Sunday Book Review – Bad Date: A short story by Ellery Lloyd #DomesticThriller

Welcome to my Sunday Book Review. Today I’m reviewing a short story I enjoyed by the writing team of Ellery Lloyd. This book was a bonus read I’d chosen from Amazon First Reads.

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An online flirtation between two apparent strangers takes a deliciously wicked turn in a twisty short story about love, obsession, and deadly deceptions by the author of The Club.

Fay Roper is a divorced single mom and a globally famous actress. She’s also unlucky in love. Maybe because the last thing Fay wants in a man is yet another superfan. But somehow, every time she has a boyfriend who isn’t a stalker, he abruptly disappears from her life. With the help of her best friend and right-hand woman, Poppy, Fay decides to change the game and join an exclusive new dating app under a false identity. A subscriber named Oliver takes the bait. But Oliver likes to play games too. And only one of them can win.

The dark side of dating apps. This was an engaging read . Fay and Poppy are good friends. Poppy is Fay’s assistant. Fay longs to find a good relationship with a man, but because of her fame, she never feels if one is really into her, or just her stardom. The two run a podcast together.

Poppy sets up a fake profile for Fay on an upscale dating site, in hopes to find someone who isn’t star struck for Fay to meet. It seems that none of Fay’s other dates ‘ended’ very well. But Poppy and Fay aren’t the only ones trying to fool people either. Enter Oliver who answers to her ad on the ritzy site. Oliver has done his homework and knows all about Fay, to the extent that he even befriends her young son, Wolf, through online gaming. He knows all about Fay and plays it very cool when he first meets her. But when Fay finally invites Ollie over to her house, the game changes.

A nicely wrapped up short story that kept me turning the pages.

©DGKaye2025

Smorgasbord Blog Magazine – Health and Safety – #Mobiles #Email Digital Communications and Permissions by D.G. Kaye

Today I’m sharing my latest post in my Health and Safety Awareness series at Sally Cronin’s Smorgasbord Blog Magazine. In this post I’m sharing some great information about how to get rid of those pesky Big Brother follows on your mobile phones.

Have I Been Hacked? Email Check!

Welcome back to my Safety and Awareness series. In the first few posts of this series, I discussed scams and travel hacks for safety. In this post I’d like to elaborate on being aware of our privacy and hacks to help with that on our digital devices.

I discovered a helpful YouTuber, Mr. Useful Things, and his discoveries are always worthy. His directives are plain and simple and easy to follow. Just what I like. His tutorials are demonstrated in both Android and IOS.

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So, I watch a lot of YouTube to obtain global news from reliable journalists to get the news most cable media news sensationalists don’t bother to or have no time to cover, as so much oxygen is sucked out in media. As I search through videos I follow on YouTube, in numerous categories of favs, often one of the most helpful tech guys I now follow does videos on phone safety. He shows us things that are going on in the insides of our phones, things we’d never think of to protect our privacy.

When I was searching for a particular how to video, a video from ‘Useful Things’ popped up asking if we know if our email addresses have been publicly exposed. He offered a simple link to a website he shared to find out whether our email addresses have been sold on the dark web. We just enter our email address, or as in my case – addresses, to discover if and where our emails have been exploited. I have three email addresses. I was stunned to find that my professional email addresses WERE NOT, and my private one were stolen. It is truly amazing how vulnerable we all are thanks to technological spies and hackers.

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I’ve learned through these videos that many apps we use as writers, as well as many others, sell our information – our habits, purchases, likes, dislikes, etc., to other companies so they too can fill us with ads to attempt to get our attention and business. You’d be surprised to learn how clean, friendly apps still steal from us.

Do you ever wonder why you may be surfing the net online shopping and the items you looked at seem to follow you everywhere in ads? According to Mr. Useful Things, another huge reason is because when our phones are on, ‘they’re’ listening to things we are watching and doing. I kid you not! Yes! Our phones are spying on us just being in a room with us or on our person. . . please continue reading how to stop being followed by digital spies on your phones at Sally’s Smorgasbord

©DGKaye2025

Sunday Book Review – Bogie in a Human World: He’s a Cat by Cheryl Spears #humor #newrelease

Welcome to my Sunday Book Review. Today I’m happy to share a humorous book by Cheryl Spears. Cheryl is a friend of mine who is primarily a children’s author with her Finn the Kitty books. But Cheryl has strayed for this new Bogie series, more geared toward ages teens and up. A lot of scarcastic humor here from Bogie the Cat.

