A deep, tender, ineffable feeling of affection and solicitude toward a person, such as that arising from kinship, recognition of attractive qualities, or a sense of underlying oneness.
hate(hāt) [noun]
the emotion of intense dislike; a feeling of dislike so strong that it demands action
affair(əˈfɛər) [noun]
anything done or to be done; anything requiring action or effort; business; concern: an affair of great importance.