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    45 Valentine’s Day Gifts For The Person You Just Started Dating

    Because we don’t LOVE you, we just really, really like you!

    1. A gilded scratch-off map so you can make the most of future trips you two take together. Now might be the time to share you *only* like beach vacations.

    model scratching off gold USA map

    2. A set of movie-themed crew socks for celebrating the fact you both have excellent taste in films. OBVIOUSLY, Titanic is the greatest love story of all time. Count us in, minus the ending.

    movie-themed crew socks

    3. A thick cable scarf, because "stay home with me forever so I can keep you warm" may be a little too much, too soon. This'll meet you right in the middle.

    Man wearing a textured knit sweater and scarf, looking to the side

    4. A layered necklace set that'll look so cool with a button-down shirt, cozy sweatshirt, or sleeveless top. They can wear the paperclip chain and monogram coin chain either together or separately to elevate their accessories game.

    5. A mini cast iron skillet so you can make sweet desserts together for years to come. Plus, they're so cheap you can buy 'em as a set!

    mini cast iron skillets filled with brownies

    6. A wine aerator for making your future at-home date nights feel super sophisticated, even if you two drink exclusively grocery store wine.

    the glass wine aerator

    7. A pair of heart shades because your partner has so many sunglasses, but not adorable frames like these! Plus, they'll help protect their eyes from the sun.

    Promising review: "I highly recommend these! They're the perfect size, great sun protection, and they came with a little cloth baggy for them, a nice microfiber cloth, and a cute little double-sided screwdriver keychain tool!" —Jerrad W. Gindlesberger

    Get a pair from Amazon for $12.88+ (available in tons of colors and styles). 

    8. A pair of ear hooks that'll keep their Apple EarPods and AirPods securely and comfortably in their ears, even when they're working out. Will they feel indebted to you forever, no matter what happens? YES.

    model wearing white ear hooks and Apple AirPods

    9. A leather accordion wallet so you can gift them luxury without having to blow the bank. Your first Valentine's Day together will be ~in the bag~.

    the white leather accordion wallet

    10. Reusable stainless-steel straws that'll be a colorful upgrade from single-use plastic straws. They can drink iced coffee, water, soda, and cocktails with these tiny helpers, which come in a gorgeous iridescent shade. Plus, they'll be great for BBQs and picnics!

    11. A set of lightweight bamboo pajamas for gifting your favorite hot sleeper the ability to get a good night's sleep. No more sleeping next to a sweaty mess (though it may be too soon to flat out tell them this).

    model wearing navy blue lightweight bamboo pajama set

    12. An overnight cold-brew filter bottle, because this won't spill the tea on how much you actually spent if you're looking to play it safe. But it WILL reveal your sophisticated taste.

    13. A collection of The New York Times greatest crossword puzzles that'll start a new romantic Saturday morning tradition — as long as one of you isn't too competitive. *Cough, cough*.

    cover of The New York Times crosswords puzzle book

    14. A bottle of Mike's Hot Honey so you can keep things spicy long after the honeymoon stage is over. At least when it comes to their pizza.

    Mike's Hot Honey drizzled on pepperoni pizza

    15. A pair of tassel earrings, because they're now officially your favorite *head turner* and it should show. Will they think you got these at a fancy department store? Yep.

    model wearing pink druzy tassel earrings

    16. An insulated wine tumbler cup that'll be a fantastic excuse to take these with you wherever you go. Is it really a romantic stroll without wine? Not really.

    insulated wine tumbler cups

    17. An instructional book on how to draw gorgeous florals so you can take classic flower arrangements to the next level. Future Valentine's Days are about to get very competitive.

    instructional book on how to draw florals

    18. A Kaja lipgloss stick with a heart-shaped tip for a cute, noncommittal gift that's so much more unique than typical sweetheart candy.

    model wearing the heart-shaped Kaja lip gloss in a red shade

    19. A gemstone and dandelion poster that'll bring them sparkly jewels and bouquets of flowers *without* the financial commitment.

