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To Africa And Back – In One Day!

A long, long time ago…

I can still remember …

Just kidding.  This is no Don McLean song.

But, it was several years ago.  And yes, I can still remember it.  I was fresh and green to a new area.  Nope, not as a missionary.  But, by looking at my outfit, it would have been hard to figure I wasn’t.  I knew nobody – except the family I was living with.  And it was a Sunday.   My choices?  To me, I only had one.  Go with the family I was living with to their family ward.  I wouldn’t have to step outside my little bubble and make new friends.  But, the mother of this family had no intentions of letting me do this.  I was 23.  She knew there was a second (and better) choice – attend the singles ward.  Knowing this, and prior to this day, this same mother had called up who she thought would be the best girl to pick me up and take me to church.

Enter – Lindsay.

Nervous as all get out (social anxiety was rearing its lovely head), I waited (paced) for Lindsay to show up.  And she did.  Late.  But she did.  The ride to church was only 10 minutes or so.  About 2 minutes into it, Lindsay’s phone rang.  And she answered it.  And for the next 5 minutes I listened to the one side of the conversation I could hear which consisted of belly-hurting laughter, lots of really loud talking, and an amazing amount of hand motions.  When she was done, she hung up the phone and said, “Sorry about that …” and we finished our drive (and much more boring conversation) to the chapel.

And, believe it or not, that’s all it took.

Her outgoing and friendly behavior scared me off and I never talked to her ever again.

Just kidding!  We became instant friends.  She was the perfect remedy for my introverted self.

For the next couple of years, Lindsay and I created memories that would embarrass just about anybody – just in the sharing of the memories alone.  We were loud.  We were obnoxious.  We laughed.  A lot.  We stayed up really late – often – just talking.  We were sassy.  But we were single – can you blame us??  Oh – and we can’t fail to mention – we consumed more Pizookies in 2 1/2 years than what is healthy for any human body.  But the conversations had over a Pizookie dinner were priceless and completely worth it.

Then I got married and ran far, far away.

However, even though this has put a damper on our ability to conduct Chinese Fire Drills, she is still one of my very best friends.

So, when I got the message from her that she and some friends were going to be coming to a place in Arizona only 1 1/2 hours away from me this weekend, I just about jumped out of my skin!

We had so much fun!

And we made lots of new friends …

I think Zebras are fascinating in the simplest way.

They certainly weren’t afraid of a little bus full of lots of people.

So – what’s your guess – white with black stripes?  Or black with write stripes?

I forget what these guys were called.

However, the guide said that they speculate these are where unicorn myths may have derived from.  If he was to turn his head to look straight forward, the horns are such that they would look like one.

Ms. Chile Pepper the Ostrich.  She’s pretty spicy, but she loved the attention we gave her.

Mr. Camel has gotten in too much trouble when they’ve let him hang out outside the fenced area.

So, they’ve had to keep him behind the fence – but were nice enough to cut holes so we could still feed this bottomless pit!

The Giraffe.

They had two of them in the park.  And neither one of the of them wanted anything to do with us.

But, for some reason, I really liked this guy.  Don’t know why.

Here he is again.  In his own little Giraffe world.

I think he liked me too – he looked right at me so I could take his picture! – Twice!

These guys were so cool.

I couldn’t tell if this one was wanting to eat me – or if he was just hoping my arm would reach long enough to scratch his ears.

We’ll never know.

I thought this was the cutest thing.  This is one of the female bengal tigers.

To get into the pool, she would back herself in, put her front paws up and just relax.

This is Mr. Zion.

The show off.

He’s just like any other cat.  He just can’t help but fly after an object strung to the end of a stick.

Okay, so Hyenas must be some of the ugliest animals out there.  But, have you ever heard them laugh?

It’s hilarious!  They only laugh when they’re getting fed.

And it’s contagious.

I will never question again why this guy is the King Of The Jungle.

When it was feeding time, he slyly came out of his jungle, growled under his breath, picked up his meal, and sauntered off.

And I was intimidated.

And then there was Mr. Boom Boom.

A ginormous, filthy, rhino.

Definitely one of the coolest animals in the park.

This is the sweet ride we drove around in.

