Now faith is being sure of what we hope for and certain of what we do not see. Hebews 11:1
Tuesday, December 30, 2008
Facing Giants
Looking back, I was facing more than one giant in my life and quite frankly was ready to give up. I knew God, acknowledged God, but did not have a personal relationship with the Lord. Did I forget to mention that I was a bit of a control freak? I had a really hard time giving up control of my circumstances to God...that is until I almost lost everything I loved and held so dearly. Sometimes you have to be at your breaking point to realize who's in control. I had to surrender it all. C.S. Lewis said, "Pain is God's megaphone." This is his way of waking us up from spiritual slumber if you will. I needed a wake up call.
Our Pastor put it beautifully at our Christmas Eve service when he said and I'm paraphrasing, "You can have a close encounter with God but miss the personal experience." My cousin that I mentioned earlier, she and her husband lost their only son 8 years ago in an automobile accident. A personal relationship with the Lord has given them the strength they've needed when they didn't have it on their own. Will was in college and planning to be a minister. God has helped them face this giant day in and day out. He can help you face yours too.
I urge you beginning now and into 2009, to turn your giants over to God. Surrender it all to him and lay it at His feet. If you are suffering from bitterness, anger, depression, facing divorce, addiction, an eating disorder, financial struggles...whatever your giant may be..give it to God. Let Him fight for you.
Philippians 4:6 Do not be anxious about anything, but in everything, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God.
Embrace Life,
Ginger
Sunday, December 28, 2008
Family Blessings
Usually when mama and daddy come, we take them to Captain Steve's Seafood, but Tony cook fried salt and peppered catfish fillets last night and fried oysters. For sides we had blue cheese cole slaw,fries and hushpuppies. They absolutely loved it. Back home we used to have fish fries on a regular basis and the folks in the community would all get together and fry fish in the back yard! I miss that sometimes.
We enjoyed spending the evening just talking and sharing stories from the past. Speaking of folks in the community and stories from the past, mama retold the story about the summer that daddy got so sick when Jan and I were very little. Daddy suffered a massive blood clot to his heart. He was working on the farm, mending fences on July 4, when it happened. The doctors had pretty much given up on him. Daddy tells the story of being able to hear Dr. Merrit say "I've done all I can do." He asked the other doctor to take over. Daddy was a fighter and so was mama....a prayer warrior.

He survived that clot and stayed in ICU for 31 days. The community rallied around our family. There were acres and acres of tobacco to be harvested as well as other crops. There was no way that mama could do it by herself. The good people our community did it for her and daddy. The crops were brought in and harvested and mama and daddy weathered a major storm.
Sometimes, I think I don't have that sense of community the way I had it growing up, but when I stop to think about it, I really do. I am very blessed to attend a wonderful church, Elevation. There, I'm a part of two small groups where I feel very much a part of an extended family. We have made so many friends there and our lives have been forever touched and blessed by these friendships! I am also very blessed to have good neighbors that I know I could call on if I needed them. Good people and good neighbors. Then there's my family at PSE. I am very blessed to be a part of such a great place to work. So yes, I do have that sense of community. Sometimes we just have to stop and think about our family away from our family to realize how blessed we really are.
Spending time with your family is so important and realizing just how special the time we have together really is. I so enjoyed the time I had with my sister, Jan, my niece Callie and my mama and daddy.
Katie and Callie

Mama, Jan and Me

Tony and Callie's new puppy, Rugby!

