Showing posts with label Lynn. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Lynn. Show all posts

Saturday, July 17, 2010

Internship in Pakistan

 During my senior year of college, I wanted to do an international internship (preferably in a third-world country).  Nancy Blake was my internship coordinator.  I didn't know if she was a Christian or if she would understand the type of "mission project" I wanted to do.  I set up an appointment with her, and told her my idea.  She thought for a minute and said, "How do you feel about Pakistan?"  Nancy IS  a Christian, and she knew the Angerts, who were missionaries in Pakistan (they're now in India).  Barbara is an occupational therapist working with handicapped kids in the villages.  So, a plan was born, and I ultimately spent a little over two months in Pakistan.  Nancy made plans to go with me for the first two weeks of my trip.  Since I had never flown by myself and never traveled internationally, this was SUCH a blessing.  My cousin, Lee, and his wife, JJ, were missionaries in Hong Kong at the time, and I decided to add a month long stay with them into my agenda.  It was cheeper to buy two round trip tickets instead of three one way tickets, so Nancy agreed to add Hong Kong as a layover on our way to Pakistan (it's complicated)....just know that Nancy graciously agreed to travel several extra hours to accommodate the wallet of a poor college student.

I remember being so excited about some of the pictures I took, and now looking at them, I wish I had the luxury of digital photography at that time.  sigh...


After 26 hours of traveling, Nancy and I arrived in Hong Kong where Lee and JJ hosted us for a few days.

Nancy and I sent our measurements to Barbara weeks before our trip, and she had Pakistani garb waiting for us when we arrived in Pakistan.

Here are a few pictures of the villages where we worked.  I remember having a sort of out of body experience as we sat in a market bargaining for bamboo to make parallel bars for the boy below that wouldn't burn his hands in the hot sun like the metal ones he had.  I saw myself sitting in the crowd...How did I get here?!?  I'm in a market on the other side of the world bargaining for bamboo!  Is this really me?  Am I dreaming?


This was another boy who suffered from Rickets...a disease caused by vitamin D deficiency.  He was walking on these legs.



I lived with the Pakistani family below for two weeks.  The man, Rehmet, was the only one who spoke English.  He ran three rehab centers, and every day, he arranged somewhere different for me to go.  I spent time in all his centers, a school for kids with mental handicaps, a regular school, a hospital, an eye clinic.  I never knew where I was going each day.  These weeks were the hardest by far, but were also an amazing experience.  The first night I was there, Rehmet said, "Do you want to go to a party?"  Turns out it was a wedding!



Their girls were adorable, but they had a hard time understanding why I couldn't speak to them.  They would speak slowly and loudly in Urdu, and I would just shake my head.  I played my flute for them, and music seemed to cross all cultural borders.


Rehmet's nieces spoke some English (they enjoyed practicing with me), so we spent a lot of time with them.


I took this picture to remind me that I never wanted to see another bottle of Coke or Sprite again!!!  In every place we visited, they wanted to feed me and give me a "cold drink."  It was either that or chai (which I love but not in the 100 degree heat!).  I had to be careful what I took so I wouldn't get sick, and soda was one of the things I could accept.  It was rude to refuse, but there were days when I was SO SICK of soda that I wanted nothing more than to pour it on the dirt.


I also spent two weeks with Debbi (a physical therapist from Michigan) at a Christian hospital in the foothills of the Himalayas.  There I saw a forceps birth, a c-section of twins, a leg amputation, and a tendon repair surgery, among other things.  I made a lot of splints and enjoyed using my OT skills.

When this trip was in its early planning stages, I remember wishing at times that I was with a team...to process the experience and go through it WITH someone.  However, in hind sight, I think I really got to see more of the culture this way.  When you go with a team, people arrange their schedules around you.  When you are alone, you just go along for whatever is on their agenda.  I went to two weddings (one Christian and one Muslim), saw births, went to a funeral, attended a language lesson, and ate Easter dinner with some villagers.  I am so thankful for this experience.


After my time in Pakistan, I returned to Hong Kong to spend a month with Lee and JJ.  It was so fun to get to know them better and explore this part of the world with them as my guides.


There is a reason I finally got around to scanning pictures to do this post....stay tuned.





Tuesday, March 2, 2010

My new favorite song...