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Bogie’s Verdict: Humans are clumsy, noisy, emotionally confusing—and occasionally delightful, especially when snacks are involved. He’s not signing up to join their chaotic species full-time, but he’ll supervise from a sunlit window ledge, tail curled, eyes half-closed, secretly entertained. While Bogie may never truly understand humanity, he has enough material to fuel his perceptions for nine lives—and then some.

This book is hilarious.

Honestly, I’m not much of a feline person, but that didn’t stop me from reading this humorous telling from Bogie about how he really feels about life and people. As he likes to refer to himself as a ‘therapist with fur’, Bogie isn’t shy to tell us how he feels about his cushy cat life. He shares what makes him happy, what puzzles him, what pisses him off, and even provides a day in the life of his life list to let us know exactly how he spends his day. He’ll even rate some of the things he particular likes and dislikes, complete with paws to demonstrate his ratings. Bogie isn’t shy to tell us about naps, distractions on humans, the importance of hanging out on a keyboard, or share his complaints about vacuum cleaners.

The cartoon illustrations in this book are both clever and funny. Bogie sets the rules straight about what he will and will not put up with. So, if you are sometimes miffed a little about what cats are thinking, how they spend their days, their judgments, preferences, and dislikes, Bogie will give you his unfettered truth. And the bonus with all this is that Bogie is actually hilarious.

©DGKaye2025

August Writer’s Tips – #Keywords and Uploading on #Amazon, #Punctuation – Apostrophes, #Blogging Maintenance, #Citations

Welcome back to my Writer’s Tips collection I’m sharing for August. In this share, Deborah Jay in her self-publishing tutorials shares How to Choose Keywords for our books on Amazon, as well as How to Download our files to Amazon. Hugh Roberts talks about the importance of doing Blog Maintenance, and Diana Peach in her Punctuation series at the Story Empire, gives a tutorial on the use of apostrophes. Brenda Fluharty shares a comprehensive tutorial on citations and how to for Non Fiction books.

©DGKaye2025

Sunday Book Review – Round and Round by Terry Tyler #Womensfiction

Welcome to my Sunday Book Review. Today I’m reviewing Terry Tyler’s book – Round and Round. A story about the choices we make in life about relationships.

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Four Valentine cards – from four different men!

Sophie Heron’s fortieth birthday is looming, and she is fed up with her job, her relationship, her whole life – not to mention her boyfriend’s new ‘hobby’, in which she definitely doesn’t want to get involved…

Back in 1998 she had the choice of four men, and now she can’t help wondering how her life might have turned out if she’d chosen differently.

The person to whom Sophie had always been closest was her beloved Auntie Flick, her second mother, friend and advisor. Before her death in 2001, Flick said, “when I’m up there having a cuppa with St Peter, I’ll have a word with him about making me your guardian angel, shall I?”

As Sophie’s fortieth birthday draws near, she visits her aunt’s special place: a tree by a river, hidden from the world. Here she calls on Auntie Flick to show her the way forward – and help her look back into the past so she can see what might have been…

What if? How many of us look back at the choices we made that led up to the life we’re living and wonder how life would be different if we just made that other choice? And how about, if we really paid attention to our partner’s real loyalty?

As Sophie’s fortieth birthday approaches she finds herself re-evaluating her life and the choices she made back when in 1998 – fifteen years ago. What if Sophie had chosen a different partner when she was younger from the four men who’d sent her Valentine cards?

In 1998 Sophie’s life was taking on good shape. She’d lost the weight she’d hoped to, got a new marketing job offer, and a part in a local play. She was living with Chris – and Seb, while she was working out of town. She soon meets Neil and Kieran too.

As we get into Sophie’s busy social life and happy days back in the late 90s and all the men in her life, she’s living with Chris and decides to stay with him through the years to current 2013. Now, Sophie has finally realized their relationship has gone stale long ago and as her 40th birthday is fast approaching, Sophie reminisces on the past men who entered her life, and the what ifs she thinks would have happened had she chose to be with any of the others.

Now, their sex life is boring or non-existent, and Chris developed a new interest in something kinky, which Sophie has no interest in.

Sophie looks to her guardian angel, her deceased Aunty Flick for advice, at her favorite Angel tree by the river as she shares about her unhappy relationship with Chris. Guardian angels have a way of looking back and showing Sophie how her life would have been different if she’d chosen one of the other three men, making us wonder if life would have been better on the other side of the fence.

