Showing posts with label education. Show all posts
Showing posts with label education. Show all posts

Tuesday, September 3, 2013

It's Time to Admit It...It's September

Despite them (and me) being back to school for a couple of weeks now, I have been trying to pretend it is still summer.  Alas, I  must now face the reality that fall is here and school has indeed started for the 2013-14 school year.

Off they go on the first day

 8th grade

 2nd grade

 Kindergarten

 4th grade


Wednesday, August 21, 2013

"Tests" Don't Get Any Easier than This?

Scene:  kitchen table 10 minutes after bedtime should have started.  Child is finishing a homework assignment to write 10 statements about themselves for a true/false "get to know you" activity.

Me: Finish up- it is bedtime
Child:  I am almost done, I have two more to finish
Me: Okay, let me see them when you are finished
Child: (a few minutes later)  Look I am done.
Me:  Great- off to bed
Child: (reaches for a notebook and begins to write)
Me: What are you doing now?
Child: Writing down the answers.
Me: Don't you already know the answers, they are about you.
Child:  Yes, but I might forget

Sigh.......

Sunday, August 18, 2013

Our Brush with a Celebrity

The girls and I were privileged to meet Charles R Smith Jr- who is a noted author and photographer- 
If you haven't checked our his stuff already run to you local library or bookstore and check him out.

I would recommend any of his books but start with 

My People

and
I Am American

Thursday, December 20, 2012

Just What Color is Santa and other Racial Challenges at Christmas?


Or Joseph, Mary, Baby Jesus, the shepherds or the wise men, for that matter?

Santa visits my school every year (a school that is about 90-97% African American depending on what school year it is) and every year I love that Santa is African American- just like the vast majority of the kids.  But every year we have a discussion about whether or not Santa is Black.  (and these are 3, 4 &  5 year old kids so don't tell me "kids don't notice color"- but I digress)

Why should the people who feature prominently in both our secular and religious Christmas traditions be white.  Let's be honest- There is NO. WAY. that Mary, Joseph and the Baby Jesus were white (and especially not fair, blonde and white)  Bethlehem is in the Middle East and people 5000 years ago and 2000 years ago and last week who are genetically tied to that area of the world are not white.  So the real live Jesus was not a white man, his parents were not white and he certainly wasn't a blonde fair haired baby in the manager.

And Santa- well he is magic so he should be able to be any old way he wants.

But you wouldn't know it to look at Christmas books.  As my children are getting older it is becoming increasingly frustrating to find diverse HOLIDAY books (regular children's literature is improving steadily) but holiday books haven't caught up with the rest of the world.   Not to mention that the books you can find with Black characters tend to be about Kwanzaa, rather than Christmas as if those two holidays are reserved only for the people who "match" the media assumptions about who celebrates.   And after reading book after book of white characters talking to white Santas or worshiping white Baby Jesus- it really began to bother me.  So I went on a quest to find some GOOD holiday books that more accurately represented the Holy Birth and books that showed families and children and Santas of color engaged in holiday celebrations.

Here are some I found

The Little Drummer Boy by Ezra Jack Keats     
The characters are all have dark hair and darker complexions with some variety- they are not all the same.  Baby Jesus appears darker than Mary.  The big drawback is you have to say "rum pa pa pum" about a million times.

  Grace at Christmas by Mary Hoffman
Already well known for her books about Grace that deal with racism and sexism directly, Mary Hoffman weaves another tale of Grace's adventures as she and a house guest cope with being away from some of their families during Christmas.  In true Grace fashion, the girls put on a production of Jesus' birth in which all the participants are Black

 
There is not much "story" to this book, making a great choice for young kids.  The pictures are each feature a different child (representing a wide variety of African Americans) with a 1-2 sentence description of what they like about the holiday

 
This is the Stable by Cynthia Cotten 
A simple retelling of the Christmas story.  With the exception of the angels, who appear to be white, all of the other characters are darker, ranger from an olive to a deep brown.  The Baby Jesus, Mary and Joseph are all a medium brown tone with black hair and in a few of the pictures Mary almost appears to be Black.  One of the wise men appears to be Asian as well.

Christmas for 10 by Cathryn Falwell
A simple counting story following a family as they get ready for Christmas, including setting up a manager with Black figurines. 


12 Days of Christmas by Rachel Isadora
 The traditional words that kids are familiar with, but set throughout Africa.  One of the highlights is the 7 swans a'swimming are black swans.  The book is also a rebus so that early readers will be able to read independently as well.  The one caution would be that the people are depicted very traditionally feathers and masks and body jewelry so that for younger kids (who don't have the cognitive skills to recognize the "traditional" aspect- it could potentially create/reinforce stereotypes)

The Night Before Christmas by Rachel Isadora
The classic story, set in Africa, but without the traditional dress that could presented an issue in 12 Days of Christmas.  Santa is Black, including white locs with a few Christmas beads in his long hair.  This is one of my favorites.