I love all things Sara Groves.  She is an amazing song writer and lyricist.  This is my new favorite song...."Different Kinds of Happy."  You should get the whole album.  It's just great stuff.  That chorus...wow.  It's something I'm learning a lot about in this season of my life.  Bringing our sin, our failures, our temptations into the light is so powerful.  For me, the venue for that is not this blog, but still....there is power in transparency and "there's redemption in confession and freedom in the light..."  It takes away fear and conquers the power of sin and temptation.   The chorus just replays in my head, and I love it.  My hubby loves it.  We include lines from it in emails or texts to each other.  I guess you could say it's "our song."




go on and ask me anything
what do you need to know
I'm not holding on to anything
I'm not willing to let go of
to be free, to be free

I've got to ask you something
but please don't be afraid
there's a promise here thats heavier
than your answer might weigh
baby it's me, it's me

it's a sweet, sweet thing
standing here with you and nothing to hide
light shining down to our very insides
sharing our secrets, bearing our souls,
helping each other come clean


secrets and cyphers
there's no good way to hide
there's redemption in confession
and freedom in the light
I'm not afraid, I'm not afraid

better than our promises
is the day we got to keep them
I wish those two could see us now
they never would believe how
there are different kinds of happy
different kinds of happy
there are different kinds of happy
different kinds of happy


Saturday, September 26, 2009

5 words meme



Last week I received 5 words from my blogging friend, Mari. It's all part of a meme, that you can do too, if you want to. Here's how it works. Mari got 5 words from another blogger and she did a post about the words she was given. She then offered to give 5 words to someone else. I thought it would be fun, so now I'm going to post on the five words she gave me. If you want to join in, tell me in the comments and I'll send you your own five words!

1. Daughters: Most of you know that I have two daughters, Adeline (2 1/2 yrs) and Camille (4 1/2 months). What you may not know, is that we struggled through infertility before conceiving Adeline. I don't share many personal things on this blog, but maybe I'll do a post on this some day. I thank God every day for the gift of my girls. Of course I would have been happy with a son, but I REALLY wanted a girl. Patrick can share his love of sports, skiing, snowboarding, fishing, golf, and reading (to name a few) with girls. However, my love for scrapbooking, tea parties, decorating, and shopping really are more suited to those of the female gender.

2. Korea: Some of my new readers may not know we spent a year in Korea with the air force. We really enjoyed our time there....certainly more than I expected to enjoy it. We met some amazing people, and we continue to stay in contact with them. I really liked my life there. There were so many activities and fun day trips with other moms. Plus, Patrick's schedule there offered us more family time than we will probably have throughout his career. It was great to have him home so much. We also did a lot of traveling (China, cruise from New Zealand to Australia, and Thailand, as well as many trips in Korea). Adeline has more stamps in her passport than most adults....too bad she won't remember any of it.

3. Music: I play the flute, piano, and guitar. Well, let me clarify that.... I play the flute. I took piano lessons for 9 years, but I haven't read music in FOREVER, and now I am only comfortable playing worship music with chords. I started teaching myself to play the guitar in college (because my roommate Sarah decided to learn and bought a guitar). Patrick came with a guitar when I married him (although he doesn't play), and I have gone through periods where I've tried to improve my playing. I haven't played in almost two years, which means no callouses, and an ability to play VERY limited songs with VERY easy chords. So, I guess I really don't play the guitar. Although I love music and love playing instruments, I don't sing. I mean, I sing in church, when I put my daughter to bed, and occasionally when the mood strikes, but that's it. It's not pretty my friends. Patrick, on the other hand, has an amazing voice. I guess that is another reason we make a great team. Now if I could just get him to sing for me more often...

4. Cooking: My mom is a wonderful cook, but a stifled one. My father is a picky eater, so she is very limited on the types of foods she can make for our family. My time in Pakistan (I really do need to do a post about that) taught me to eat things I never would have put in my mouth...and learn to enjoy them. I knew how to cook when I got married, but I have learned so much more, and experimented with ingredients I never knew existed over the past 8 years. I love to try new recipes. I only keep the ones we LOVE. I am blessed with a husband who will eat anything I make and enjoys the variety.
5. Military: Patrick was working at Johns Hopkins and applying to medical schools when I met him. He was trying to decide if he wanted to take a military scholarship to pay for his education. I remember we hadn't been dating long, so I didn't feel I should have a voice in such a major life decision, while at the same time realizing that if things went well, this decision could have a major impact on MY life. He took the scholarship. We haven't had the "typical" military life. We moved an hour south for residency (at Andrews AFB), volunteered to go to Korea for a year, and then returned to Andrews where he is currently stationed. We both have family and childhood friends within 2 hours of our home. Patrick has the option of finishing his career here. We'll see...


Monday, September 21, 2009

Girl's Beach Trip...

