It’s not the act of copulation that’s the problem; it’s calling it “making love.” Or “sleeping with.” Or “getting it on.”
When young people “do it,” they usually come right out and say “having sex.” Or sometimes (see #6), “hooking up.”
Bone, jump, and play may be related words, but I only know that because I looked it up in the Online Slang Dictionary.
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