I count them all as blessings!
Friday, December 26, 2008
Home For the Holidays!
Christmas should be a time of celebration with family and friends. According to Rick Warren, throw a party in honor and celebration of the birth of Jesus. We've been doing this with the Sherrills for many years now. The girls have grown up so much! It was so much fun to watch them open their gifts...all from Tutti and not planned!
Since we were traveling on Christmas morning to visit our families, Santa came to visit on Christmas Eve.
Christmas morning we traveled home to Johnston County to celebrate Christmas. We had a great time with both our families. As always we ate way too much. There was enough food to feed an army! We enjoyed lunch with my family on Christmas Day and Tony's family on Christmas night. This is my 5 year old nephew Evan. He was so excited to get a UNC football uniform, but he wasn't so sure about the shoulder pads! My sister was trying to convince him that they go under the jersey! He and his dad are big Tarheel fans!!
My mama's house is a wreck with wrapping paper, but boy is it fun with the children opening gifts. They have such a good time.
We still get a kick out of watching our parent's eyes light up when they open their gifts. They are still young at heart! One of the things we gave both sets of parents was a calendar with snapshots from the year. They love it!
Tony's parents were just as excited about their calendar! Afterwards, another feast began...I was stuffed from the first! Tony's dad, Joe is a wonderful cook. He prepared both turkey and ham! Needless to say I enjoyed both with all the delicious fixins! Can you say New Year's Resolution?
There truly is no place like home for the holidays! Our family is richly blessed with good friends and a loving family. I am also blessed to have a Lord and Savior Jesus Christ and through him all things are possible.
Merry Christmas!
Tuesday, December 23, 2008
Silver Bells
I have many books that I enjoy reading at Christmas, but one of my favorite books is "The Polar Express". I especially love to watch the movie and listen to Tom Hanks do the voices.
As I've mentioned in an earlier blog, our pastor, has been doing a series titled "Do You Hear?" He's been focused on how we hear from God and how God speaks to us. Call me silly, but "The Polar Express" really connected with me differently this year than ever before after hearing these messages.
In the book, the little boy only wants silver bells from Santa when he travels to the North Pole. He is chosen by Santa to receive the first gift of Christmas. On his way back home on the Polar Express, he realizes that he has lost the silver bells because of a hole in his pocket. However, when he wakes up on Christmas morning, there is a small package under the tree for him....the silver bells. Mom and dad say "too bad they're broken", but he and his sister can hear them. Interestingly enough, none of his friends can hear the bells either. They don't believe anymore!
This book spoke volumes to me! Are we listening to the voice of God? Or have we lost the true spirit and meaning of Christmas? Are we able to hear the silver bells through all the hustle and the bustle? God speaks to us in ways that are sometimes beyond our understanding. Maybe we need to allow that childlike faith to come back into our hearts. If we are too busy or have lost our faith, we won't hear the still small voice of God, the true spirit of Christmas...the silver bells.
Monday, December 15, 2008
Are You Listening?
I've been studying Rick Warren's "Purpose of Christmas". It is wonderful look at the reasons and purposes for Christmas. One of the purposes of Christmas is salvation. We need a savior and Jesus came to save us for a purpose.
This tied in so beautifully with what our pastor has been preaching on over the past two weeks in his sermon series "Do You Hear?" According to our pastor, when God speaks, His voice reveals your purpose. I love ah ha moments and this was one for me!
In the "Purpose of Christmas" study, Ephesians 1:11-12 is referenced. In him we were also chosen, having been predestined according to the plan of him who works out everything in conformity with the purpose of his will, in order that we, who were the first to hope in Christ, might be for the praise of his glory.
According to our pastor, when God speaks to you , it will stretch you. You're not going to feel comfortable and it's not going to all add up. He used Exodus Chapter 3 as his example, when God called on Moses to lead the Israelites out of bondage. Can you imagine getting that kind of call and from a burning bush no less?
In the beginning of Rick Warren's Purpose Driven Life, he writes it's not all about you. Personally, I think when we begin to realize that, we've realized it's all about God and his purpose for our lives.
During this busy season, take the time to be still and hear God's ever present voice in your heart and life. He is your Savior and he has a purpose for you.
Sunday, December 14, 2008
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Wednesday, December 10, 2008
Not Just Somewhere We Fall

