We could never have a exact prediction on what is going to happened even with advance planning. At times, we might missed some golden opportunity and made some wrong turning. Apart from being upset for what had past, we should look forward and concern about the future! Because this is my life.. if it is to be it's up to me :) Live it... Love it... This is my life
My friend and I was discussing about her parents letting her to go out during night time with friends for "yam cha" session.
Sometimes I feel that maybe yes we already grow up, but the worries from our parents does not go away that easily. I think is not that they do not trust us enough to give us freedom. It's just that the safety in Malaysia is so bad that it alarmed the concerned of parents, even though their kids is old enough to have their own KEY.
I guess nobody would want themselves to turn up to be one of the news in the papers one day. As such I guess we need to sacrifice a bit by not going out for "yam cha" session during night time.
However, on the other hand, it still voice down to the negotiation skills that whether we are able to convince our parents to allow us to go out at night. My hubby gave me a very good point / action plan that what should be done that I did not do well previously.
Tell them where you exactly going and what is the expected time that you are coming back. Try not to be too late if your parents is waiting at the living hall for you to be back
Let them know the phone number of friends that are "yam cha"-ing with you and try your best to bring them to your house so that your parents would know who are those people that you are going out with.
Let your parents get used to you going out late by going according to their conditions.
I guess this would more or less helped to give an idea on how to handle your parents?
But most importantly, freedom does not come when you are not breathing. I would think safety always come first. Our parents does not really want to restrict us but always they have the worries on what we are doing no matter how old we are.
Think of your parents before you decide to do something for yourself...
One of the motivation to enjoy the our holiday this month is salary is received half a month in advance compared to previous months due to the festive season.
But on the other hand the disadvantage is you might tend to spend excessively with all the extra cashflow in the bank account.
Well for me, i will spend my money on books and cds
yeah here come the book fest in town during the festive season and public holiday as well as school holidays :)
So happened it was movie night last night and we loved to watched movie Tropicana City Mall. But it's only disadvantage is often we struggle to think what to eat at when we wanted to have a movie there.
but worry no more Secret Recipe came to the rescue when it wanted to go beyond veggie.
food was quite attractive. Will do a review in the next post.
but was glad that there is a good place to settle down for food in TCM :)
Don't know how long it's been a while since you told me your favorite story it's been all of my mind driving me crazy another reason that you're crying now
I see the tears in your eyes they tell me you don't believe that I can be your prince charming maybe you can't understand but when you said you love me my life was changed and I wish you could see
I'm willing to be the one any angel that you love with open arms I will always be there you must believe that you and me will end up happily in our own fairytale story
I will be be the one any angel that you love with open arms I will always be there you must believe that you and me will end up living happily in our own fairytale story
somebody said he already woke up from a nightmare. everything is over. he is having his totally new life for him and god will bless him
goh thinks that 如果婚姻与家庭是噩梦的话，就别学人家去承担。。 当你认为你摆脱所谓的梦魇同时。。所造的孽。。 不是轻易能弥补的。。。
as well as 勇敢承担。。。才是强者所为。。。
somebody comment again 不是自己的東西郤要占為己有... 而好人只有被欺負的份...唉... 吃虧真的是占便宜嗎?
sometimes i wonder is it the people who pretend that he is the weak side is actually the bad guys.
there is never a right or wrong answer in things in our life. just like you might be good guy for someone and at the same time bad guy for others... it's just which side you are looking from
you see beautiful flower in life if you decided to stop and have a break you get free stuff from your client (kononnya best selling in shop) the pop corn guy gives you super full pack of pop corn and you have to pack lunch to office just because the meal that you ate last week caused you a bomb =_=
TC: ur brot is playing FB whole day on Thursday and kacao everybody including uncle fred that hec say the word fuck again please tell your parents to bar him from playing FB
YTY: o
TC: >.< is he not allowed to play FB at nite?
YTY: ya
TC: haha... i sms ur mom last nite
YTY: ==
TC: well let him be upset wit me he is over FBing dy
YTY: good
TC:too young to be out of control good for wat?
TC: good u stop him la
~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ the kid is over FBing... have to let people imposed control on him show faces when he is not allowed to FB
too young to show faces rite? too young to all those things where adult always do