    20. A ceramic dinosaur planter so you can merely IMPLY that you'd like your relationship to never go extinct. Too soon? Too bad.

    blue ceramic dinosaur planter

    21. A cuddly mini sloth with an included ~sloth guide~, because you may not be planning on taking them to the orphanage in Costa Rica just yet, but you can still give them unlimited hugs.

    the Hug A Sloth Kit with plush sloth and sloth fancier's guide

    22. An incredibly plush faux fur blanket that'll make every future movie night feel extra luxurious. Warning: you're about to learn if they're a blanket hog.

    23. A stainless steel French press so you can upgrade from your initial coffee dates to daily fancy-feeling brews. Hopefully by now they've figured out that you don't speak before caffeine.

    stainless steel french press next to plate with croissant

    24. A personalized jar filled with pretty date idea tokens that'll finally nix the whole "I don't know where I want to eat, but I also do, please just magically guess it." That was already getting old.

    25. A set of fluffy headbands for making your new nighttime routine feel extra cute (because you will obviously be using one, as well). I suggest you wear these in your first picture as a couple.

    cat-ear shaped fluffy skincare headbands

    26. A headphone jack splitter with independent volume controls, because this'll prevent any fights over whether your show is too loud or soft. Ah, romance.

    Two people share audio on a plane using a dual headphone splitter with volume control. Text promotes sharing moments and comfort during travel

    27. color-shifting mushroom light so they can instantly make their room more cozy and avoid bumping into things in the middle of the night.

    Check out a TikTok of the mushroom nightlight in action. 

    Promising review: "I LOVE this night-light. It's in my bathroom and is a lovely addition. It turns off the second the lights go on, which is nice because I don't have to worry about accidentally leaving it on. Super cute and the little itty-bitty lighting element does a good job lighting, just enough so I don't have to turn the main lights on in the middle of the night." —1Thand

    Get it from Amazon for $5.99

    28. A couples' activity book with cute prompts like brainstorming your dream dinner party and choosing your couples theme song — this would be perfect for a cozy night in!

    29. A rechargeable clip-on reading light that'll let them catch up on their favorite books without interrupting your sleep. It has a dim amber LED light, making it easy to read pages in a dark room.

    30. A "lover" sweatshirt perfect for your favorite Swiftie who also enjoys cozy clothes. They can pair this with their favorite joggers or leggings for a cute look.

    a model wearing a red sweatshirt that says "lover" in pink

    31. A handheld light they'll be ~over the moon~ about because it fits in the palm of their hand and adds a soft glow to their bedroom. It's easy to operate too: just tap to change the color and brightness (no cords required).

    32. A Carhartt beanie that'll keep their head and ears toasty during the winter months. Gift them this soft accessory and they'll be happy to have something cozy and stylish to wear with a giant puffer jacket.

    Reviewer in a gray foldover beanie with the Carhartt logo stitched in front

    33. Light saber chopsticks so they can enjoy takeout ~in a galaxy far, far away~ (aka the kitchen). These babies glow and grip well on sushi and noodles, making their next lunch break a super fun and mess-free experience.

    34. A Wall-E AirPods case that'll safely hold their AirPods and charger case and protect them from water damage (hi rain and snow). They can even clip this lil' robot on their backpack or purse for easy access.

    Keychain shaped like WALL-E, held by a hand with light-colored nails, attached to a wooden chair

    35. A solar system crystal ball that's perfect if you're falling for a space nerd.

    A glass orb displaying the solar system, placed on a wooden base, perfect for home decor or as a unique gift

    36. A six-piece world flavors spice set because learning to cook new meals together is the ~perfect~ early relationship activity.

    Six labeled spice tins stacked, each featuring a different country's flavor, with various spice piles arranged in front

    37. An electric kettle for the new boo who loves to drink a ton of tea every day.

    Reviewer's image of tea kettle turned on emitting a blue light

    38. A Lego bonsai tree set is for those who are a wannabe plant parent but can't seem to keep any alive. With over 800 intricate pieces, they'll definitely have a blast assembling this!