Monday, December 8, 2008
What's the Reason for the Season?
The book of Luke is written to present Jesus as a Savior for the entire human race. No matter the color of your skin, the size of your bank account or house! Luke 2: 11 Today in the town of David a Savior has been born to you; he is Christ the Lord. Those words "to you"...for me, are personal. It was for you and for me that God brought his son to earth to live as one of us and to die for our sins. He paid the ultimate sacrifice for me.
Jesus is called "Immanuel" in Matthew chapter 1:23, which means, "God with us." Knowing that God is always with me is a comfort even when I don't think He's there...He is! During this season when it is so easy to lose sight of what we're really celebrating or forget what's really important and get completely stressed out, remember "Immanuel".
This season, celebrate the real reason for the season. The birth of our Savior, Christ the Lord. Not the hustle and bustle, not the latest greatest gadget or gifts. We have the greatest gift! Just recognize it and receive it. Remember that Jesus loves you, is with you and will never leave you or forsake you. He was born for you. Allow Christ to give you peace in this season.
Luke Chapter 2:14 Glory to God in the highest, and on earth peace to men on whom his favor rests."
Monday, December 1, 2008
With Love, A Gift For My Daddy

Sunday, November 30, 2008
Deck The Halls, But Check Your Foundation!
While putting the ornaments on the tree yesterday, I took a trip down memory lane. It takes me forever it seems to unwrap the ornaments from their boxes and packaging, but because they're special, I don't want to break them! Many of the ornaments were gifts either given by our parents, family members or friends and hold special meaning. Others are even more special because Katie made them through the years when she was little. Those ornaments are priceless to me!
One ornament in particular stood out this year. It was "Our First Christmas Together 1984" ornament. This year makes the 24th year it has been on our Christmas tree. It was packaged in the original box, wrapped carefully in tissue paper to protect it. When I hung it on the tree, I noticed it had a few cracks, which to me was very much like our marriage and home life at times in the past. Fragile sometimes, but not broken. Together by God's grace and abiding love.
To me this was very symbolic of how God works in our walk with Him, our marriage, and homes. The ornament was safely packaged, carefully wrapped to guard it. The ornament was protected by its foundation if you will. When our lives are built on a solid foundation of following Jesus Christ, nothing can shake it even when there are bumps in the road, suffering, pain and even those frustrations of the holidays!
As the Christmas season is just beginning, don't let the rush rock your foundation with Jesus Christ. He was born for you!
Luke Chapt. 6:47-48 I will show you what he is like who comes to me and hears my words and puts them into practice. He is like a man building a house, who dug down deep and laid a foundation on a rock. When a flood came, the torrent struck that house but could not shake it, because it was well built.
Friday, November 28, 2008
Happy Thanksgiving!
We enjoyed Wednesday night with Tony's family and Thursday lunch with my family. Here are a few of the pictures. Katie with Granny Ann and Papa Joe and Tony's brother Danny and his wife Denise.

Thursday was a beautiful day on the farm at Mama and Daddy's! My sister Jan and her husband Barry and their children Callie and Evan joined us.

Here are pictures of the calf I wrote about the other day! He is finally nursing his mama and has strength in his legs. What a cutie. Callie and Evan had named him Lucky and then decided to change his name to Stormy after the mascot for the Hurricanes! I've also included a picture of Callie's horses, the farm house I grew up in, the old barns, Katie's cow and other cool shots of the farm I grew up on!



