Friday, December 19, 2008

The final hours

Here I am, sitting in my bare room 2 in Hazel Farm. I threw out an insane amount of rubbish and i cant believe I actually have more bags now than I arrived. It was hellish trying to pack everything which I've accumulated here into 2 suitcases and also trying to pack for a 11-day trip around Europe at the same time, PLUS trying to finish my bloody marketing principles report with useless group mates. grah. All these things happening over the frenzied exam week has made me too busy to update my blogs & upload the new pictures. I've visited Edinburgh by myself after my exam, on the tues 2 weeks ago, next went for parties every night since I've came back, in an effort to spend as much time with all my friends here.

But most of my exchange friends have left to go back to their homes over the last two days. I wasn't around to say goodbye to them, but I'm hoping to catch them again if I have the chance to. So now, I'm just waiting for Richard to pick me up & my things at about 8+pm. Well, you can imagine the last week was especially emotional for everyone. Saying goodbyes are extremely hard to do... but I guess after a couple of months, people get on with their lives and eventually get caught up with their routine, no one really cares about you anymore, especially if you were just casual friends & not someone who has touched their lives deeply.

The most difficult thing now is having to say bye to dear Justin. All the talk about how I'm going to take it like a man & suck it up totally failed me. I usually end up being an emotional wreck who is trying to hide it as much as possible. That is well unpleasant. It doesn't help that I've met his lovely family - his sweet mother, his charming father, his muscle-bound brother & his girlfriend & the girlfriend's daughter Ruby. Then the inevitable awkward questions come - what will happen when you leave? Then this ache in my heart shoots up again & I have to bite my lip, shrug my shoulders and reply - I don't know... I just hope I can see him again. Then I feel so guilty for letting them down, for making their son sad. Both of us left in a hurried fashion on Thursday morning to catch the morning trains and his mom gave me a Xmas card, thanking me for making her son happy. You know what - people shouldn't be too nice to me, I can't take it. I don't deserve it.

In all my misery & sadness for having to leave him, I am grateful for having someone who loves me that much too. Amusingly, our conversations now tend to be a mix of genuine jokes & humourous banter, but often tail off with bittersweet smiles. I guess that's how it'll be when we say our farewells on 3 Jan 2009- Bittersweet smiles peppered with salty tears.

Saturday, December 06, 2008

Again i go unnoticed

I am gutted. Stupid musicians & their whims of fancies. GRAH!!!
I still want to see Dashboard very much, but I dont think I can anymore.
Instead of a great gig to attend, I have a redundant ticket left on my hands,
which I havn't received AND yet I need to post it back to get a refund.
&*%^$#@&^%*&(*^*&_)*&^%&$#%$!

On another note. I love Sex On Fire.
By the Kings Of Leon. I'm really digging their grooves now.
They remind me of The Killers. From the US, yet has a distinctive Brit sound.
Oh, I like Use Somebody as well.
Whee... These are on top of new likes - Damien Rice &
new sounds like Bon Iver, Zero 7, Sigur Ros etc.

Apparently, I need to write some song lyrics. Haha.

Wednesday, December 03, 2008

English Ironies

WTF? First, they found out that their NHS is letting them down with all the random baby abuse cases gone undiscovered and ignored until the babies have died tragically.

Next, they are beginning to find out that alcohol COULD be a problem for the country's rising crime rates.

Now, they think that they need to keep an eye on foreign students who skip classes?
Come on now, who is the education minister? Don't be daft. If you havn't realised by now, it's YOUR students who are skipping classes. The international students have to pay a fortune to come here to study, so they are the ones who fill your lecture theatres and classrooms.

Just how ridiculous can you get?

Remember December

Student No: 6076137

Dear Miss Chua

Date of departure from Room 2: Saturday 20-Dec-2008

According to our records your contract for your room will shortly be coming to an end. We remind you that the room should be cleaned and left tidy, in particular you will need to:

· Leave your telephone handset, telephone power supply unit and blue cable on your desk.

· Remove all of your personal belongings from the room.

· Remove all of your equipment and food (including items in the freezer/fridge) from the kitchen.

· Place all of your rubbish into waste bags and take them to the blue rubbish bins outside the building. Please note there is a charge of £5.00 per bag of rubbish left in a bedroom or kitchen.

· Leave the room in a clean and tidy state i.e.:

Vacuum your carpet

Wipe all surfaces including the bookshelf, window frames, desk top, inside of drawers and telephone.