I’m kind of wishing we were able to ride around in these – man, they looked cool!

If you live in Arizona and are within driving distance of Camp Verde – you need to go to Out Of Africa.

I have to admit, it was pretty dang cool.

 
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Posted by on May 23, 2010 in Life, Random

 

Rethinking My Thought Process

We can’t be totally honest without showing vulnerability, right?

Well, here’s to being more honest …

“I give unto men weakness that they may be humble; and my grace is sufficient for all men that humble themselves before me; for if they humble themselves before me, and have faith in me, then will I make weak things become strong unto them” (Ether 12:27).

Lately, I’ve been thinking.

A lot.

Perhaps too much.

Which can be … let’s just say … dangerous for me and anyone who will lend an ear!

Or anyone within earshot for that matter!

It’s true.  Too much thinking – for me – turns into over-thinking.  Which leads to over-analyzing.  Which leads to second guessing. Which leads to – a really grumpy husband as this all gets unloaded in the form of gripings of inadequacies and insecurities on his ever-attentive little ears.  And the grumpiness ensues only because my ears typically fall fast asleep out of boredom and neglect to pay attention to any ‘hunny, you’re awesome’, ‘sweetheart, I love you’, or even ‘babe, you just need to go bed!’ by the time my mouth has finished running on about how many things I do wrong.

Now, to my mouth’s credit, there are a lot of things I don’t do right.  There are a lot of things I do that I end up regretting and wish I had acted differently, spoken sweeter, or just simply minded my own business about!  Now, I realize there’s nothing wrong with wanting to eliminate regrets.  But creating a sob story and feeling sorry for myself is not the way to do it.

And that’s what is so frustrating about this over-thinking stuff.

In fact, it’s kind of like the pride cycle … except, at least in the pride cycle there is a happy and prosperous time …

(insert pride cycle type drawing here)

Over-Thinking [arrow down to] Feelings of Insecurity [arrow back up to] Over-Thinking

Believe it or not, it took visualizing this to make me realize that perhaps if I am able to control my over-thinking, feeling insecure would have to find another way to bear it’s ugly head and there would be no cycle at all.

So, I set out to make the change.  And I was feeling pretty good about myself.

And then I read this …

CJane Post Of The Day

And I felt even better.

What a clever post.

If there is one thing I am not – it is a Pack Rat.  If it’s cluttering any part of the garage/car/room/house/backyard, I want it tossed/sold/donated/given away.

But … emotional/personal things take a lot more effort to de-clutter.

CJane talks about having a ‘personal’ garage sale.  She realized she needed to rid her emotional ‘home’ of grudges, insecurities, and hurt feelings.  She listed off some things in the bottom of her post that she would put in her personal yard sale … (and I couldn’t help but chuckle as I thought, “Wow – there is another one of me out there!”)

Here’s what she listed – with my comments attached:

Do you need a friend who never calls you or answers your emails? Get it while its hot! – I’m pretty good with email.  But, for those who call me, I’m sure you’d get a good laugh if you thought back to the last 10 times you called me … and realized how many times I’ve actually picked up the phone!  I’m sure you know my voicemail far better than you know my own voice!

I know you want to buy a second-hand always having to be right-ness. It’s a hand me down from my dad! – Me??  Always right??  You Betcha!

My social anxiety is half off! – I like to call it selectively social!  Forget half-price, I don’t know that I could even give this away.

In the market for a bad habit? I’ve got lip-licking, teasing too much and bossiness. Come on down! – So I don’t have a problem with excessive lip-licking, but I’ve mastered taking it too far with teasing and showing that I like to be boss.

Phobia of elevators? Make me an offer! – Okay, I have to admit, this one is a little strange.  I’ll swap this out for the inability to shut the car door with the keys in the ignition – even after checking several times that the doors are unlocked.

All laughing and silliness aside.

I realize it is time.

It’s time to start rethinking my thought process and de-cluttering my emotional ‘home’.

It’s time to be more confident and sure about myself and not over-think every little detail.

It’s time to make the appropriate changes so that there are no regrets.

It’s time to allow my weaknesses to be made strengths.

 
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Posted by on May 17, 2010 in Life

 
 
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