (i.e. the "backpackers paradise"...gag me) and get some sleep. Wanting to save a bit of money and dive more into the culture, we opt to wait for a public bus. After waiting for 15 minutes or so, our bus arrives and we hop on. According to the book, the fare is around 12 baht. We get prepared to pay as soon as we hop on, but it's so crowded that we can't reach the lady in uniform. The bus is beyond backed...it's exactly like you imagine, people on top of people. My guess is that we pay once we get off, since nobody else is paying either. I immediately notice that the bus is completely SILENT...something you'd never find in America. I guess these people all respect one another enough to give each other peace and quiet on their commute; something I wish would happen more back home. I quietly ask the man next to me when is our exit and he's able to convey to me that he is getting off at the same one and to follow him. Then I ask him when do we pay, in which he replies that we don't have to due to the bus being too crowded. WHAT!?! You mean to tell me that I get ripped off by the pigeon lady but not by the public bus? Some things never cease to amaze me. I felt pretty weird getting off that bus without paying...but hey, when in Rome...

I walked around for a little while before retiring to my room fairly early. I sat in bed and watched "Happy Gilmore" on my iPod before crashing for the night. The breeze was cool, so I opened my windows and let the sounds of rain put me to sleep.

Woke up this morning around 8, had a nice breakfast, and read more of my book while people watching. There are times when backpacking alone isn't much fun...but then there are times when it's really perfect. This was one of those times. I'm able to do what I want, when I want...something that doesn't happen as often as it should.

I found a new place to stay (this one has a rooftop pool!), walked around some, and ran into one of my diving buddies randomly on the street! I went up to the pool after while and layed out, although it's quite overcast here. Josh arrives within in the next hour (6 pm), and then we'll figure something out I'm sure. I really want to get a massage (around $9 for 1.5 hrs) and everyone raves about them.

Just checked the weather and I don't like what I see. Looks like Ike is going to be a real nightmare and my immediate thought is for all my family and friends in the Houston area. I talked to my dad today and he told me that my grandparents have evacuated which I am grateful for. I don't know about the rest of the family...but if you are reading this and haven't evacuated, I urge you to grab some clothes and get in the car! Please send me an e-mail and let me know once all of you are safe. I'll be worrying until then.