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Any time that there’s a very excessive replaying of that Bruno Mars’ song “Marry You” actually makes me wish that there was a song called “Divorce You”.

Posted on May 18, 2013 by Z.F. Thrimej

So the chorus would probably include something like: “I think I wanna divorce you !”

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I-Don’t-Want-To-Talk-About-Itville scribbles itself as the shrieking secret/whispered bunker/maze capital of a war-torn psychological state named Privacy.

Posted on November 24, 2012 by Z.F. Thrimej

Privacy got invaded. And that’s why I-Don’t-Want-To-Talk-About-Itville might resemble and feel like a nightmarish tangled scribble of a place.

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Two hearts somehow stuck together; then they split. Grasp of reality got warped, changed into what now what next what if?

Posted on August 2, 2012 by Z.F. Thrimej

This curiosity grew and became a search spirit turning thoughts of split hearts in two wings. One represents the past; the other projects the future. The pixie (between them) is now, balancing. There’s Whorenelia, Lu Nabeamz, Isis, Vera Coztym, and Harmony. Finding, identifying, confronting them … Continue reading →

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But poo is in the spoon. And spooning can lead to pooing.

Posted on July 10, 2012 by Z.F. Thrimej

Victim strangely refuses to answer… What happened? What’s he doing?

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She told him (even repeated to him) the truth. This did not please him, so he would not leave her home. She really wanted him to leave her alone though.

Posted on May 8, 2012 by Z.F. Thrimej

So in order to make him leave, she told him exactly what he wanted to hear (which was the exact opposite of what she had said earlier and what she had said earlier was no). Pleased by what he wanted to hear, … Continue reading →

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“I HEARD THAT!” She then replied to him: “I DON’T CARE!”

Posted on April 12, 2012 by Z.F. Thrimej

This was a conversation I heard and witnessed amongst a couple. The more I think about it, the more I realize how amusingly awesome her “I DON’T CARE!” response is. It’s like one-upping a one up. Also fascinating how his … Continue reading →

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The jigsaw puzzle is kinda like an orgy (and/or a matchmaking process or a very complicated relationship with break-ups);

Posted on April 10, 2012 by Z.F. Thrimej

pieces, pockets, knobs and curves interlocking with each other. Sometimes flirting, agreements, disagreements, friction, fittingness, awkwardness, hopefully closure and completion along the way and (especially with the latter two) at the end of the day.

Posted in addiction, adversity, animals, art, arts and crafts, comedy, counseling, culture, curious, dating, drama, entertainment, fantasies, fantasy, flirting, giggles, health, hope, huh, i don't know, improv, joke, jokes, journey, learning, naughty, nerd, observation, performance art, performing arts, poems, poetry, random writing, relationships, ridiculous, scars, sculpting, sculpture, sex, subversion, therapy, things, thinking, tourism, tourist, underachiever, vacation, vampire, visual arts, what the fuck | Tagged adventure, art, arts and crafts, artwork, bored, break-up, comedy, counseling, curves, dates, dating, dork, drama, entertainment, experiment, fantasies, fantasy, fun, games, geek, guilty pleasures, humor, immaturity, improv, improvisational comedy, jigsaw puzzles, joke, jokes, journey, knobs, love, mature, maturity, mystery, nerd, orgy, party, partying, perspective, pieces, play, pockets, poems, poetry, putting the pieces together, puzzles, recovering, relationships, ridiculous, scars, sex, shrug, therapy, thinking, thoughts, toys, weird, what the fuck, what the fuck is wrong with me, WTF | 1 Comment

At a Vintage Thrift Shop

Posted on March 31, 2012 by Z.F. Thrimej

A hanger (slid and shoved along against the round clothes rack) sounds the shrill indelible noise from pushed aside garment that failed to attract. It agreed (yet struggles) with inertia; There’s a chance to make and hug a new and … Continue reading →

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There was a widow who was cleaning up the things that her husband left behind.

Posted on March 29, 2012 by Z.F. Thrimej

And as she was describing this stressful process to me, I realized that if you turn the word widow upside down, you get mop!m, mop i m, or mop i am. She doesn’t have to mop up whatever mess he made, … Continue reading →

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And yet he kept insisting that they were NOT lost.

Posted on March 29, 2012 by Z.F. Thrimej

“So where is this museum you promised to take me to? I thought you said you’d be showing me some works of art.” Sensing her frustration, he replied “You really wanna see a work of art? Well guess what? You’re … Continue reading →

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