This prompted me to think about how I would answer. So I did.
Please add your random advice in the comments.
- Pick the hill you want to die on. P.S. few things are hill-worthy.
- Keep gas tank 1/2 full; ditto for cash, keep some some on you and near you.
- Turn off the T.V.
- Drink more water.
- Prioritize sleep.
- Make the phone call / visit.
- Take the trip.
- Let it go.
You? How will you answer?


Most things are not about you so don’t take everything personal. That other person may be having a bad day. You have a good one!
^ so true – and good advice, thank you!
Relationships are like plants. They need tending and watering to stay healthy. He who makes it to the top of the company ladder, but loses his family in the process is a fool. Spend less than you earn. Debt is a form of bondage. Be the first to initial reconciliation.
^ So much here to relate to — and I agree with all of them. Sage Advice, DM, thanks! -MJ