If you are thinking about single motherhood or have already decided to become a Single Mother by Choice, you don’t have to be alone on your journey. For over 40 years, Single Mothers by Choice has been a trusted source of support and welcoming community, empowering thousands of SMCs around the world.

  • Thinking?

    You do not have to go through this decision-making process by yourself. So many of our members tell us that they wish they had joined SMC earlier.

  • Trying?

    Trying to Conceive (TTC) or Adopt can be a stressful time. There are so many potential ups and downs in the process.

  • Pregnant?

    When you become pregnant as a single woman, it can feel like a great accomplishment. It can also feel a bit lonely at times.

  • Parenting?

    You may be a single parent but you don’t need to parent alone. No one can know what it’s like to be the sole parent quite as well as another sole parent.

Latest Posts

  • Shortly after announcing my intention to become a single mother, a friend of mine lent me a DVD of The Backup Plan, a far-fetched romantic comedy about a woman who made the same decision to go it alone, only to meet Mr. Right an hour after getting knocked up. Some of the best scenes in…

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  • On Saint Patrick’s Day sixteen years ago, towards the end of a busy workday, my mother busted me for frozen sperm.  I was moving around a lot at the time and had had all my mail forwarded to her house.  If there is one thing that my retired librarian mother was good at, it was…

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“I've been part of the SMC community since I was thinking about getting pregnant. They always have my back with useful, nuanced advice, trustworthy info, and personal experience. I feel honored to be a member, and to see all the children grow up alongside mine.”

– Sophie Holland