    Promising review: "I got this as a gift, and we assembled it together. The instructions were very clear, and it was a fun activity to do together. Also, it turned out to be really pretty in the end. It does take a bit of time to assemble, but that's subjective. The Legos all came intact and organized in like 2–3 plastic bags." —Sel

    Get it from Amazon for $39.99.

    39. A "Soft" perfume rollerball for any partner who spends enough time on TikTok to to know and want this viral scent — not to mention it's a heck of a lot cheaper than the fancy perfumes at department stores. 

    Reviewers have compared this perfume to the delectable scents of to waffle cones, lemon pound cake, and warm vanilla scones ... and this $65 bottle of Pink Sugar (gasp!).

    Promising review: "Like so many, I found this scent on TikTok. I was a bit skeptical at first but finally got around to trying it. First off, this scent smells amazing! Almost every time I've worn it, I receive compliments. It has a sweet smell, almost like warm cake or sugar cookies with a hint of lemon. With such an affordable price, I would definitely recommend this to anyone curious about trying it." —Chrissy

    Get it from Amazon for $4.75 (available in two styles). 

    40. A cute and functional crossbody bag that says "Yes I pay attention and see your outfit mood boards." 

    Promising review: "Best go-to bag. Cute and comfortable. Also holds everything you need." —meghan schuemann

    Get it from Amazon for $24.99 (available in seven styles).

    41. A ravioli-shaped spoon rest for a cute and quirky touch to their kitchen if your favorite activity together is making homemade pasta together at home. 

    Promising review: "Exactly as pictured and absolutely adorable. Easy to clean and would definitely buy if you’re debating!" —Megz

    Get it from Amazon for $13.90.

    42. A triangular book page holder if every night has a little "OMG I lost my page again" drama — this will save them that pain even if they're constantly putting their book down without a bookmark. 

    Triangular wooden desk organizer with a book on top, a phone and glasses inside, and a person reading a magazine nearby
    Amazon

    Besuerte Store is a small business. The larger size has a spot for a cup as well!

    Promising review: "I took a chance on this one despite it having very few reviews. It took a little bit to arrive, but the product was well worth the wait. I love that it is a beautiful solid wood piece and was packaged in a way that didn't require assembly and would not be damaged upon delivery. Overall, I'd say it exceeded my expectations and is priced well." —R. Young

    Get it from Amazon for $23.99+ (available in two sizes and three styles).

    43. A tulip-shaped tea infuser that, in my humble opinion, is better than regular flowers because this will be used every morning (and last forever). 

    Promising review: "What a cheerful tea infuser this is! It is so cute standing in my mug of tea! It stands well, infuses well, and washes well. It was a gift when I was recovering from surgery and it was such a welcome bit of cheer in the morning routine. It just makes me smile." —coaviatrix

    Get it from Amazon for $9.94.

    44. A Bodum pour-over coffee maker that looks like it should be sold at Williams-Sonoma. It'll put a smile on their face every morning because 1) they'll no longer have to shell out $5 for a cup of joe, and 2) it'll look gorgeous on their counter.

    Glass pour-over coffee maker with a leather collar, sitting on a checked cloth. A cake on a stand is blurred in the background

    45. We're Not Really Strangers, a game that you and your partner can play to start getting to know each other REALLY well  — trust me, this game will get the conversation rolling. The question cards come in three levels that become more intense as they progress, and participants must provide an answer to move on.

    a few question cards laid out and a note with a pencil
    Amazon

    The game works best with two players but can be played with up to six. You can also check out their expansion packs here!

    Promising review: "I got this for my best friend and me. We’ve known each other for over 10 years and have found, even with this game, that we're still learning new things about each other. It took us hours just to complete the first two parts! Super fun way to start a conversation and get to know someone on a deeper level. Cannot recommend enough. Rather for friends, family, or relationships." —Lilly

    Get it from Amazon for $25 (available in five other editions).

    Two minutes after you agree to take it slow:

    GIF of person dancing with champagne bottle and glass

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