Tuesday, April 27, 2010

Post Baby Body

If you've been reading my blog for the last few months, you probably know how badly I took my pregnancy weight gain.  I'm a little embarrassed by that now.  In fact, I'd like to go back in time and tell my pregnant self to "shut up and eat another cupcake."

At the time, I was completely freaked out by what I would look like after the baby was born.  And how do I look after?  Not half bad!  I thought I'd be crying my eyes out over stretch marks and impossible to lose fat... but I'm not!  I don't really care! Ha!

I definitely don't look the same as I did before I had Carson, but my attitude has changed too.  My body did an amazing thing, and through breastfeeding it continues to support my little man now!  How awesome is that!  I appreciate my body now more than ever before.

Don't get me wrong, I would love not to have stretch marks, fatter than before butt and hips, or a little extra to love around my middle, but to be honest, I don't care enough to do a whole lot about it. I'm sure my hubby might like me to care a little more, but then again, I think he might like my new body image better than he liked my old body.

I truly realize now that there are so many more important things in life than how I look in a bathing suit.  I'm reminded of that everyday I spend with my husband and son.  Now when I choose to eat healthy foods and exercise, I'm doing it to stay healthy and happy for my family.  I feel like a brand new person.

So, bring on the bathing suit... and the cupcake!

Sunday, April 25, 2010

Job? Mom.

As of today, I am officially resigned from my teaching position.  I thought I would have a lot to say about this, but strangely enough, I don't.  In fact, writing my letter of resignation seemed more like checking something off my to-do list rather than the significant, life-changing event that it was.

1. Shower
2. Feed baby
3. Write my resignation letter

I spent the last six and a half years teaching 4th and 5th graders, and only the last 11 weeks raising my new baby boy... but it honestly feels like a lifetime ago that I was in the classroom.  My days used to be consumed with classroom management, teaching strategies, conferences, and grading papers.  Now, my days are filled with feedings and diaper changes... and I'm perfectly happy with that.  I can honestly say that I hardly ever even think about what's going on in my classroom.  That's not because I don't care, because I do.  I loved teaching and I'm sure I'll return to it one day.  If anything, being a parent is reaffirming my belief that all children deserve the best education possible, and a teacher who truly cares about them.  I think I feel this way because I feel so called to what I'm doing right now- being a mother to my sweet Carson.

I know without a doubt that this is exactly what I'm supposed to be doing with my life right now.  There isn't a thing more important to me, nor anyone I'd rather spend my day with than my son.  He is the most important job I'll ever have, and I couldn't feel more blessed to be his mother.




Sunday, April 18, 2010

10 Weeks

My little man is growing up so fast.  Sigh.  It seems crazy that only 2 1/2 months ago he was this tiny little thing that only ate, pooped, and cried all night long.  Now he's smiling and cooing and being all-around adorable (and sleeping through the night)!


A few of his likes: eating (obvious- you don't get two chins any other way), playing on his play mat, getting his diaper changed, listening to mommy and daddy talking (he's started "talking" back), and best of all... waking up!!


Enjoy the super cute baby smiles, ignore the annoying baby talk.


It is so true... I do think my child is the most beautiful thing I've ever seen.  I am one of those parents.  But don't worry, I still love my furry son, Jet!  He has been at the dog trainer (hopefully on his way to becoming a master hunter- he got his third pass this weekend- only two to go) since Carson was born.  For Easter weekend, Sean brought him home to meet his little brother.


My three boys.  I am so outnumbered!  (Sean is working the Kramer look.)



They already love each other.  (Actually, Carson didn't really even notice Jet.)




On Easter Sunday we divided our day between all the grandmas... first we went to Nee Nee's house where Carson (and mom and dad) got spoiled with lots of Easter goodies, and then over to my mom's for dinner.  



Here's Carson with his great-grandmother, Nee Nee.



And here's one of Carson's favorite places to nap. (It's one of my mom's favorite things too.)




Uncle Justin, Aunt Jackie, and Aunt Jenni. 

I've begun to notice an annoying trend.  Does anyone want my picture anymore?  No.  Does anyone want a picture of me with my son? No.  Does anyone want to take their picture posing cheezily with my son? Yes, everyone.  Poor Carson probably has permanent flashes in his eyes.

I forced my sister to take my picture holding Carson (it took about six requests and me handing her the camera) and ended up with a pretty cute picture of Carson (what picture of Carson isn't cute?), and a horrible picture of me.  I give up.






Monday, April 5, 2010

Out and About

The Hales have been pretty busy the last couple of weeks... here's some pictures to show you what we've been up to!


Sean spoiled me with a push present... I've always wanted a little blue box! 


What was inside the box was even better!  I love my new earrings. I haven't taken them off since he gave them to me! 


Play-date at Kristin's!  Here's Carson, Karter, and Keaton.  We had so much fun!  I LOVED talking with Kristin.  She's such a great mommy and I learn so much from her.  As I've mentioned before, I'm kind of an anxious person, and Kristin always has a way of putting things in perspective and making me relax!  Plus, her kids are so cute and so sweet!


A close up of the two babies!  Karter and Keaton made me realize how much I have to look forward to as Carson grows up!





Play date with Eloise!  Meredith and Walt went to watch the Bears play basketball, and Carson and  I headed over to help the babysitters- my teammates from school!  Is it too soon to print the wedding invitations?


At one point that evening, Carson started fussing (as usual).  We put both babies on Eloise's play mat... then Eloise started fussing.  As soon as she started, he stopped and listened!  You could see the wheels turning in his little head, "who is this other baby?!?"  




Here's a sweet picture of Emily soothing Carson.  He gets so fussy in the evenings, so I sometimes hesitate to take him anywhere... but if Emily is going to be there, then I'm going!  She kept him so peaceful the entire night.  It was really sweet.  I loved watching them together!

I'll have to post about our Easter weekend a little later... Mommy is always on duty!


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