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Showing posts with label challenges. Show all posts
Showing posts with label challenges. Show all posts

Thursday, March 24, 2022

Challenges and Changes

Lately, I find myself using things in ways I never did before. Do you notice that for yourself?

Tonight I needed to open a sandwich I had bought at Publix. It was cased in what I believe is called a “clamshell” plastic box. I have bought these types of sandwiches at the deli in Ingles in Hayesville, NC where I live, and opened them. I don’t remember having any problem opening the sandwich box.

But tonight, I pulled the little strip of plastic off so that I could more easily open the box by pulling a flap of plastic. Nothing happened. I pulled again as hard as I could. I turned it and twisted it, but the plastic would not move. I was getting so mad and upset that I could not open the sandwich, and then I remembered that I had a pair of small needle-nosed pliers. I opened them and easily with one hand grabbed the plastic flap with the tool in my hand. I yanked it and the box fell open as if it had planned to do that for me but was just waiting until I realized what I needed to do.  


My tool kit in Roswell apartment
Sometimes it is the little things that surprise us or frustrate us. As I continue to live in my apartment in Roswell, GA, I face more and more challenges learning what I can do and what I can’t do.

Yesterday I held my Zoom, two-hour workshop for the Carl Sandburg Home Historic Site. It went very well, but up until 11:00 AM, we didn’t have good Internet connections. I had ordered a booster system for the Internet already in the house because here in the lower level, my connections were sketchy. After the booster system was installed last week, I came back to try it out on my computer. To my dismay, the Internet connection failed continually. I was worried.

On Monday, Gay and Stu called Best Buy, the Geek Squad, that installed the new system. They could not come on Monday but came late morning on Tuesday, the day I was to teach online. What a relief to see those guys.

With their help and advice, we “forgot” the Att Network, and made the new system the only network on our computers. Boy, I was relieved!

Yes, I am dealing with many new and challenging things these days, but it is wonderful to have two people here who will help me when things get tough.

I had many emails today from the students who were there last evening. I get a major high knowing I had reached people in ways that are helpful to them. A well-published author was among those who registered. She told me she got some great ideas for future stories and especially on how to write about her mother.

So many new things I need to learn, but I am extremely grateful that I am able to continue to reach people virtually, on this blog, on Zoom, and on email. I always enjoyed teaching in classrooms, around a table that connected us, but I feel sure I can continue to make those connections online.

I think about the men and women my age in Ukraine who are struggling just to keep alive, who might be trying to leave that war-torn country, who have physical disabilities like me. Who is there to help them? Are they having to stay there because they can’t handle the challenges ahead?

With all the changes in my life these past two years, I am so, so grateful that I have friends and family who will do whatever it takes to be sure I am Okay. No one could ask for more.

Eleanor Roosevelt said this:

"You have to accept whatever comes,

and the only important thing 

is that you meet it with the 

best you have to give."

Saturday, July 4, 2009

Twenty Ten - planning ahead


Today I received my contract from John C. Campbell Folk School for a class I'm planning to teach in December 2010. Imagine, twenty-ten. That is next year and already I have plans for December. This class will be for folks who want to write their Christmas Stories. Don't we all have stories of Christmases past? I know I do.

The book published last year by Catawba Press, Christmas Presence, will be our text for this class. I am sure my students who often come from distant states will enjoy the Appalachian stories in this book.


The class I planned to teach in July at Tri-County College in Murphy NC had to be cancelled due to my husband's illness, but I hope we can hold that class in the fall of 2009. A number of former students had registered and I must ask their forgiveness but I know they understand.

Planning ahead is something I've always done. I keep a calendar and mark all important dates, but for over a year my life has been as uncertain as a summer thunder storm. I don't know what is coming, but I do see clouds gathering on the horizon. In the past I'd have closed all the windows, taken the clothes off the line, and called my dog inside.


Today, I look at those thunderheads forming and say to myself, they will blow over. I have no fear.



Thursday, January 1, 2009

A New Year and New Beginnings

2009 , tonight less than one hour old, is as new and as innocent as this beautiful baby.
It is now 2009 at 12:35 AM. No one is awake but Tiger the bob-tail cat and me. Barry was determined to make it till the Ball Drop in Times Square, but I didn't need to see a ball drop, a peach drop or as they do in Brasstown, a possum drop, to know another year has flown by and still, I have so much yet to do.

Today was windy, cold but sunny and that lifted my spirits which are not the best on New Year's Eve. I even gave myself time to be pampered with a good long massage by Linda at Murphy Mountain Therapeutic Massage and now I feel more prepared to face a new year, with new challenges and new hopes and new goals. Always new goals. Last year my goals were more for NCWN West than for me, but in 2009, my goals are more personal.

Number one is to help my husband and partner heal and be well. Secondly, I want to submit more of my writing and possibly publish a book. This will take more discipline, more time given to myself, and a writing schedule such as Kelly L. Stone advises in her book, Time to Write..
When the Christmas tree, the few decorations I put out and the cards are put away, I look forward to beginning the new year with my class at the John Campbell Folk School in January. February will hopefully mean the end of Barry's chemo treatments and the beginning of a few weeks in Florida. We will both be ready for that down time.

March brings on the Blue Ridge Writers' Conference in Blairsville. I have not missed this annual conference since it began and I've enjoyed every one. My good friend Carol Crawford has created an excellent event for writers.
April weather inspires me to garden even though my planting usually takes place on my deck with pots of geraniums and in my yard, impatients line the bed beside the driveway. Thanks to Robert, a wonderful man who does the heavy work, our daylilly beds, our shade bed and our azaleas will pop with color and our twenty five dogwoods will brighten our wooded areas like left over snow mounds.

So now I go to bed and wake up in a brand new year. I will open my new journal and begin, January 1, 2009 and I hope and believe I will fill this journal with good things, things of which I'm more appreciative than I was last year. At the top of each page of this journal I will list what I'm grateful for and why. The more we emphasize our blessings, the less we dwell on our hardships. The more we give, the more we receive and the happier we are. This year with our shortage of cash, we plan to live a more frugal life and dispose of much we have that others can use.

I know what it is to do without. I saw my parents sacrifice and I can do the same if need be. Material things that have no active purpose are unnecessary if we need food and shelter. I see the country moving away from the greed and keeping up with the Joneses, and embracing a simpler life which will make for a kinder more compassionate society.
Happy New Year to you, my readers , to those who leave comments and let me know you enjoy this blog, a special thanks.
May all the best be yours in 2009.