I'm on vacation right now with some of my best girlfriends.
We are kidless except for Camille. We stay up late, shop without an agenda or time restraints, talk...LOTS of talking, watch movies, eat...LOTS of eating, read, and relax. Yesterday, we went for a stroll on the beach.


...and there was an air show.



We saw some cute kids playing on the beach and missed our own...
I love vacation...

Saturday, September 12, 2009

My birthday...

Patrick told me he had something planned for my birthday. He would take care of all the details including childcare. I LOVE surprises! I told him I was planning to wear a dress. He said I had to wear shorts. I wanted to wear flip-flops. He said I should wear sneakers. Really. Are you sure? My mom and my friend, Nancy, both thought I would have fun. I am hard to surprise but..... I. had. no. idea. There aren't many things that make my "fun" list that involve the specified attire. I started guessing in the car. Patrick was laughing at my meager attempts. We started heading for the city. um....I'm running out of ideas.










We took a tour of Washington DC on segways! Oh. My. Word!!! You have GOT to do this!!! They are the most amazing invention ever!

It was fun to have our picture taken in front of some of the standard tourist attractions after living in this area for so many years.

Oh, and did you notice....more plaid shorts. After all, it was my birthday.....

Thursday, September 3, 2009

Gettin' my craft on...


My friends, Missy and Rachel, both have more talent in their pinky fingers than I could hope to attain....no really, spend a little time on their blogs. However, I decided to follow their lead for this fun craft project. While Patrick was playing tennis with some guys from church, I decided to "bake" with felt. I love how cute these cookies turned out. Too bad none of the people who joined my craft giveaway have little girls!

Missy is thinking about starting an etsy shop. Trust me, it will be well worth your visit. I'll keep you posted when she is up and running.

Friday, August 21, 2009

Thankfulness revisited

I think I made my position on thankfulness pretty clear in this post. However, I've been having a lot more thoughts on this topic recently, partly triggered by these...
I love weddings. I've been in a lot of them, attended even more of them, and planned several of them (not the least of which was my own). I am a detail person, and I am asked a lot for wedding advice, which frequently snowballs into me being a wedding coordinator. I don't mind. I like doing it. For some, I am a consultant only (I don't attend the wedding). For some, I only attend the wedding (and just make sure everything goes smoothly that day). For others, I plan everything from the music to the decorations to directing the MC at the reception. I don't charge anything because, again, I enjoy doing it, and I believe God has given me this gift to bless others.

I love when a wedding shows the personality of the couple. If they are musicians, the music should be live and lovely. If they are artistic, the programs should showcase some of their talent. If they love horses, why not ride in on one (for an outdoor wedding of course)? You get the point. I've planned some where I love everything they choose and some where I am shocked by how different our taste is....there really is a lot of subjectivity in what is beautiful.

In planning something as intimate and life changing as a wedding, you get to know the couple (or family) well. I find that I come to respect them more or lose respect for them as we go along. There are challenges with almost every one. Sometimes it is a clash of personalities (family dynamics), sometimes it is a tight budget, and sometimes I am contacted at the last minute when things are just not going well and there is too much to do with too little time. Sometimes it is all of the above. Some couples care about every detail (um, that would be us), and some just want someone to make decisions for them and show up on the day. What the particular challenge is is not nearly as important as how they face it.

For as varied as the couples and styles of weddings are, there are equal number of variations on thankfulness. For some, after I've put in HOURS of work, it would be nice to at least get a card. I know I shouldn't expect anything, but I struggle with feeling I have been taken advantage of when someone doesn't even take the time to write a thank you. Sometimes, not even a thank you for the wedding gift (if it's someone I know personally). I know that it is not personal, but it still bugs me.

I thoroughly enjoyed the most recent wedding I planned. Not because everything was easy and smooth, but because the family was truly thankful, and gracious. The bride and her mother each sent me heartfelt cards of thanks, which was more than enough (especially since the bride did some free babysitting for me). However, the bride's mother came for a visit this week and brought me the salt and pepper shakers above and some dinner plates. They match my set of pottery that we use every day. The company that makes it is located in Maine, and she was there visiting her parents. She called my mom to get ideas of pieces I might need (a few of my dinner plates broke). This is one of the most thoughtful and personal gifts I have received. The card (and babysitting...because I really was thankful for that) really would have been enough, but I am humbled by their thoughtfulness. Thank you Bloomberg family. Helping you was a pleasure.

