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My First Homes [written 210521]

Photo: My firs home [3575 West 26th Avenue, Vancouver, B.C., CANADA]

There were five of them, 1947 — March 30, 1957:

  1. Upper St. Georges in North Vancouver, a basement suite
  2. 3575 West 26th Avenue, Vancouver, in Dunbar neighbourhood
  3. The Mays Road farmhouse in the Cowichan Valley.
  4. The White House in Chemainus, just inside town limits
  5. The Green House in Chemainus, less than a mile South, outside town limits

Then we moved to North Vancouver in Marlborough Heights, where Mom and Dad lived from March 31, 1957 to some time in 1995.

The basement suite was in a white house on a northeast corner on St. Georges above Rockland Street. Mom told me they had to live there after they were first married because there were few places to rent at that time after World War II. This was my first home but only inside Mom’s womb. Mom and Dad eloped and married on October 3, 1947 in Bellingham, Washington State, after picking up two men on the street to serve as witnesses. Mom told me they couldn’t live together at first for lack of rental apartments. And it was sometime in November they found that place.

My grandparents (we calle them Nannie and Grandpa) moved back to Vancouver not long after the end of the war. Grandpa wanted to go back to work again. But he had become hard of hearing and found he could not succeed. They had lived at 47th & Marguerite from the early 1920s till Uncle George joined up and went off to war. At that time they moved to Cobble Hill, a quaint neighbourhood in Cowichan Valley on Vancouver Island. That is where Grandpa received the notice of Uncle George’s citation for the Silver Cross. Uncle George had joined up on his birthday, October 30, 1942; and was killed in action on October 22, 1944, 8 days before his twentieth birthday. Their new house in Vancouver was at 3575 West 26th Avenue. It has recently become in a state of disrepair and sold by whoever was living there most recently. Mom had told me the address and I started walking by from time to time to take current pictures.

Some time in 1947 / 1948, when Grandpa had concluded he couldn’t return to work, he asked Uncle Don, Mom’s younger brother, what he wanted to do. And Uncle Don said, farming. So, Grandpa bought the 365-acre Mays Road farm, and Nannie, Grandpa, and Uncle Don moved into the farmhouse. And they offered the house in Dunbar to my Mom and Dad to stay in. I was born in Vancouver General Hospital July 3, 1948, 9 months to the day after Mom and Dad married… so Mom and Dad must have been living on West 26th by that time. There is a hospital in North Vancouver where I could have been born if Mom and Dad were still living in Upper St. Georges. They lived there for less than a year.

When I was about a year old, Dad became sick and had to miss one day of work. And his employer, Pappas Furs, did not pay him for that day. While he was supporting a wife and young child, me. That made Dad angry, so he quit. And Mom and Dad moved into the farmhouse with the others. Dad would help Uncle Don to some extent. But at the same time he tried his luck at real estate, selling houses. He has told me he didn’t sell one house in that time, mid-1949 to mid-1950.

Then Dad started working in the sawmill in Chemainus, eight miles North. And they moved into the white brick house just inside town limits. It was small. But it had two bedrooms, a living room, kitchen, and bathroom. Adequate cupboard space. And a laundry room under which was an oil-fuelled furnace. On the driveway on the North side of the house was an oil tank. Dad built a white picket fence around the yard. He built a garage for the car. Mom and Dad made a vegetable garden in the back yard. Across the picket fence on the South side, and therefore not in town limits, was an orchard. And I was not allowed to climb on the fence and thus on the apple tree on the other side. I have many photos Dad took of us and various relatives who visited from time to time when we lived there.

Meanwhile, Dad started to build the green house about a kilometre South. In 1954 I turned 6 and was about to start Grade 1 and we were able to move in Summer 1954. By that time Mom and Dad were expecting their fourth child and we needed more space. We needed the bigger house: 3 bedrooms, unfinished basement, kitchen, living / dining room, kitchen nook where we ate most usually all of our meals. Wood furnace in the basement, carport, outside deck. LARGE field, small wood. Dad started a henhouse for eggs, but then a friend at work in the mill suggested he apply for a job in head office in Vancouver. In 1956 he had won the lumber grading exam in B.C.; and he got the job. We moved to North Vancouver on the March 30 / 31 weekend, 1957 while I was in Grade 3. My first day of school, of course, was Monday, April 1. April Fool! Some Grade 6 boy had pointed down at my foot and said, your shoelace is untied.

We shall see if I add more biographical memoir as the future unfolds. ThanQ.

150812 [date: yymmdd] Wednesday is today

I stayed home most of today. It’s pretty hot here compared to usual, only 25 degrees Celsius (77F). I am in the cool of my apartment with one window open slightly and the drapes closed shut to keep the heat and the brightness out. I have a lamp on over on my right. The keys on my computer are lit up, so you can see it’s just right.

