yvensong

April 4, 2026

A2Z Challenge – D is for Detroit

I recently reconnected with a neighbor of mine, and discovered that Detroit, Michigan was her hometown, also. My family had left in 1962, while she left more recently. I was pleased to hear that some of the areas in Detroit are built back up. It had taken such a dive after the US auto industry crashed and burned. The riots and what became known as Devil’s Night (Halloween — in which roving gangs ran through Detroit, burning houses and other buildings down.) added immensely to Detroit’s fall into ruin.

This picture was gifted to me by a brave soul who traversed into my old neighborhood in 2010 as a favor to me. Our house had been declared a historical landmark a few years after we moved. The people who lived in it in 2010 did their best to keep up the house. I have many fond memories living in Detroit, as a child. This old house had some of the best places to hide from my brother or to hide away to read a book.

One of my fondest memories were of all the times we went boating on the Detroit River and spent time on Belle Island.

Even though I have many fond memories of growing up in Detroit, Michigan, I know that I would not want to move back there, or even go back to visit my old neighborhoods. The changes are far too drastic and I would be heartbroken to see my old haunting grounds in such disarray.

Photo by D. Jonze on Pexels.com

Posted for the A2Z Challenge with some inspiration from Linda G. Hill’s Stream of Consciousness Saturday.

March 27, 2026

Fandango’s Flashback Friday

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For Fandango’s Flashback Friday, I am returning to March 27, 2006, the day my Uncle Don died.

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Death or the Spectre of Death touches us all at some time or another. Sometimes, it’s just a whisper, as we hear about someone’s demise. Sometimes, it lightly touches us, causing our hairs to stand on end. Sometimes, it brushes across the canvas of our lives, erasing a living soul from that canvas.

Tonight, I’ve learned that one more life has been obliterated from the canvas that makes up my life. An Uncle, he who joined our family by marriage, has quietly left this plane of existence. I will miss him.

February 19, 2026

Missing My Cousin

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I have kept many mementos throughout my life. Some, I have sadly forgotten when, where, and sometimes even who they represent. Others, though, I’m happy to still have, especially my photographs.

The following photograph, of my brother, my cousin Dave (who had just passed away), his brother, John (RIP), and me, is from 1959. My mother, brother and I had flown from Michigan to California, to visit family. The four of us became fast and best friends on this trip.

Posted with inspiration from Fandango’s One-Word Challenge.

February 17, 2026

FOWC – Molecular Hurt

I hurt all the way down to the molecular part of my being, both physically and emotionally.

We have several inches to a foot of snow, and more is falling. One to three inches per hour, predicted to continue until 4 AM.

In addition to the snow causing physical pain, I received the news that one of my cousins passed away. I’m reeling, and really have no words, yet.

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Posted for Fandango’s One-Word Challenge.

December 28, 2025

What Remains to be Seen

“Well, that remains to be seen!” she shouted, as she felt incipient anger building up. Adelia hated that her father could still set her off. She was an adult, after all. But, somehow, when she and her father locked horns, she seemed to revert to being the angry, 16-year old, hormonal teenager.

She pivoted, determined to storm out, in a door-slamming huff. She froze when she heard her father start sobbing. He had never cried when she was in the room. She recalled asking him a few years ago, if had ever cried in his life. He didn’t give her a direct yes, or no answer.

Currently, she stood with her back toward her father, statue-like, not sure what to do. She was relieved when his sobs quieted down.

“I’m sorry,” his voice cracking as though the words were very foreign to him.

Adelia took a deep breath and let it out, slowly, counting down from ten. Her father never apologized to her, as far as she could recall. If he had, she never felt that he meant it.

This time, felt different. She turned and looked hard at him, trying to find the truth in his eyes. What she saw was humility and sorrow.

“Can we start all over again?” he asked.

She nodded. For the first time in their conjoined lives, she sensed that the two of them would have their first adult conversation. She was aware it wouldn’t be easy for either of them. They would stumble and falter, yet, they would also work at repairing their broken relationship.

Written for Fandango’s One-Word Challenge, with inspiration from the Ragtag Daily Prompt.

August 26, 2025

RDP – Home Movies

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I have boxes of old home movies that my dad took. He was nicknamed “Camera Man” because he always had some kind of camera with him for every family gathering. When he passed on, I inherited all the old 8mm, Super 8mm, slides, photos, and video tapes that he took.

This post was prompted by the Ragtag Daily Prompt.

August 9, 2025

Flashback to 2009

Filed under: Family,Memories,Travel — yvensong @ 11:57 pm
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Because it’s late and I’m tired after a full day of binge-watching Doctor Who (2nd Doctor), Thor: Love and Thunder, and playing Apples to Apples with friends, I will copy and paste another flashback from 2009.

I can’t believe I woke Aunt Doral up today. I feel so bad! She says it’s fine, that she wakes up early every day. I still feel bad.

I had brought my alarm clock with me, and had forgotten to turn it off. It sounded at 4:30AM. (Groan) After it stopped, I rolled over to go back to sleep, but couldn’t. I had to get up to go. Unfortunately, one of the dogs got spooked and let out a couple of barks, which woke my Aunt up.

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After a slow start in the morning, and a look at weather and traffic reports, I had decided to stay in Redmond an extra day. It was nice to have a quiet day.

Aunt Doral and I went to the store, picked up flowers and set them at John’s gravesite. This was the first time I’ve been there since the service. I found it difficult to not break down, but was able to focus on the perfect stone.

It’s not easy to see in the picture, and maybe when I return I’ll go back for a better picture, but the stone has a spattering of stars and a sun/moon carved into it. It is perfect for representing him.

After spending some time there, we went to see Frankie and Theresa’s new hot dog stand they run downtown. Frankie and Breanna were standing court.

June 26, 2025

Throwback Thursday and a Most Important Birthday

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Fifty-one years ago my boy was born! I am so immensely proud of him. He was such a blessing on the day he was born and has grown to be an amazing human being.

June 9, 2025

The Numbers Game #76

Filed under: Birds,Family,Friends,Photos — yvensong @ 8:07 pm
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Here are my following pictures for Judy’s Numbers Game #76. This week’s number is 197.

Starship Enterprise model (A19740668000) from the television series “Star Trek”, photographed post conservation at the National Air and Space Museum’s Steven F. Udvar-Hazy Center by Dane A. Penland, June 15, 2016. [Enterprise-2_1928]
Photo by Jonathan Borba on Pexels.com

May 15, 2025

And the Hits Just Keep On Coming

Filed under: Family,Medical/Health,Memories,Photos — yvensong @ 11:59 pm
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My cousin, that I mentioned in my May 8th blog, had a tumor removed that was about the size of an orange. He had a minor stroke while in the operating room, and now the right side of his brain is swelling dangerously. They’ve been trying to get the swelling down and they are doing the prelims for the radiation treatments. If they can’t get the swelling down, they are recommending that he go into hospice and he will only live for another 6 weeks.

I am feeling so helpless. We lost his brother to a heart attack in 2009. We lost his mother in 2020 to cancer. His father passed away decades ago. Our two families were tightly involved in each others’ lives for so long.

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