
We will have our court appearance on Monday, March 13th at 11:30 am. That means, if all goes well, that we will be able to take custody of our son on March 28th. Then, I will only have two weeks to get back to the US. They say it takes 10 days after you have custody. We will see.
Today, Momma and Papa made progress being parents. In the morning visit, the children came back from their walk. We had all of our toys out when the children came in. For some reason, some of the caregivers do not want the children to play with the toys. Neither does Maksim. But we don't really mind. Anyway, Maksim starts doing this grunt, grunt, whine, whine thing when one of his friends have one of his toys. I wish we could communicate better. Momma tells Maksim that it is okay if the kids look at his toys. We can share just for a minute. I had him on my lap because he was reaching and grunting. I told him nyet and sit still. He had other toys in his hands. He started freaking out a bit. I tried to calm him unsuccessfully. All one of the caregivers had to say was Maksim. He immediately stopped. I had said that, too. I even used a stern voice. He just doesn't see us as authority figures yet, I am sure.
Well, the children left and Maksim kept going a little crazy. We put away all his toys. He cried. Then he snuggled Momma until he stopped crying and then Papa took him to the window to watch the machina and sing itsy bitsy spider. One temper tantrum averted! Yeah! We felt a bit proud of ourselves. But of course we wonder if we are doing the right thing by redirecting his attention. Do all parents worry about such things - or just newbies??
Jason had a hair appointment at noon today. We went to a fancy salon and met with a nice looking hairdresser who was about 25 years old. I sat and watched while Jason was shampooed and then got a very precise haircut.

While the hairdresser was cutting, Jason kept giving me the
look over there look. I couldn't figure out what the heck he wanted me to look at. There was a 14 year old boy waiting next to me, a young bride getting her hair done, her mom, and several other hairdresser. The hairdressers were dressed in tight pants and high heeled boots...could that be what he wanted me to see?? Finally I spot it. The 14 year old had a Playboy. Just calmly reading it in the middle of the salon. His eyes were bugging out. We couldn't stop laughing. We were trying to contain it because we didn't want Jason's hairdresser to think we were laughing at him. Funnn - nnny.
The afternoon visit was more of the same. Except..Semyone's car needed to be fixed so his Dad picked us up instead...in a Mercedes. We really did feel like the "rich people". That is a running joke with Semyone and us. He drops us off at the front door of the baby house. We give the "rich people" signal (it is our hessian/heavy metal sign). Kazakhstan just instituted a selt belt requirment law! yeah! We don't have to hurt anyones feeling to buckle up. :)
Maksim is very sweet and we read lots of books today. We also looked at a bunch of the pictures that we had printed up from our visits. He really liked looking at himself and the other kids. He almost know the Miss Spider's New car book by heart. We read it for Lena today. She liked it. Maksim enjoyed showing off. It was the first time that he would do any of his cute things for other people. We were so proud!!
2 more days of visits and then court! We couldn't be more excited. :)
Can't do pics...try again later...
Okay only a couple - I don't know why