W and I gave our "welcome to the ward" talks last month. We were given a lot of time to prepare so there wasn't any pressure in that way, but we were given no topic. We were asked to come up with our own topics through our own inspiration. I cringed a little when I heard that. It takes enough personal inspiration to figure out what to share when given a topic, but isn't finding a topic a whole different ballgame? Of course, we agreed to it so we did some searching and tried to be sensitive and open to any inspiration. Sometimes I'm too hard on myself and I doubt all my ideas and my ability to be good at this sort of thing. Then it's funny how when you do the work and try your best things work out and start happening. My talk came together and W's came together. Then when we told each other what we were talking about they had nothing to do with each other. Haha. Oh well. We felt good about what we had separately and somehow they worked together when presented. I think.
Funny little story.
On Sunday morning J woke us up early throwing up.
I thought - 1. Aw, my poor baby. 2. Ew, now I feel like throwing up.
And 3. I guess we're not speaking in church today.
W had other plans.
His logic - C'mon, we've got it all prepared and were ready
so let's just do this and get it over with.
Something about getting it over with was enticing so I listened.
His plan - I go to sacrament meeting and when the youth speaker is done I'll text him. He will jump in the car, drive to church (we live at most 2 minutes away), and wait for me to walk out after my talk. We'll switch keys and cars. I'll go home with the kids. He'll walk in while the congregation sings a rest hymn. Then he'll give his talk and voila we've done it! This seemed doable and J was only given a 5 minute time frame where his puke had to stay down. I agreed.
So I went. I told the bishop our plan and everything started. I listened to the youth speaker. Then I gave my talk. When I was done I grabbed my stuff and walked out as the rest hymn began. I looked for W but didn't see him. I called him.
Me: Where are you?
Him: At home.
Me: Well, I'm done talking and you're up next.
Him: You didn't text me.
Me: Oops. You're right. Sorry. Get here fast.
He throws the kids in the car and zooms down. We switch cars but not keys so I hide the keys in the other car and hope nobody steals it. He sits down to hear the end of the 2nd (and unplanned) rest hymn and then gives his talk. W is better at making awkward moments like that more comfortable so I'm glad it was him and not me.
Why didn't we just have a family member watch the kids at home while we went to church? Well, my mom was planning on coming to our sacrament meeting to watch the kids while we spoke. When she found out J was sick she offered to come to our home to watch the kids, but I just couldn't do that to her or anyone. I couldn't risk her getting sick and I would never make her clean up J's throw up just so we could talk at church. We've received some laughs and compliments about how we made that work. I'm not so sure it worked but we did it and we are done. And for what it's worth, it felt like it went well (the talks, not the timing).