Other holiday books featuring characters of color
Calvin's Christmas Wish by Calvin Miles. 
A story set in past about a boy who wants a bike for Christmas.  Touches on issues of poverty 

Do you have any favorite holiday stories that represent all families?


Monday, October 1, 2012

Cross Cultural "Misunderstanding"

For those of you who don't know, I work in (and K attends) what is known as an "urban" school.  It is high risk, high poverty, and almost 100% minority.  My children (except K) attend our local suburban school.  It is about 30% minority, middle class-ish and not high risk.  To be clear- one is not better or worse than the other but there is a bit of a difference between them. 

The other day I pick the kids up at Latchkey and the director stops me to tell me that X  had an "incident" with another child and that, while it was all worked out, he was a little upset by it.

I called X over to hear his story and while he was walking over the director assured me he hadn't done anything wrong.  So I ask
"So what happened today?"

X-"Billy* cut me"
(*name changed to protect the innocent)

Me-"What do you mean he cut you?  Where?  With what?"

The Director-"No, he cut in front of him in line"

Me- "Oh, at my school that means something totally different."


Wednesday, September 12, 2012

It's Official- They Are All Back

in school.  The 3 bigs started a couple of weeks ago and K started last week so now everyone (including me) is back to school.  So far so good.  

K is back to Pre-K for one more year (darn those November birthdays)




A is off to 7th grade


Checking out what is in their Schultuete 
(and A got one too- he just didn't want to pose with it.  K will get her first one next year for kindergarten)
 

 Off to 1st grade (with some attitude)  She jumped out of bed as soon as I said she could wear her new clothes.

Off to 3rd grade


Thursday, May 24, 2012

I Thought High School Musical Would Wait Until 1st Grade

at least....
But alas, they used it for part of the Kindergarten school play at the day care D attends half day (since real Kindergarten is only half day around these parts)

Luckily- it is pretty cute (and they didn't actually watch the movie)





Thursday, September 15, 2011

K Starts Her New School

After much debate (over many things like whether or not my principal would like that I have my own child in my class) we decided to enroll K as a student mentor (ie,typical peer) in my special needs preschool class.  
So far so good.  
And she has completely charmed everyone, but especially my principal (whom she ADORES as well)

One perk of having her in my class- Lots of first day of school photos








Saturday, September 10, 2011

I Was NOT Going to Do a 9/11 Post

then A came home with a rather surprising school assignment yesterday.  (*and I will acknowledge right now that he often misses details that make a big difference but....)  He comes in and says his social studies assignment is to find a 9/11 video on You Tube and bring it to class on a flash drive.  He said there were no other parameters.   
(Really, You Tube?  A site with so much  educational content   crap available that almost every school (including his and mine) totally block it. 

So of course my first response "Okay we will do it together" since there is no way I allowing my 11 year unlimited access to You Tube to specifically look for videos about 9/11.  
Especially since even a cursory search yields videos with titles like  "Mysterious Deaths of 9/11 Witnesses",  "Phone Calls from the Towers",  "WTC Photos- Not for Children" and "Remembering the Jumpers"  
So yeah, there is NO. FREAKING. WAY. he is doing this assignment without parental supervision.

As we chose the most benign (and how inaccurate is that word to use) of the news broadcasts and he reveals that they had watched a bunch of videos in class and, what a big surprise, he was a "little anxious" about things. 

So after watching two videos of CNN and NBC filming between the time Tower 1 was hit but before Tower 2 was hit, and one substantially more horrifying one of the actual crash into Tower 2, he decided on the video he wanted to bring.....


One that acknowledges the tragedy, pays respect for the fallen and really captures the feelings of the days and weeks after 9/11 along with the strength and resilience of the American people

So yes, he is bringing a video from Budweiser to class and I couldn't be more proud of his choice.











Thursday, August 25, 2011

Middle School, and Kindergarten with a side of 2nd Grade

Wow- big school changes for us this year.

A began 6th grade and *gasp* Middle School.
Starting the day very early by check out his Schultute (school cone). He now needs to leave to catch the bus 30 minutes before he even had to wake up last year.


Off to the bus stop (also a first for him- we have always dropped him off due to our work schedules)



X heads off to 2nd grade




And of course D was off to Kindergarten.
This was her first year to receive a Schultute (you don't get one until you start Kindergarten). I think she was impressed.



Although she spent a lot of time trying to get hers to stay on her head like a dunce cap (hope it's not a sign of how school is going to go) She actually had an asthma attack that morning so she stayed home from day care in the morning and B took her to kindergarten after lunch (Kindergarten here is only half day- which for today worked out well)

Off to school in her favorite new outfit (and yes, the shoes match the skirt)





After school, I picked up D and X from their latchkey program. D came running over to me when she saw me.
I asked her how school was.
She said
"Great! What am I going to wear tomorrow?"

Saturday, July 2, 2011

How Busy Was May? This Could Go On Forever...

So here's everything else (pretty much) in one last post....

End of First Grade Recognition Ceremony



5th grade "graduation"



Kung Fu Demonstration











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