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NaNoWriMo and Movember

The last day of November means different things to different people—the start of December, the rush to Christmas shopping, and winter is coming.

What does it mean for me this year? It’s the end of two global events that happened over the month of November. One, I participated in; one, I didn’t.

The first is National Novel Writing Month, better known as “NaNoWriMo.” The event has the tagline of “Thirty days and nights of literary abandon!” I liken it to “vomiting out a novel” in a month’s time.  Participants begin writing on November 1st with the goal to write a 50,000-word novel by 11:59:59, November 30th.

The main objective of NaNoWriMo is output. It’s about quantity, not quality. Given this, anyone can join and is encouraged to write with abandon, take risks, and most importantly—forget their internal editor. There are very few rules, but a couple of key ones are you must start from scratch (no previously written work can be included in the NaNoWriMo draft), and you can’t write the same word 50,000 times. Sounds simple, right?

It was November 5th before I signed up for the event. I had a lull in my writing at the time and thought it might be worthwhile to see if I could do this. There are no prizes, only the satisfaction of accomplishment. I connected with a NaNoWriMo group in Toronto on Twitter—its members tweeting frantically each day about their hardships, progress, and word count. Some had made friends through the event and were meeting at local coffee shops to write together. It was a real community of writers and non-writers who wanted to encourage each other to make their goals.

I tried really hard to get myself wrapped up in the excitement, but by November 16th—I was out.  I felt bad because I’m not a quitter, but I had been wrestling with the idea of continuing, deluding myself into thinking my 9,000+ word manuscript could later be transformed from pure shite to something brilliant. Who was I kidding?

I have since filed that draft in a folder entitled “NaNoWriMo 2010,” and there it will stay—probably forever. It was an interesting experience but not one that I will likely repeat. I know the way I write—slow, methodical, anal at times. I can’t regurgitate words onto a page and not be able to make changes to it as I write, but that’s just me. I certainly applaud those who can do it.

If anyone feels they would like to give NaNoWriMo a shot, you can always register early for next year!

The second event is Movember, a word created from Mo, slang for moustache, and November.

The idea for Movember originated in 2003 in Australia.  The plan was to bring the moustache back as a bit of a joke and do something for men’s health.

The rules are simple, start out clean-shaven on the 1st of November and grow a moustache for thirty days. As with other causes that are represented by different-colored ribbons, the moustache is symbolic of the ribbon to raise awareness and funds for prostate cancer.

I remember first learning about Movember at my workplace in 2007. I walked into the staff kitchen and saw poor-quality photocopies of celebrities plastered all over the walls. Among them were Brad Pitt, Johnny Depp, and Pierce Brosnan—all of them sporting moustaches with the word “Movember” written above each of their pictures.  If nothing else, it created a buzz in the office. No one was aware of the association of Movember with prostate cancer at the time.

Coming from the banking environment, I know what a healthy dose of competition among corporate rivals can bring. The drive to outdo each other in raising the most money for a worthy cause is fierce among bankers. Teams are formed who compete against other teams within the same organization. Banks also compete with other banks and companies for bragging rights and recognition. All of this has helped to grow a grassroots movement into something much bigger—awareness for prostate cancer backed by corporate sponsorship dollars.

Globally, the 2009 Movember campaign raised more than $38 million, with $7.2 million collected in Canada. It was also a Canadian bank that ranked as the No. 2 fundraiser in the world for prostate cancer research last year.

Though I didn’t participate in the event, I’m going to research what I can do the next time November rolls around. I think I could convince Ramone to look good with a moustache.

To my friends who have been growing their ‘staches over the month—YOU GUYS ROCK!

A special shout-out to Mr. P – Congrats on being cancer-free since December 2002.  WOOHOO! HIP HIP HOORAY! HIP HIP HOORAY!

It’s not too late to donate to a Mo Bro. You can also support the cause to end prostate cancer by visiting www.prosatecancer.ca.

Stay sexy,

Eden

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Succulent Wild Woman: Beth Mairs

I went to a fabulous bash at the Gladstone Hotel on the weekend. It was to celebrate the twentieth year of Wild Women Expeditions—a company that organizes outdoor adventure trips exclusively for women. The evening accomplished many things. Among them were:

– Approximately two hundred Wild Women who had not seen each other in years were able to reconnect.
– Founder, Beth Mairs, had passed the torch over to new owner, Jennifer Brammer, and many got a chance to meet Jennifer for the first time.
– Proceeds for the event were used to help fund Beth’s documentary film called Does This Canoe Make Me Look Fat?, which is being produced under her new company, BAM North Productions.

Now, isn’t that a fantastic name for a film? I loved it the first time I heard it, and the powers that be must have loved it too. It’s been confirmed at the National Film Board for a screening with a top producer this December!