As a child, there was nothing better than being on the farm and playing in the dirt and running to the front door to see if something planted the day before in the field across the house had started to grow! As a teenager I didn't really appreciate it quite as much. The rows of the soybean field seemed to never end! That was how we got our tan...no going swimming until it was finished! However, as an adult, I know that there were many life lessons taught on that farm. Hard work, perseverence, patience and love of life!
I am so grateful to have had that experience and am thankful that our daughter experienced it if only for a short amount of time.
Being back on the farm gave me a sense of renewal. For that I am thankful. It was peaceful and quiet and gave me time to be with the ones I love!
Psalm 100:4 Enter his gates with thanksgiving and his courts with praise; give thanks to him and praise his name.
Monday, November 24, 2008
More Celebrating!
Sunday, November 23, 2008
Happy Anniversary Mama and Daddy!
Wednesday, November 19, 2008
The Least of These
All the folks on Old Evans Road are so excited about the birth of the new calf they stop to look when he's being fed. They even want to feed the cows apples. Daddy said "yes" to apples for the cows, "no" for the calf. Only milk for him right now. He has to have the right nourishment for proper growth.
This got me to thinking about our Heavenly Father and how he wraps his arms around us to keep us secure even when we're wobbly and can't hold ourselves up. He gives us just the right nourishment and enough strength when spirtually we're malnourished and we feel we have no hope and can't go on. You might be that nourishment or strength for one in need. You might be the arms of Jesus reaching out to those needing stability or support when their family is falling apart or when they don't have enough food to feed their family or pay their water or electric bill. You might be that smile to a shut in on a cold day when she can't get outside. You might be that voice on the other end of the line asking "How was your day"?
During this Thanksgiving season and in the days and months ahead we need to be the the arms, hands, legs and feet of Jesus Christ reaching out to others and living out His example to help the least of these.
Matthew 25:35-36
For I was hungry and you gave me something to eat, I was
thirsty and you gave me something to drink, I was a stranger and you invited me in, I needed clothes and you clothed me, I was sick and you looked after me, I was in prison and you came to visit me.
Matthew 24:40 'I will tell you the truth, whatever you did for one of the least of these brothers of mine, you did for me.'
Saturday, November 8, 2008
Country Comes to Town!

We hopped on the Light Rail at the 485 Connection and made our first stop at South End. I'd always wanted to just go there and browse through some of those cool little shops! While we were there, we wandered into a really cool little art gallery. There were many beautiful pieces. I'm always amazed by and appreciate the talent of artists. What a God given gift!

We decided while we were there to grab a couple of boxes of "Price's Chicken Coop"....the best in the south besides my mama's. That's a God given gift too! To be able to cook fried chicken that good is a talent!We sat across the street from Price's next to the tracks and had a fun time eating and people watching. That place stayed packed the entire time we were there....line out the door! The hushpuppies are as good as the chicken. We don't get to go as often as we'd like, but it is one of my favorite places to eat. It's so real. Reminds me of home.
Later we hopped back on the light rail and headed to uptown. We enjoyed just walking the streets uptown, visiting the Mint Museum Gift Shop and Reid's Fine Foods. What a great store. The afternoon was so much fun and cheap...less than $23 dollars for the whole day. Taking the time just to enjoy life and appreciate the small things you have right at your finger tips are so important.
Philippians 4:4 Rejoice in the Lord always. I will say it again: Rejoice!
Friday, November 7, 2008
Celebrate 48!



Wednesday, November 5, 2008
The Day After
I was reading Beth Moore's blog today. Boy, does she sum it up nicely. I encourage you to take some time to read this.
On a lighter note, at least there's no more negative campaigning! The car commercials will actually be a breath of fresh air!
Tuesday, November 4, 2008
Voting!
We are so blessed to be able to vote! What a privilege to be able to walk in, mark your ballot for the person you want to lead your country, state and other offices. Whether your candidate of choice wins or not, we should count it not only as a right, but a freedom and blessing.
My good friend Betsy and I were talking today about this heated presidential election and how bent out of shape people tend to get over who is going to win. Ultimately God is in control. We should all be praying for the one that is elected. I love the following scriptures. Pray that whatever candidate is elected, that he will pray for God to lead him in his plans for this country.
Proverbs 16:3 Commit to the Lord whatever you do, and your plans will succeed.
Proverbs 16:9 In his heart a man plans his course, but the Lord determines his steps.
Sunday, November 2, 2008

Tony had to get in on the fun too! A Larry the Cable Guy wannabe, he had a great time passing out candy!

