* Happy Vesak Day *

spent the last wkend over at Kukup. had loads of fun and laughter.
It'd be even better if my boy was there. e chalet was bigger than i thought and not as dirty as what Kym said. if u've more than 10 ppl gg on chalet, this would be recommended. everything including food and transport was arranged by them. We were like prince & princess having ppl to cook for us and take our orders. lol. pretty cool.

http://kukupnet.tripod.com/haitang.htm

Bad day.
God if you are watching us, pls give us a hand.

very sleepy. no mood to work.

was reading through this article. interesting.

A relationship is very tricky. Tensions build up over time and one day both the partners cannot bear the stress of the relationship and give it up. After that they keep thinking about why that happened. Why not secure the relationship right from the beginning. Every relationship will have pluses and minuses. Our objective should be to build the pluses. The minuses will then become insignificant. What are the factors that may positively influence a relationship? Let us write them down.

Maintain awareness of feelings of each other.

If you are trying to be perfect, do not do that. That causes stresses. Accept that both of you are imperfect.

Talking about breakup up in heat of the moment is wrong. One should rather avoid talking about breaking up altogether. Avoid discussing about any break up your friends have. Do not focus on any negative. Focus on positives.
Be compassionate towards each other. Take care of the mood swings and do not create tension over small things. Try to ease the atmosphere. Show care towards other person.

Lying about anything should be absolute no. Do not even try to hide things. Be totally open about everything. Never develop any trust deficit.

Always end the day on a happy note. Do not let any misunderstanding open at the end of the day. Clear up all the mess and apologize if needed.
Know all about your partner’s likes and dislikes. If there is a conflict between what you like and what your partner likes, discuss that openly. Surrender if required. Ego in small matters never helped any one. You will feel better if you give happiness to your partner.

Go by your good instinct. Avoid thinking and dwelling upon negatives. Think of the world as a good place and your relationship as a great one.

had a really hectic weekends.......

slept at almost 1 on Friday night and woke up at 5.30 on Saturday - CMA car rally, Auto Quest.
total 9 cars going round Singapore Island searching for answers. this was crazy. Our car got the lowest score of 30/100 but we enjoyed ourselves. Especially with Hooi Kiang around, our jokes & laughter nv end. We even went to Army Museum and played the rifle with full scoring and target down! pretty cool. Headed to Bayshore Park condo, the ending point and had our buffet lunch and team building game. As usual, 1 piece of A3 paper given and team members to stand inside and within the space. Our group again e first 1 to fall apart. lol.

After event, had myself rushing down to Bukit Timah Plaze like crazy women. Supposing appt was at 2.30pm but i reached only at 4.20pm due to stupid traffic jam. Looking at e traffic + driver continuous stopping and moving off, i actually dozed off. too tired... Afterall, i still colored my hair and went to far east with xian & bin. Luckily I'm able to get what i wanted for Chris's wedding, dress, shoes etc... reached home very late and went straight to bed after shower.

Woke up at 5 am to prepare and to meet Wan Ting. she only woke up when i was ready to leave hse at 6. -____-lll So, gonna wait for her and pick me up at my hse to Chris's hse. thr it goes all e groom teasing time and tea serving ceremony blah blah blah. by that time i was only half awake, dying to get home n sleep.

Finally, no more stress now.
I hope time will fast forward itself to Saturday. Hope my boy is doing fine. Love u baby and thanks for ur love. Im so fortunate to ve u.

yan ting got into sia flight stewardess without informing me that she went for e interview. I wanted to go too and it's has always been my childhood ambition but i always chicken out... due many many reasons, study maritime n currently getting degree in maritime, if i choose tt path all $ spent in taking e course & bank loan will go to waste. anyway it'll be good to be doing e job u enjoy doing. =) well done girl!

wait 1 day when i've e courage i'll go but life too short for women. my youth cant wait..... so fast 22 this year. i shall think about it.
my boy will be sad if i go n i cant imagine for not seeing him for 1 mth. i'll emo too. god, i need your guidance.....

anyway its friday! day to be happy about but i wun get to c dear over e wkend. so .......... hai.

last Monday i rushed back home and intended to go swimming. i changed into my swim suit n walked to anchorvale swimming complex. but e pool was so quiet with all e lights off. board says:"pool closed on Monday"
-___-lll

ytd my colleagues sent me home n i was early. so i pack my bag n went swimming again and as usual, very crowded. hate it when insects appear on e water. yucks. i even saw dragonfly. grr.

i hope everything goes smooth for Dear. miss u...

i rmb i had nightmare last night n tried for to force open my eyes but now i cant rmb wad i dreamt. weird.

work so kinda boring recently *keep my finger cross* maybe i was so used to being busy e whole day.

e week starts all over again, begin with Monday...

went out with xian & bin on friday. we all bought koi at Chinatown. becos its our fav and current most "IN" demand, we dun care about image or e humid weather and got ourselve q-ing for dunno how long. lol. after tt went to this korean restaurant and get some bites. e korean waiter was introducing their local rice wine. it tastes like beer but very much better and nicer. i Like it. =) then, we end our night at bliss punggol park.

sat was with my boy. went to his house in e afternoon and went out with jes, sl, dom, ber & yikai. had our dinner at Alpscafe. was planning of heading to Le Bar to finish tt 3/4 bottle we leftover e other time but it was gone n due to e place was fulled, we got no whr to go. haha. hence, we went over to ve selegie beancurd. took cab back and spent rest of e weekend with my darling boy.

love u baby. =)

thanks to ping mei mei i've realised no entry was posted for 1 good whole year. last entry posted on 13 May 2009 which is e same date as today. haha. found some fotos in photobucket... he he he

my boy. =)