I am not one of the Wild Women; I’ve never taken a trip. My association with Beth has been through my husband who has worked on WWE print media for the past fifteen years. I have only met Beth a handful of times, had her over for dinner, and all I can say is—what a firecracker! She has one of those indomitable spirits that is difficult to forget long after she has left the room. With an exuberant laugh and energy to burn, it’s no wonder she’s successfully helmed WWE for as long as she has.

Beth has forged something unique for women in a male-dominated industry, and she has thrived! That unfailing determination is without a doubt, what will make her successful in the film business. It’s obvious from the turnout at Saturday’s event that she has built some strong bonds over the years, and those relationships will continue to move her forward.

Beth Mairs—fun-loving visionary who loves eating my home-baked cookies—I salute you.

Stay sexy,

Eden

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When did I become such a geek?

For the past week, I’ve been immersed in total “geekdom.” I’ve researched blogs, googled plug-ins, and watched countless Youtube videos on how to insert widgets. If you didn’t know any better, you might think I was researching my next book, perhaps a story about two men and their foray into some new sexual position. Unfortunately, it was nothing that exciting. It’s all been part of the language I’ve had to learn to market a book in today’s virtual age.

As the end of the week rolled around, I thought I had gotten some reprieve when Ramone and I went out for dinner at Enoteca Sociale. We had never tried it, and it was a neighborhood place that had gotten some great reviews. The atmosphere was lively, the food fantastic, and the service exemplary. So…what did we talk about? Flash, iframe, JavaScript, HTML, badges, and more on the differences between widgets and plug-ins!

Oy! My brain was fried. I couldn’t believe I had turned into such a geek.

Back in high school, the word “geek” meant the opposite of “cool.” Geeks were the weird kids whom I had envisioned living in their parents’ basements, playing with their imaginary friends, and being part of the chess club because no other club would let them join. Had I become one of them? Well, I didn’t live in the basement, but I did have imaginary friends. Come to think of it…I was also in the chess club.

Damn.

 

Stay sexy,

Eden

 

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Ben McNally Books—A beautiful store

Ben McNally Books is a treasure in the hubbub of downtown Toronto. Located on Bay St., just south of Richmond, it’s only been around for three years. The owner, Ben McNally, however, is no stranger to the book trade. I won’t go into his history here as I’m sure he can tell you himself. What I’d like to say is how delighted I was to learn of his store’s existence. If you’re a lover of books like I am, you will find the place truly seductive.

In Ben’s wonderful space, I attended a unique event generously hosted by the law firm of Torkin Manes. In the midst of wine and cocktails, Ben gave his picks for the best non-fiction and fiction books—“20 Books in 20 Minutes.” He provided a synopsis of each one, using a blend of wit and dry humor to describe some of the season’s most interesting new titles.

Along with the other participants (approximately 80 people), I jotted down notes on the handout Ben provided listing the books he was to discuss. I made sure to put asterisks next to the ones that sounded the most fascinating. The problem was—they all fascinated me!

I’m not usually a reader of non-fiction, and the titles he highlighted were an eclectic mix covering topics such as surfing, oceans, and the Group of Seven. In the fiction category, there was an equally broad range of subject matter. I have included the list that Ben provided at the end of this post.

It is obvious that Ben is a passionate purveyor of books. It comes across in his unique and thoughtful summaries of the titles he recommended. It’s one thing to love a particular book; it’s another to convince others of how truly great it is. Without going into any sales pitches, he made me want to buy every single one on the list. Judging from the line-up at the cashier after his presentation, I don’t think I was the only one.

I recommend you drop by his store the next time you’re in the area. It’s a wonderful place of discovery. So many books, so little time …

Stay sexy,

Eden

Note: There are actually 21 books—we got a bonus for our 20 minutes!

Non-fiction Titles Author
Monsoon Robert Kaplan
Atlantic Simon Winchester
Paper Garden Molly Peacock
Memory Chalet Tony Judt
Madman and Butcher Tim Cook
At Home Bill Bryson
Cleopatra Stacy Schiff
Wave Susan Casey
Tiger John Vaillant
Defiant Spirits Ross King
Gold Diggers Charlotte Gray
Fiction Titles Author
Room Emma Donoghue
The Beauty of Humanity Movement Camilla Gibb
On the Proper Use of Stars Dominique Fortier
Fall of Giants Ken Follett
To the End of the Land David Grossman
Lady Matador’s Hotel Christina Garcia
The Thousand Autumns of Jacob de Zoet David Mitchell
Day for Night Frederick Reiken
The Same River Twice Ted Mooney
Between Summer’s Longing and Winter’s End Leif Persson

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Bookstores

I thought to give you a break from ranting about my blog setup, and tell you about what inspires me.  There are many things that inspire me on a day-to-day basis, but they don’t always motivate me to write. Tonight, however, I feel very excited about a cocktail event I am attending that’s being hosted by a friend’s law firm. How is this inspiring, you may ask? Well…it’s being held at a bookstore called Ben McNally Books. I’ve never been there, but I’m quite looking forward to it. I love bookstores—always have.