A relatable and enjoyable read. I think many of us have wondered at some point how our lives would be different if we’d made other choices. This is a story about choices.

©DGKaye2025

Digital Madness – Help Yourself to My Money

This could be a rant.

There’s a new kind of business going on whereby when once upon a time I’d receive an email from a company with an invoice for upcoming renewals, but now they just help themselves to my credit card. I’m noticing some companies getting really sneaky about this. What happens is companies who have our Visa card numbers stored, send receipt letting us know our card was charged instead of sending an invoice first to inform it’s renewal time AND WHAT THE CHARGE WILL BE.

First of all, I hate auto-renewal on anything. When you go on auto-renewal, unless you are informed that the price will remain the same, companies charge top dollar, despite coupon discounts available right online.

Over the years I’ve changed my anti-virus company a few times. But for some years now I’ve been quite happy using Bitdefender. They’re protection is great, and service was great when you could talk to support on the phone, now they make things so much harder.

So, I noticed at last year’s renewal, they sent me an email notice saying the renewal date was coming, and told me on such and such date, they’d be charging me for renewal. This gave me time to call them and ask them for a discount code or I was leaving. I also told them that I DON’T wish to be on auto-renewal, and they told me they turned it off. Yes, THEY turned it off because the customer has somehow lost the ability to do so. Only, it was turned back on without my permission or knowledge.

Two Fridays ago I got an email from them stating my Visa has been charged for the August 16th renewal. AT TOP DOLLAR. $110 to be exact, when I always pay 50 or 60 dollars. I first went into my dashboard at Bitdefender and saw that I was on auto-renewal, and the box was not clickable to turn it off. I was trapped. I also saw my renewal date was three weeks away.

I replied to billing that I want a refund. I also wasted two hours on phone first trying to connect with them, then getting disconnected until I finally got a human, and then another helpful guy – finally. He said he could no longer give out codes, nor could he unlock my choice of auto-renewal. And he told me Bitdefender will come back to me in a day or two with the refund and make me a better offer. They did.

The next day I received an email from them asking if I’d stay, they’ll refund me $50. I replied I’d accept that, but I want that bloody auto-renewal OFF my account. They said they’d do that, but they said that last year too and suddenly, I was locked in.

It really irks me when people help themselves to my money. We live in a world of greed to the max. Ads a plenty to get your new business and give you goodies to do so. But once you become a loyal customer, forget it. You have to fight for a discount – even to stop them helping themselves to our Visa cards.

Why is everything so difficult? Oh, maybe because there’s too many auto robots involved in our lives that aren’t equipped to think or act like humans. I for one, am tired of it! Gone are the days when we get a billing with a good offer to renew a service we use daily. Just send a note letting us know you’ve helped yourself to our money with a number we weren’t informed about. Then keep locking us in. This is BAD business policy. And I surely let them know.

Sure, I was credited, and supposedly, unlocked – until such time they decide to re-lock me in as they did last year. But if I didn’t fight it, they win. How many people do we think have the inclination to go through these hoops every time a renewal comes? Yes, not many, and that’s what these companies hope for – passive people who keep taking what they’re dishing out. Not this girl!

I do hope all of you keep track of your upcoming billings. Have any of you encountered similar situations?

©DGKaye 2025

Sunday Book Review – The Stranger in the Lifeboat by Mitch Albom #spiritual #mystical #mystery

Welcome to my Sunday Book Review. A beautiful story from famed author Mitch Albom – The Stranger in the Lifeboat. A wonderful story about trust and faith when nine people are shipwrecked on a lifeboat, they discover a lone man floating in the waves and pull him into their boat. The man claims he’s the Lord, but do they believe him?

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#1 New York Times Bestseller

What would happen if we called on God for help and God actually appeared? In Mitch Albom’s profound new novel of hope and faith, a group of shipwrecked passengers pull a strange man from the sea. He claims to be “the Lord.” And he says he can only save them if they all believe in him.

Adrift in a raft after a deadly ship explosion, ten people struggle for survival at sea. Three days pass. Short on water, food and hope, they spot a man floating in the waves. They pull him in.

“Thank the Lord we found you,” a passenger says.

“I am the Lord,” the man whispers.

So begins Mitch Albom’s most beguiling novel yet.

Albom has written of heaven in the celebrated number one bestsellers The Five People You Meet in Heaven and The First Phone Call from Heaven. Now, for the first time in his fiction, he ponders what we would do if, after crying out for divine help, God actually appeared before us?

