I've been planning to do this post since the end of November, but I've been lacking on the holiday spirit this year. I hated to even admit that, but many others have blogged similar thoughts. So, I don't feel bad anymore. Sad that I'm lacking some spirit, but not bad. There could be a zillion reasons for this or none, but starting Christmas break from school did help. Christmas is coming regardless of my cheer, and I have a little girl who's excitement is contagious, so I did want to share some of the ways we welcome and celebrate Christmas.
Decorations:
I put the tree up Thanksgiving weekend. I love ornaments and love the story they tell. I have several of the Hallmark series, including the Nostalgic Houses and Shops. I started this series after it had been going for about 10 years and had to go to eBay to find ones I was missing. I have almost 30 in this collection, and they were a little much for our tree this year, so I had to pick and choose. Avery gets several Hallmark ornaments each year, and I also add any that have significance to what we've done during that year or where we've travelled.
I also collect Possible Dreams Santas and probably have about 30 of those. My parents have quite a collection as well, some that were passed down from my grandmother. My Santas were slow to come out this year, and again, I did only have to keep little hands away from them.
(Santas in our old house several years ago.)
I haven't done much more than this this year, and I haven't even decorated the mantle. I'm looking forward to decorating the new house and purchasing some new things. I'm not one to go over the top, though. We will have a 2nd tree next year with my silver bells along with Avery's that my parents started for her.
Christmas Cards:
I love to send and receive Christmas cards. I took Avery's picture the first year but have since turned to my trusted Conway Photo to take the pictures and create the cards. Carol always does a
fantastic job. I have several ideas for how to display my cards next year.
Visiting Santa:
We visit the
Legendary Santa each year in Richmond. I went until I was a senior, and it's the same Santa my father saw as a child. Ned and his brother went occasionally too as they grew up.
Elf on the Shelf:
The Elf on the Shelf was a new tradition this year. We've had him for awhile and used him as decoration, but this is the first year we actually carried it out with Avery. Toes, as Avery named him, arrived after the Christmas tree was put up and brought Christmas pajamas with him. Avery knows that each night he goes to tell Santa she's been nice (hopefully), and she loves getting up in the morning to find him. The mention of Toes has no impact on crying, though, so I don't think she's got the whole concept yet. Toes is running out of places to sit since Avery can't touch him and Felix wants to carry him around. Toes is pretty boring compared to some of the elves I've seen on Facebook, but Avery knows no difference.
Christmas Eve:
On Christmas Eve we go to a candlelight service at my church. It was one tradition that I was not willing to budge on when we got married. There is lots of singing and Scripture reading, and at the end we each hold candles and sing
Silent Night. Avery has done well the past two years and I hope she continues. We take her out of places if she becomes a problem, but I much prefer we be together for this special time.
After church we go to my parents' and have hot crab dip for dinner. Lolli fixes something for herself since she's allergic, and Avery hasn't tried shellfish yet, so I guess it's only a yummy tradition for Ned, Poppa, and me.
We come home and put Avery to bed so that we can prepare for Santa. We watch
It's a Wonderful Life while we get everything ready. Santa's snack of cookies and Pepsi with some carrots for the reindeer get set out as well.
Christmas Morning:
We get up Christmas morning and see what Santa has brought. Santa doesn't wrap, so it's a quick process. I'd like to think that Santa has been holding it together pretty well lately and not going overboard. I quickly realized as a parent that kids just don't need a bunch of stuff. Santa brings things that Avery will just love, and that makes it even more special to see. My parents come early to see what he has brought, and usually Ned's will too.
In the past, we've done brunch at Mimi's house. Things got a little crazy with schedules, timing, and trying to get presents done before extended family arrived. This year Mimi, Vincent, and Rob will come to our house around the time my parents do. I'll fix a breakfast casserole, and that may be it so I'm not in the kitchen Christmas morning. Once my parents leave, we'll do presents with them. Christmas falling on a Sunday changes things a bit this year, and we're trying to decide if we'll make it to church. Even though this means more people in my house and more to do, I think it will work much better for us in the long run.
At some point, the three of us will do our gifts to each other before Avery's nap. Once she wakes up we go back to my parents'. We have dinner that night with my dad's sister and her family and my great-uncle. My parents now live in the house my grandparents built, so it's where I've had most of my Christmas dinners. We return home to a mess and are usually too tired to take care of it.

There are always other fun holiday things we do each year, but I hesitate to call them traditions because that puts pressure on me to make sure they're always done. We ride and look at lights, bake, and do other things. I'm sure we'll add things in the future. I've had to adjust expectations for myself now that I'm a mom and realize that sometimes things just don't get done. I really want to serve the Pioneer Woman's Cinnamon Rolls Christmas morning, but I know better than to attempt that this year, being pregnant and in a tiny kitchen. I do love Christmas, even when I'm lacking the spirit, and love that these are things that Avery and new additions to our family will come to love as well.