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Friday, August 7, 2009

TV

When we spent a year in Korea, some of you know we coined it our "year without TV." This didn't start out as an intentional decision. Our TV is not so very new, and we were allowed a small weight limit for our move (we were unaccompanied for you military folks). We decided our TV wasn't worth it's weight in entertainment, and we figured we would upgrade to a flat screen while we were closer to the land where all things electronic are born. Patrick got to Korea a few weeks before Adeline and I arrived to find us an apartment, buy a car, and receive our shipment of goods. He didn't have a TV during those weeks, so he downloaded episodes of LOST and an occasional movie. When we arrived, I was busy setting up our home. After a few weeks, we realized we didn't really miss our TV all that much. I started blogging, and that gave me a whole new outlet for any spare time....can I get an amen?!? I caught up on LOST during the weeks that Patrick worked nights. We downloaded movies or episodes of LOST and The Office (to watch when WE wanted to watch them).

I've been asked to post about this experience and write about what our family is currently doing as far as TV usage. I must say, I REALLY thought I would miss TV more than I did. When it wasn't an option to turn it on, I eventually stopped thinking about it. I should mention that we were never huge TV watchers, but I went through seasons where I would turn it on most evenings (when Patrick was studying every night or working crazy long hours during residency). I think in general we watched less TV than the average family, but those hours still add up! I found I was much more efficient without the distraction of the TV. Even when I thought I only turned it on for background noise, it really did take me longer to get things done. In that year, I read more than ever before, started blogging, and made some serious scrapbooking progress. Patrick and I spent more time playing games and talking. I also found that I was less tired.

Now we are home. We have been reunited with our not so very new TV. We decided we didn't want to pay for cable. Patrick bought some special disc thing (um...yeah, he's the techy one here) so we can get several channels through our computer. We almost never watch it. When we do, it is to watch something specific. We don't turn it on just to "see what's on." That being said, Adeline starts out most mornings watching a movie. Donut Man, Cedermont Kids, and the occasional Veggie Tales. She has learned songs and stories about Jesus from these movies. They give me a few minutes to check my email, read blogs, or take a shower. She likes it. I like it. It works. If I may share one more opinion, I think we do our kids a serious disservice by having a screen in front of them in the car (if the journey is less than, say, two hours). It is not healthy to have constant over stimulation, while using little to no imagination. Now, what do you think? How much time do you spend watching TV? How about your kids? Is TV time the same as time on the Wii or playing video games? What about computer time (ouch, now we're getting personal!)? Take my survey on the sidebar. I won't know who says what (in case you are a closet TV addict).

Wednesday, July 22, 2009

Supper Club and a Recipe...

Our church started a supper club as a way for families to get to know each other better. The plan...match up 6 adults and recommend they meet 3 times in 4 months, then switch groups. There are no other rules. You can include kids or get babysitters and enjoy a night with adults. You can take turns meeting in each other's homes, meet at a park, or meet at a restaurant. We were matched with the Gordon's and the Hollidge's, and Patrick and I hosted the first gathering. Oh.my.word....I laughed so hard I thought I would pee. I thought Brad Gordon was quiet....um, no.....life of the party and HILARIOUS!!!
In honor of the evening, I put on my diva cooking apron (after Easter bargain at Target for $5!!!) and cooked up one de-licious dinner (if I do say so myself). I tried some new recipes (I have a pretty good eye for what will be good) and also made some tried and true favorites.

I will post the whole menu, but for now, why not start with dessert!?! I have been asked by several people recently for this recipe (and okay, some of you asked for it MONTHS ago). It is one of my favorite desserts of all time, and for those of you who know how much I love dessert and how many desserts I make, you know that's sayin' something! The stained recipe in my mom's recipe box says, Lemon Ice Cream Pie. I know, you are looking at the picture below and thinking, that doesn't look much like a pie. Well, here's something else you should know about me. I don't share well...when it comes to food I love that is, so I double the recipe and make it in a 9x13 pan instead of a pie plate. No really, nothing says love like my husband giving up his rights to the last piece (because I most likely ate 3/4 of it anyway), and I am not below hiding it in some distant corner of the chest freezer so his "male refrigerator blindness" can not track it. mmm hmm....it's that good.


Here's the pie version...just double it for a 9x13 pan, and since I use extra large eggs, I only use 3 eggs and 5 egg yolks/whites when I double it. The pictures don't do it justice. The layers of yellow and white really are pretty. If you need a recipe for a graham crust, let me know.