In The Stranger in the Lifeboat, Albom keeps us guessing until the end: Is this strange man really who he claims to be? What actually happened to cause the explosion? Are the survivors in heaven, or are they in hell? The story is narrated by Benji, one of the passengers, who recounts the events in a notebook that is discovered—a year later—when the empty life raft washes up on the island of Montserrat. It falls to the island’s chief inspector, Jarty LeFleur, a man battling his own demons, to solve the mystery of what really happened. 

A fast-paced, compelling novel that makes you ponder your deepest beliefs, The Stranger in the Lifeboat suggests that answers to our prayers may be found where we least expect them.

It begins with nine people in a lifeboat. They survived the explosion on Jason Lambert’s luxury yacht. Survivors are a mix of the wealthy and famous who attended the private yacht party and staff crew. After the third day surviving on a lifeboat, they notice a man struggling in the waves and reel him into their boat. He calls himself The Lord.

The story is written in parts and subheaded under three recurring categories through the book – land, sea, and news. Cleverly written, chapter of ‘the sea’ take us into the action with the survivors, and their struggles of survival on the lifeboat. The ‘land’ chapters go into the investigation of the exploded ship after the lifeboat is found washed up on shore a year later. Empty. And the ‘news’ chapters are commentation on how the incident was reported on the missing people.

The stranger in the lifeboat they picked up from the ocean creates great mystery for the passengers. Some are believers, others are skeptics wondering, if this man was The Lord, why didn’t he help them? A test of faith. Despite a tiny few mysterious moments experienced in the man’s presence, the stranded are miffed whether those moments were miracles or Mother Nature taking its course. There are many subliminal messages in this book and tests relating to belief, compassion, life, death, despair, faith, and of course, skepticism. The story is narrated by one of the yacht’s crew, Benji at sea, writing in a notebook to his beloved Annabelle. Benji kept notes of the survival journey. Inspector Jarty LeFleur narrates the ‘land’ chapters. And is left investigating what exactly happened on that lifeboat that washed up to shore a year later.

The story makes us question our own beliefs because of the Stranger and the situation, and the ending is left for each individual reader to imagine. A great storyline and characters.

©DGKaye2025

Grief – What Do You Wish You Knew About Grief Before Losing Your Spouse?

The title of this post was a question I came across recently on one of the widow forums I visit occasionally. It made me pause for a moment, but then I realized, there is absolutely not one thing that could have prepared me for the loss of my husband, even if I thought I could prepare.

I recently finished first draft of my newest and upcoming book, days before I lost my best friend to an aggressive and too late detected deadly cancer. I’m actually still in the shock and rage stages of disbelief and non-acceptance. Needless to say, doing revisions has been a struggle. My upcoming (eventually) book talks about the many stages of grief, in no particular order, and sure to revisit the stages, randomly, repeatedly, and most likely, forever.

I haven’t spoken much about my book since it became a WIP, and truthfully, I now think I need to add a chapter titled – Grief on Top of Grief or I feel I’d be remiss. And most definitely, there must be a new memoir written, titled – Sanja and Me.

As a writer, I feel like I want to jam more into my current book, because my recent giant loss is at the forefront of my mind. But as a writer, I have to remember, this book is about grief and its many faces, common stages grievers experience, as well as the changes that occur for us after going through something that alters our life, not specifically about my husband, but my own endurance through grief. Because I have the unfortunate experience of speaking first-hand, I mention my beloved husband in instances when I’m referring to something I experienced from certain situations. This is not a book about my memoir with my husband, or my best friend; it’s about the aftermath of what happens to those of us who are left behind.

So, again, in answer to the question of preparing for grief. You can’t. Because we are all human and all hold various emotions within, and we’re all wired differently. Love is different for everyone, just as grief will be. And to add to my statement, I watched my husband fade away daily for months during horrid Covid before I could get him in a hospital – TOO LATE. Through that time I was already living in anticipatory grief – the grief of knowing you’re losing someone, before they’re gone. That’s the preliminary grief before the actual loss. It’s a beast of its own ilk and only a precursor to what grief after loss is. So, to sum it up tidily, nobody could have prepared me for the aftermath of loss.

One author who I’ve read some of his wonderful books on grief, sums it up nicely:

“Loss is shocking, even if we think we’re prepared for it. The death of someone we love is stunning and momentarily paralyzing.” ~Gary Roe, The Grief Guidebook

Paralyzing is an apt word.

©DGKaye2025