The event is being billed as “Ben will share 20 Books in 20 Minutes,” and will showcase some of the season’s most interesting new titles. Wow, this gets my juices going! It reminds me of when I was a kid in grade school. I recall sitting in a group with all the other kids on the classroom floor, listening as the teacher read from the Scholastic pick of the week. I loved it!

Even the tiniest of independent bookstores (and there are fewer and fewer of them around, unfortunately) may carry books written by authors who have been dead for centuries.  I don’t know about you, but I find that pretty amazing—the legacy an author leaves behind with just words on a few hundred pages.

I like the feeling of creative energy surrounding me. This may sound a bit “out there” to some, but I feel the spirits of writers of the past in bookstores. I can only hope to soak up a tiny bit of that creative energy for my own writing.

Stay sexy,

Eden

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Hallelujah

There are so many songs that I have going through my head.  Others that come to mind:

“What a Difference a Day Makes” — Dinah Washington

“Here Comes the Sun”  — George Harrison

“Everyday I Write the Book” — Elvis Costello

“Words” — Bee Gees

“Brand New Day” — Sting

… and for my favorite song of all time, the one that makes my heart beat faster, my eyes well up, and my body feel warm and fuzzy each time I listen to it — “And the Healing has Begun” — Van Morrison.

I never thought I could feel so healed by figuring out how to create this blog. It’s not all perfect … yet, but it’s getting there.  It’s a new day, bright outside, and I’m writing some decent words …

Hallelujah indeed.

Stay sexy,

Eden

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Persistence is key, but I’m a MAC user!

What the hell ! Okay, so…I’m still sitting here. It’s several hours later from the last post, or at least it feels that way. My legs are numb from sitting in the lotus position, my glasses foggy from frustration, and this is the second time I am typing this entry. Why? Because I pressed some weird link and my 350+ word post disappeared in front of my eyes. I cried.

What has happened in the past few hours? First, I’ve composed myself—somewhat, and I will try hard to recreate what I wrote. What worked?

I no longer have my posts going on the HOME page – good.

I have my posts going to a newly-created BLOG page – good.

I have a few widgets on the right sidebar – very good.

What is still not working?

I can’t upload music or pictures … yet. I tried once but it didn’t work.

I can’t change the order of my menu tabs, even after reading the tutorial three times. This is definitely something I must leave for tomorrow.

I can’t share my posts on my BLOG page via email, Facebook, or Twitter, although, I must admit I wonder who would read this mad rant and want to share it. Funny, I have these “share” widgets on every other page where there is no content.

Though I know persistence is key, I think I have been a MAC user for much too long. What do I mean by this? I expect things to work in a much more intuitive way. With the touch screen ease of Apple’s iPad, iPhone, and most of its iPods now, I have become spoiled by the seamless ease with which the applications work together. I almost feel like I have to put on my “PC” hat to build this blog site —that’s personal computer and not politically correct, in case you’re wondering.

Whatever it is, I’m finding the “drag and drop” functionality nice, but inconsistent, and I ain’t getting it too fast, no I’m not.

I’m tired, but feeling slightly better for having at least posted two items today.

Stay sexy,

Eden

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Patience is a Virtue

That is the phrase I taught my god-daughter when she was barely able to walk. She’s almost sixteen now, and I am …well, I am much older than that, and I have less and less patience each day!

A true test of my lack of it was trying to set up this bloody blog. I will try to keep my swearing to a minimum, but allow me to vent in the only way I know how, and that’s only because no one is around to listen to me anyway. I’m sitting here alone in my living room, dim light, and Jeff Buckley’s version of “Hallelujah” by Leonard Cohen is playing through my computer.  It may sound serene, but earlier I almost threw my laptop out the window.

I’ve seen blogs set up by grandmothers, young kids, and everyone in between. Why can’t I do it? I’m quite tech-savvy, really I am, but I didn’t find this intuitive—not one bit!

Wow! My first blog is not informative at all—it’s a damn rant. I’m sweating and my fingertips hurt from the sheer pressure of hitting the keys. It’s time to walk away…just walk away…

Perhaps there will be progress made tomorrow. As I say to my husband when he gets frustrated about things:  “There’s always tomorrow.” I should really take my own good advice.

Stay sexy, (I don’t feel it, but I hope you do)

Eden

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