Lemon Ice Cream Pie
1/3 cup butter
2 tsp lemon rind, grated
1/3 cup lemon juice
1/4 tsp salt
1 cup sugar
2 eggs
3 egg yolks (reserve the whites in another bowl)

Almost 2 qts vanilla ice cream

graham pie crust

3 egg whites and 1/2 cup sugar

Melt the butter in a saucepan on med heat, add rind, juice, salt, and 1 cup sugar. Beat the whole eggs and yolks together and stir into butter mixture (I'm all about cutting corners in recipes, but you do really have to mix this before adding it and make sure the butter mixture isn't too hot or you'll get little pieces of cooked egg in your mixture). Cook until thick and smooth. Cool.

Put 1/2 ice cream in the graham crust. Harden in the freezer. Add 1/2 lemon mixture, 1/2 ice cream, and 1/2 lemon mixture, freezing between layers.

Beat egg whites until foamy. Add sugar gradually and beat until stiff. Spread on pie, sealing to edge. Bake at 475 degrees for 4 min. Freeze overnight before serving.

Friday, July 17, 2009

Flashback Friday

Lynn age 2

Lynn, age 2 1/2


Wednesday, July 8, 2009

Senior Year meme

I was tagged on Facebook (ages ago) for this meme about my senior year of high school. I'm not much into tagging people these days, but if you want to play along, great! And, what would a high school post be without some humiliating pictures? I scanned these from my scrapbook for your entertainment. You can click on them to enlarge and get the full value of their humor. I graduated in 1995.....



1. Did you date someone from your school?
Yes

2. Did you marry someone from your high school?
No

3. Did you car pool to School?
Yep, various people, various years. I drove my senior year, and sometimes picked up a friend "in town" on my way.

4. What kind of car did you have?
A rather unattractive olive green Oldsmobile.

5. What kind of car do you have now?
2005 Honda Accord and a 2000 Nissan Pathfinder

6. Its Friday night...where are you in HS?
I grew up in a football town, so if there was a game, that was the only place to be. Other times of the year, I would have been hanging out with my friends. We usually congregated at my house or my friend, Corby's house.

7. It is Friday night...where are you now?
At NIGHT I'm at home because we've got two little girls who need to go to bed, but in the evening I may be out to dinner, enjoying time with friends, or having an at home date with my hubby.

8. What kind of job did you have in high school?
I worked at "Little People Daycare Center." I ran their after school program during the year and their camp program in the summer. It was nice because it was just for a few hours after school, but I didn't have to work nights or weekends. My social life was quite important....

9. What kind of job do you do now?
Full time mommy and part time occupational therapist.

10. Were you a party animal?
Depends how you define party animal....no drinking, no smoking, no drugs. However, we were out late a lot and had a lot of parties. There were at least 30 of us in my public high school that were all Christians and had good, clean fun. We were together A LOT.

12. Were you in band, orchestra, or choir?
Concert band (played the flute). No desire to be in marching band.

13. Were you a nerd?
no. I took academic classes, but it wasn't nerdy to be smart in my school.

14. Did you get suspended or expelled?
No

15. Can you sing the fight song?
If someone can start me off...maybe.

16. Who was/were your favorite teacher(s)?
Miss Hoover (Spanish), Mr Kensinger (Chemistry), and Mr Kreider (History)

17. Where did you sit during lunch?
Cafeteria...with my girlfriends.

18. What was your school's full name?
Manheim Central Senior High School

20. What was your school mascot?
a Baron

21. If you could go back and do it again, would you?
I'm happy with my life now, and I was happy with my life then. I am still close to many of my friends from high school and have many happy memories from those years.

22. Did you have fun at Prom?
A blast! And why not share a few pictures from that too...
I LOVED that dress. Especially the back. And my hair.....it's in a banana clip, and yes, I loved that too. And yes, Jen and Jen, I'm taking you down with me. ;o)



23. Do you talk to the person you went to Prom with?
no...we're facebook friends though and if I run into him, we are friendly.

24. Are you planning on going to your next reunion?
Well, I planned the last one (with some friends). If one gets planned, I will go.

25. Do you still talk to people from school?
Yes....many.

Friday, July 3, 2009

Ladies' Day Out

Jen, Jen, Heidi and I made a pact several years ago. For your first baby, we will plan a shower. For all subsequent births, we plan a pamper the mom-to-be day. Sometimes we don't get it done before the little ones arrive, but we still follow through. A few weekends ago, the girls planned a very special day for me. They took me to a tea shop, and we had the most delightful lunch. Seriously, the scones were A-M-A-Z-I-N-G! I love girly things like this....they knew that. They also treated me to a gift card for Ann Taylor (one of my favorite stores) so I can get some clothes that fit my recently pregnant, stretched out middle. I felt loved and blessed to have such amazing friends.



Thanks ladies! I love you all...