In the middle of all this fun, Maggie, our beagle, managed to squeeze through the door and take a tour of all the neighbors yards! Looking for a "treat" I guess. Needless to say she slept well Friday night.
Saturday, October 25, 2008
From the Outside Looking In
Think about how many people you have passed this week that may have had smiles on their faces, but when you look deep into their eyes, you see sadness, insecurity, hopelessness, doubt, fear and the list could go on!
You have to wonder...where is their hope? Where is their joy? Where is their peace? Where is their trust?
For several years, I was that person you might pass. I was sad, lonely, full of doubt and fearful that my marriage was over and I was losing my daughter. From the outside looking in, things looked great. No one really knew or if they did, I never knew they knew.
I share this because as Christians, we need to speak life into others, give them a smile or a pat on the back. You never know how your kindness may be exactly what that hopeless person needs at that moment. I love the song "Give Me Your Eyes" by Brandon Heath. This song speaks volumes to me about how we often pass people that may be in pain and never really give them a second glance. Give them your eyes so they might see Jesus in you.
Embrace those that are hurting. They need you. Jesus is our hope, peace, joy and where we can place our trust. He is there for us in those times of need.
A very dear friend shared this Psalm with me recently. Although I had read it before, it was if I was reading it for the first time.
Psalm 13: 5-6 But I trust in your unfailing love; my heart rejoices in your salvation . I will sing to the Lord, for He has been good to me.
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Sunday, October 19, 2008
Date Nights!