IMG_0347I went for a walk this morning and visited some friends. I had a coffee with them and read the newspaper. It takes about 20 minutes uphill to get there and it’s cool that early. And 20 minutes back downhill an hour later. I looked at the newspaper. A girl asked my if I wanted to play cards: I did not. Gary kept on asking the same question over and over again. I hadn’t seen Mike in several months. He said he had hurt his leg but also that he had lost 40 pounds. He is very tall but 280 pounds was still too much. He’s feeling really fine with his leg better. It occurred to me later he may have hurt his leg because he was overweight. It was a thought after I came home.

Like I say, it’s been a quiet day. I chose to avoid doing some things I normally do. I just went to the grocery store and came home. Then I went and got my mail and dropped by a barber shop I used to go to. It is still there and I am going back. She always used to cut my hair too short. I would ask her to leave it longer. No way. I went somewhere else for two years. Now I have decided I want it short, so I will get Mandy to cut my hair again. She charges $16 and the place I was going charged $23, but my hair was longer and maybe harder to cut. Mandy is a block away while the other place was up past my friends’ place. In the mail I finally got my statement on what my new rent is going to be. I filled out their forms, 27 pages of them, in May. I was wondering what was going on. My rent goes from $563 to $567: I live in subsidized housing.

Whereas I can be pretty good at writing, for example, I haven’t worked for money since 1976, not for lack of want. I was born in 1948, so am 67, just a young ‘un’ yet. A spring chicken. I have always walked a lot since I was very young. I had a newspaper route Grades 7 through 11. My grandparents and uncle lived out in the country, the grandparents closer to town, so I was always walking miles on country roads when I visited them from time to time. I’ve been logging and worked in a pulp and paper mill and a sawmill. I also used to operate mainframe computers, the ones that filled a big, air-conditioned room. I completed 3 years in a 5-year program in engineering physics, getting a better mark in 3rd year than 2nd. But when I tried to start 4th year, somehow I had forgotten everything! I didn’t get it. I wandered around campus the first two weeks, rather forlorn, before finally dropping out.

I have autism but am relatively intelligent. So, it isn’t intelligence that prevents me from work. I just can’t figure out what to do. If the job is easy it would be boring; if the job was hard, I couldn’t do it. I found no happy medium. With autism my social skills are wanting. But on my final exam in calculus in 3rd year engineering physics, I got 100%. I’m good at some things but not at others. Today my observation was, “I find I have a hard time tolerating other people and they have a hard time tolerating me.” I have been trying to figure it out all my life. Did I say I was 67?

When I was growing up, I had few friends, and they did most of the talking, teaching me this and that. Writing was my worst subject. Algebra my best. I got one ‘D’ in writing in elementary school. But in Grade 12 I got my best mark in it: one ‘B’. I completed high school in 1966. In 1972 I thought to myself, I’m smart. I should be able to write, too. Since 1976 I have written, for example, about 900 poems of which I still have half. I worked on a newsletter for 15 years, and that helped me practice. I have friends who are poets, for example, and some who write short stories or novels. Whereas I am acquainted with all these people, recall the quote in the paragraph above. I’ve been trying. It’s just been slow as molasses.

That’s all for today. I’ll try to post a couple of times a month. Thank you. -gcm

Me and Facebook

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If any of you wanted to see my Facebook, I go under “George Chris Michas”. You will usually find the familiar lemons and limes on blue background (Earth and Sun on blue sky) avatar / profile picture. Sometimes I choose a different one, but return to the lemons and limes after not too long. You may choose to Follow me, or you can ask to Friend. If you ask to Friend, please send me a Message so I know where we know each other from.

Thank you and have a nice day!  -George

140503 Freedom ©George Chris Michas

Vietnam 131021
Freedom Freedom Freedom Freedom
Freedom Free them birds in the sky
Free them birds a-singing on the fly
Free the trees big small short and tall
Flowers and shrubs Bring freedom to all
Flowers and birds and trees and rocks
Brooks and streams flowing round over all
Water to feed them fishies and ducks
Water we can drink should we still be in luck
Free the air from the dust and the smog
Keep it clean for the cats and the dogs
Don’t let anyone jail you within
Free your soul from Man’s evil sin
Go for a walk on the streets or the lanes
Go for a jog in the country ways
Free our roads from asphalt and tar
Free the people from killing and starvation
Bring salvation to the live and the birds
Let us live on our virgin Earth

Don’t be afraid of the cars or the buses
Free yourself from the minuses and pluses
Don’t be afraid of the cops or the robbers
Free yourself from the guns and the bombers
Don’t be afraid of dictators or snobs
They are no better than the bumps on a log
Freedom’s a drug we should all be addicted
It should make us so strong we will never get licked
Freedom’s plethora of benefits for all
Take up the peace sign take up the call
Let down your guard, let love come within
Freedom’s the flag under we all can win
At the end of the day lay your head to rest
Free number One, freedom’s the best
Get out your feelings get them all off your chest
Don’t be afraid because freedom can last

You know, I don’t really

You know, I don’t really like making blog posts. They are disconnected from everything else I do on the Internet. People tell me I should have my own website, of which a blog site is one way of doing so. Nobody knows me well enough to seek me out. Maybe one day they will, but by that time there may be another way of making yourself famous. So, for the time being I will keep this site in the event that one day I will be able to use it. Or one like it.