Clean your shower room

· Leave the mattress cover, duvet and pillows folded at the end of the bed.

· Lock the windows and door. We strongly recommend that you do not leave your room open for friends to use or rely on friends to hand in the keys because, in these circumstances, you are responsible for any loss or damage.

· Return your room keys to the Caretaker’s Office (next to the Launderette in Hamilton Drive) , the Accommodation Office (open Mon-Fri 10.00-12.30 & 13.30-16.00) or the Security Office on the ground floor of Senate House (open 24 hours)

The rest of the flat should also be left in a clean and tidy state and it might be a good idea to discuss with your housemates which additional area you will be cleaning on departure. This includes the hallway and kitchen.

If the flat/room is not left in a clean and tidy state you will be invoiced for the cleaning of these areas. The cost depends on the condition of the flat/room on inspection, plus an administration fee of £12.00.

You are required to move out by 10.00 Monday to Friday or 12.00 on Saturday/Sunday on the above departure. If you have any questions please contact Valerie King in the Accommodation Office on ext 2464 or v.king@surrey.ac.uk before your departure.

Have a good journey home.

Best Wishes,

Yes, madam. Oh well... You know, being on Hazel Farm is so UNHIP, its bloody hip. You get to hang out with the coolest people who gives shit about school work & only sleeps at 4am after downing their livers with copious alcohol. I will miss my fun-loving exchange friends. On the other hand, you get to live with nice, down to earth, studious international students and share the dirty kitchen with. All that cultural exchange, social activities & beer chugging that went on at Hazel Farm was definitely memorable.

Alright now... Some Guildford pictures taken very recently, as I became a rare tourist when WH dropped by while visiting London to stay with me.

Pewley Downs still look almost the same as 2+ months ago.
While the trees below my window are bare now,
the grass is still green here.

At the castle's grounds,
there is a WW2 memorial for Guildfordians who perished in the war.
Memorial day was in November,
but I'm glad the plastic red poppies wreaths survived way longer than that.

Pretty garden, good for eating your lunch at.

Guildford looking gorgeous from the top in the sunshine.

This is the entire castle. hahaha.
I like how everything in Guildford is mini-mised.

More quaint stone walls to add to the medieval charm.


Thursday, November 27, 2008

snow white & her snow angels

Before I came over, I never ever believed in weather forecasts. Maybe it was just Singapore's, but I never ever counted on them to be accurate. Until the freak October snow in Guildford, & other predictions which I was counting on to come true on my travels, did come true. So this time, I checked and it was going to be snowing BIG time in Zurich and boy, did the fairy godmother grant me my wish. sub-zero temperatures; constant wet feet; frozen nose and hands & always shivering in the cold.

Flying into Zurich via BA.
It was lovely to see the snow-covered fields and rooftops.

Zurich's cobbled pathways next to the lake.

Pretty scenes around the city centre.

From the tower of Grossmünster.
The steep climb up the winding stairs took forever,
and it was a torture to be exposed to the freezing gales up there.
Good view though, but the fog and snow reduced the visibility.

Night fell & we were all feeling bloated with swiss cheese fondue,
mulled wine and Glenfiddich Whisky.
Combined with the exhilarating feeling of being out,
while the snow is falling on your face and your eyelashes.
It's like being high & very happy X 2.

A bench covered with fine snow near the club we went to.

After a long night of heavy snow,
the entire city was under snow.
The start of our climb up Uetliberg showcased white alpine trees.

From here, you get to see the swiss alps!

And the city of Zurich. (Evening)

Night-view.

The next morning, we wanted to head to Interlaken,
but the journey will take us 5 hours to & fro.
So, we decided to take it easy- we'll head to Lucern instead.
Thus, we had ample time to make a giant snowman before leaving Zurich.

My virgin attempt. FYI, it was hard work.
Kudos to the generous neighbours who donated the eyes. Haha.
But poor snowman didnt survive the day.
It collapsed under the rain. :(

A castle-ish place in Lucern.
I'm not entirely sure because...
I was trudging around in utterly wet & freezing feet & legs,
after rolling around in the snow that morning.

It's a beautiful city which looks like it came right out of a fairytale.

Back to Zurich at night for dinner with our hosts.
This is in the old city with ethereal lights.