With the economy being the way it has for quite some time, we've cut back in many ways. Date nights....back burner! Not a good idea. That's one area that should not be trimmed back. Focusing on making your marriage a priority is so important. Altough I have to say, any night Tony cooks for me, and he's a great cook, it's a date!
Friday night, we took advantage of our date night gift card from church and went to Bone Fish Grill for a late dinner at 9:00! It was so nice and relaxing. Tony and I both have had busy weeks, especially Tony. He's been putting in 12-13 hour days over the last few weeks, but he waited for me to get home from a memorial service and then we went out. What a trooper.
One date night is great, but two in a row is unheard of for us! I felt like a teenager last night getting ready to go on a dinner cruise aboard The Catawba Queen. It took about an hour to get there, but we had a great time. My good friend Jena, and her huband Pastor David Shipman, invited us to join them with some of their friends for a night of fellowship. We had an amazing time. We enjoyed cruising along Lake Norman...an amazing view at sunset!
This morning's message at church preached from "Song of Songs", made me realize how important these date nights really are. They are vital in keeping the marriage fresh and strong. Pastor Furtick also pointed out a very important verse from Ephesians 5:33 However, each one of you also must love his wife as he loves himself, and the wife must respect her husband.
I love this verse. This verse is the emphasis of the book "Love and Respect". I highly recommend this book to anyone whether your marriage is strong or needs strengthening.
Thursday, October 16, 2008
Embrace the Day!
everything accomplished, but somehow the things that are really important to us get finished! When I think about my schedule too much I tend to get a little overwhelmed! I'm getting better at taking one day at a time and embracing each day for its ups and downs, its highs and lows, its good and its bad. No matter what the situation, there is good in each day. Look for the nuggets. Every day is a gift from God...from above, not to be taken for granted, to be embraced!
Ecclesiastes 3:1 To everything there is a season, a time for every purpose under heaven."
Monday, October 13, 2008
Going Home
Saturday, my sister Jan and me did a little shopping while my parents went to my mother's 60th class reunion! WOW and I thought 27 years was a lot. I was so proud of my mama. She was leading the blessing that day. She is such a woman of God. At 78, she continues to let her light shine to others.
Sunday we went to church at First Baptist Church in Clayton, NC. Tony and I used to be very active at this church before moving to Charlotte and Katie was dedicated as a baby there. In fact Sunday was Baby/Parent Dedication Day. One of my former students and her husband were dedicating their lives to raising their baby daughter in a Christian home. This young mother looked absolutley radiant!! I taught her in second grade over 15 years ago! Time really flies. It was nice to see many of our old friends and loved ones.
Just like always, mama cooked enough to feed an army after church! She is such a wonderful southern cook. We had our fill of BBQ chicken, country style steak, mashed potatoes, gravy, boiled potatoes...as if one kind wasn't enough, field peas and butter beans! Oh! I forgot to mention the preferred drink of the south...sweet tea! Needless to say, when it was time to go home, I could hardly keep my eyes open! Thankfully Katie was driving! As always, it was hard to leave. My 84 year old daddy always has teary eyes and says to drive safely, lock your doors and to call when you get home. I feel like I'm 16 again...loving every minute of it! As hard as it is to say goodbye, it is always nice to go back home!
Deuteronomy 6:6-9 And these words which I command you today shall be in your heart.
7. You shall teach them diligently to your children, and shall talk of them when you sit in your house, when you walk by the way, when you lie down, and when you rise up. 8. You shall bind them as a sign on your hand, and they shall be as frontlets between your eyes. 9. You shall write them on the doorposts of your house and on your gates.
Tuesday, October 7, 2008
Beautiful Morning
It made me stop and think how precious life really is and how important it is to spend time the ones we love just stopping to smell the roses and watch the sun peek through the trees or notice the beauty of God's creations all around us.
Renew: From the Women's Devtional Bible
Help me, Lord, to see your beauty all around me.
May my gratitude spill over from a cup full of
thanks to you.
Monday, October 6, 2008
It was a beautiful day to run errands and plant flowers...still have a ways to go with planting! Fall is such a beautiful time of year. It's like God's canvas. Our street is a short, yet a beautiful part of that canvas. The way the trees are nestled along the way, it reminds me somewhat of Blowing Rock. It is absolutely beautiful when the leaves begin to change colors.
Sunday evening was just the icing on the cake to an absolutely perfect weekend. We went to a praise and worship service on Sunday night at Elevation Church. Wow! I couldn't stop singing "Glory in the Highest" Being able to praise our Lord so freely for all that He has meant in my life is so humbling.
Psalm 29:2 Give unto the Lord the glory due His name; Worship the Lord in the beauty of holiness.
Tuesday, September 30, 2008
Having a little extra time this morning for coffee and reading was so nice before leaving for work. I didn't feel rushed to be out the door by 6:35. Being able to actually spend more time with my devotion was nice. It put me in the frame of mind I needed to face the day. Having this time is a challenge for me, but I find that when I don't spend time in God's word, my day reflects it.
With the economic jolt and so much uncertainty hanging over our heads, we can rest assured in the fact that God loves us and we can put our faith and trust in Him when all else fails.
Psalms 25:4-5
Show me your ways, O Lord, teach me your paths; guide me in your truth and teach me, for you are God my Savior, and my hope is in you all day long.
Monday, September 29, 2008
Mama Said There'd Be Days Like This!
I think I woke up a little stressed knowing that along with my buddy Candy, I had to sing the school song today on the "We Rock" show...our little news show at PSE. It went well and everyone was complimentary, but I was nervous.
Sometimes you feel as though the harder you try, whether it be at work, home or in your Christian walk, the more challenging it can be. I certainly won't be getting a "Mother of the Year" award today for my lovely attitude and maternal skills. Let just say I blew it nicely..to say the least.
Mama said there would be days like this, but Mama also said never go to bed angry or upset with those you love. This scripture reminds me of what I should be doing.
Psalm 19:14
May the words of my mouth and the meditation of my heart be pleasing in your sight, O Lord, my Rock and my Redeemer.
Sunday, September 28, 2008
Reflection
Fortunately we had five gallons in the gas can that was fresh and o.k. to use. I was now up to 1/4 tank. By Friday, I was down to less than an 1/8 of a tank, still no gas to be found. According to the media, shipments were coming in. A very kind lady in the grocery store shared with us about a station where she and her husband had gotten gas. We were on our way.
While headed to that station, we came across another station that had gas, but had a fairly long line, but we decided to stop. Tony and I sat in line for about 40 minutes Saturday while police officers monitored the station. We felt blessed.
When you feel you have absolutely no control over a situation, whether it be gas, your job, your children, your marriage or finances, turn it over to God. He provides.
Philippians 4:6 -7 Do not be anxious about anything, but in everything, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God. And the peace of God, which transcends all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus.