Switzerland, or more so, Zurich reminded me very much of Munich, Germany. It's really pleasant, safe, clean and efficient, plus all the gorgeous scenery which is a huge bonus. I have a sneaking feeling that I like Munich & Zurich very much because it reminded much of home. Not in terms of looks, but how things are run smoothly like well-oiled engines. Living in the UK really makes you appreciate how sheltered and protected everyone is in Singapore.

Cumberland sausages, multicoloured sheep & giant yorkshire puddings

I arrived in Manchester after a back-breaking 4.5hour bus ride from London Victoria. We were made to change coaches even! Even after almost 3 months, I still refuse to tolerate all the inconveniences UK dump on me relentlessly. Why settle for mediocrity? Haha. Anyhow, the Lake District makes up for all of the flaws. - at least just for a weekend. The beauty is just astonishing. You should see the pictures which I've uploaded. These are mere highlights of the sights which I've drunken in greedily.

First stop & first lake at Bowness.

This is the lake where we rented a "speed boat" which doesn't go really fast
so we cruised along gently in the bitingly cold winds,
yelling hellos to all cheery passer-bys in ferry ships & sailing boats.

We took a 4 quid bus ride to Ambleside and embarked on a walking trail.
This is a mountain which we only got to halfway.
It was 4pm and it'd take 2 more hours to get to the summit.
Thanks for the invitation, but no, thank you.

The next day, we were still blessed with glorious weather,
which suited our tour of the area in a mini-van.
Our charming guide, Malcolm showed us 10 lakes & many mountains & valleys.

The autumn colours are gorgeous (in the warm sunshine).
The sunlight brings out the colours,
otherwise everything will look dull & grey,
like the typical english scenery.
To illustrate my point- Look below.

Chester is supposed to be a pretty town on the English border with North Wales,
it is, but its beauty is hidden in the lousy weather & drab greyness.

Friday, November 14, 2008

Konichiwa! Ni Hao!

For some reason, people liked to talk to us while WH & I were in Barcelona. There's the "KONICHIWA!" & "NI HAO!" from strangers who walk passed us, and from uber friendly servers who seem to be befriending every guest in the restaurant. Of course there's "Hola!" from the spanish, but there were also other spanish words thrown in occasionally which we don't understand. Until just now, I remembered to look up the word "bonita" because I heard it from a senor, and to my huge surprise, it means pretty. HAHA.

Anyway, Barcelona is a beautiful city with impressive architecture, good-looking & stylish people, gorgeous weather and delicious (but expensive) food. However it also has a terrifyingly difficult and complicated transport system to navigate, and walls and corners often smell strongly of pee. The air is not very clean and everyone smokes - everywhere! Even on trains. FYI, the city is full of graphic signs telling you to do this, or not to do that. It reminded me very much of Singapore. The only difference is that Singapore imposes FINES, whereas there's no penalty for committing the 'offence'. I suppose that's not an offence if there's no punishment, it's merely undesirable behaviour.

Anyhow, our first stop was Girona, which was a 20min drive from the Girona Airport where Ryanair flies to. Most people skip this town on their itinerary, but I thought it'd be a good place to explore, since we are already there.

WH was hunting for some food for lunch & so we walked into this seemingly authentic spanish bar.
Then, we saw 3 chinese faces staring at us when we walked in, a sudden chatter of mandarin exploded in our ears as they bombarded us with questions of whether we were chinese, where we were from and what we wanted to eat. Eventually, they let us take our seats and we let them decide our meal for us - Fish ball soup and fried dumplings!

How ironic is this? Real chinese food in a catalan town in Spain.

Girona has a river which runs through the centre of town.

Riverside alfresco cafes in the afternoon sun.

This looks like a classic mediterrean postcard picture.

The great walls of Girona, as recommended by our hospitable Chinese friends.

Views from the top.

The walk is really long, so soon it was sunset.

Eventually we made it to the cathedral.

PHEW.

Back to the town centre and day light is scarce.

The bright scarlet bridge which looks really 1940/50s.

Dusk falls and we departed for Barcelona on their rickety train which was 15mins late. The platforms had no lighting & there was no way of us knowing which stop it was. It was a miracle that we were able to reach Barcelona City centre. So, fortunately we survived and we met Melinda & Adrian, (WH's cousin & her husband) who were our host in this Catalan city.

Tapas & beer made me feel better after my 8 hours of torture at the Stansted airport on friday night.

On Sunday, we visited the town centre. And this is la rambla. It's PACKED with tourists and the 2 sides of the streets are lined with street performers and buskers, especially those who dress up to look like statues. Souvenir stalls which scream TOURIST-TRAP were spotted all along the street as well. In the mid section, there were florist shops selling potted plants, flowers and other sort of home decorations. It was a nice place, but it wasn't earth-shatteringly pretty as promised. I thought it looked just like most european shopping streets.

We walked through la rambla, with our arms firmly clutching on to our belongings. The clear blue skies and the picturesque sea revealed itself to us when we reached the port. Together with the warm sunshine, it put us into a fabulous holiday mood. Its such a luxury to be able to enjoy such great weather. We finally understand why the Europeans lie down in the sun every opportunity they get and why the angmohs come to Singapore to bake themselves lobster red. We felt like true Brits, peeling off our outerclothing to make some vitamin D. By the way, the wavy structures lead us to the mall called MareMagum. It was one of the few malls open on a Sunday.

The sea was filled with yachts and other types of small-ships, ignore my lack of vocabulary. I'm ignorant, so sue me. haha. It looked really posh. I guess Sentosa cove will eventually look like that. And is it just me? But the wavy structures reminded me very much of Vivocity. Haha.

SHOPPPPINGGGGGGGG. Lefties! Pull&Bear! Zara! Mango!

Casa Batlló

The Temple Expiatori de la Sagrada Família. I needed to pinch my cheeks to realise that I am standing before this massive structure after seeing this on travel programmes on TV all the time. :) It's REAL! I'm in Barcelona! It is truly one magnificent, breath-taking structure. It was good to look at all the iconic buildings in the city. Antoni Gaudi is a genius.

Chocolate con Churros. It cost me 4 euros. SOB.

Paella for dinner.

Monday was spent shopping for WH's shoes because her shoes were falling apart and she was determined to find a perfect pair of flats despite it being the FALL season. That means that flats were hardly found and the shoes you should buy are BOOTS. Nevertheless, we persevered and trudged through thousands of streets, visited millions of shops and scoured gazillions racks, searching high & low of WH's perfect flats. Thankfully we did manage to get a good pair at a good price. So that was the major achievement of the day.

The original plan, however, was to visit sitiges, which was a quaint coastal town with lovely beaches. The whole shoe shopping episode and our fruitless search for the right station to take the train to our destination resulted in the lack of time. Therefore, we had to make alternative plans. Instead of getting real spanish beaches, we made do with man-made Barcelona beaches.

The promenade which was occupied by posh restuarants and bars.

BEACH! PALM TREES! SUN! SAND! SEA!

Soon, the temperature dropped and we headed to our next destination.

Museum of erotica. Hahaha. I know what you're thinking. I was thinking exactly the same thing. We came here out of curiosity and boy, it was a 5.5euros well-spent. We didnt get any skanky porn content, but we got real information which academics would have been proud of. The highlight was this film which we took great pleasure in watching. Hahaha. It was the beginnings of erotic films and apparently, it was comissioned by the Spanish king- for his own personal enjoyment. The irony was that the film was SO FUNNY! Because it was about this household with a horny mistress who had a pervy husband who refused to have sex with her. The mistress then summons the maid to pleasure her. The husband seduces the maid and the butler seeks the maid out to screw her as well. Apparently the maid is in really high demand- she does every job imaginable in the house. So the husband was having 'fun' with 2 female guests he invited, his wife and the maid & the gardener or butler or servant were having a orgy in the bathroom. The husband went to look for the maid and saw them through the keyhole of the bathroom door. Instead of bursting in on them, he merely watched through the keyhole and started to jack himself. Soon, we got bored and we left. But before this, we saw the ending where the mistress was seducing a priest during a confession session and a fellow priest walked in on them. haha. Hilariousssssss. While we were watching the film, this bunch of Canadian/french boys joined us and we were laughing together, making comments about it. It was a silent film, so some parts were confusing and we were trying to make sense of it. haha.

Day 4 - we decided to visit Montjuic, since I had to leave that evening. Check that out! It's a huge-ass VENDING MACHINE. It has everything you possibly need - condoms, tampons, hair conditioner, toothbrush, body lotion, snacks, drinks, pet food etc etc.

The Castle.

The view of the expansive port below our eyes.

View of Barcelona city from the top of Montjuic- its a monochrome sprawling metropolis. Its generally very flat, with a few of the buildings jutting out. Like the sagrada familia in the centre. It's flanked by mountains at the back and the seas in the south. :) Good fengshui, I approve.