So, remember the problems we had with trying to get TDY Orders for Nick for us to go up to Walter Reed for our IVF cycle? And remember that we got denied the Orders because it's an elective surgery? And remember then Nick got Permissive TDY Orders which means the trip is not paid for but Nick wont have to use his leave days for the stay?
Well, this morning Nick went to go pick up the paper work for Permissive TDY because in order for us to reserve the hotel in D.C. on a military base for a discounted rate we had to have the paper work.
Upon picking up that paper work, Nick was told that they dont know who told us that the TDY Orders were denied because they were'nt. They asked him who I talked to and of course this was a month ago so I cannot remember. They told him we needed my doctor to put the referral back into the computer so they can get us the orders.
So, I called my doctor to get the refferal put back into the computer and she said that the refferal is still in the computer and she needed to know who and why said it wasnt in the computer.
So TDY orders are a mess right now. Thanks military. Good news is that someone told Nick that the TDY Orders were NOT denied.
So maybe, he can get the TDY Orders and our 2 week stay at Walter Reed can be paid for by the military. Thanks military. The have their perks and downfalls at the same time. I hope Nick gets the orders. Its a financial break on us that we need. It's not my fault that the closest military facility IVF clinic is 3 hours away. They should pay for it.
So we are waiting on news about that. Hopefully we will know something today. I hate the waiting and not knowing whats going to happen. Oh boy..the two week wait after IVF is going to be interesting.
My Lupron injections are going great. Yesterday's dose was the first time I bled a little and this morning I noticed that the injection site is bruised. I dont know what I did wrong, or if it's normal and I didnt do anything wrong. Today Im going to try to wait for Nick to get home to do the shot as long as he gets home pretty close to 4. Does anyone know if I always have to have the shot at 4:00 on the dot every single day. I would like to wait for him to get home to do it. Plus it makes him feel needed. As if it he's helping in some way in this rough process.
**UPDATE**
It was false hope. Who ever spoke to Nick this morning was not aware that the orders were denied. That is why she told us they never were denied. But they were. So because someone lacked communication, we were given false hope today. BLAH! But Nick is still able to get permissive TDY so he wont have to use his leave.
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That's awesome about the news of the orders!! Woohoo!! I hope it works out.
ReplyDeleteThanks so much for the comment on my blog. I knew you of all people would completely 100% understand where I was coming from, so thanks. You're so sweet (((HUGS)))
Sorry about that snafu. That has to be supremely frustrating. Hang in there. Don't worry about the bruise, you probably just hit a little vein or something. Not a biggie.
ReplyDeleteaaaahhhh CRAP! I had my hopes up for you to get TDY orders. Hey are you switching sides when you do your injections? These are sub-q right? (belly) I ALWAYS bruise. I think some of us are more prone. Keeping my fingers crossed for you and Nick to get a BFP!!! (x 2)
ReplyDeleteMan, I was getting my hopes up for you as I was reading...then I saw the update. :( I hate false hope.
ReplyDeleteHope your shot went well. Glad I'm not having to give myself one every day. Yikes! Doing the trigger freaks me out enough. Not the shot...that's a breeze! But the getting the liquid to all go into the syringe. I have trouble with that part. It's stressful.
I'm rooting for your BFP!
Oh Michelle.....I truly,TRULY do not miss those days of military communication.
ReplyDeleteI HATE that for you! I remember what it did to me everytime I got the run around not to mention the phone calls from Korea at 2AM, the red lining of our vacation leave at the LAST minute, the "Who told you that? Sorry about that, you're not really going to Ramstien like you wanted and where the rest of your family is stationed, you're going to Hawaii instead, someone must have made a mistake."
Um...ok, I guess because Ramstein and Hawaii sound alike...or maybe it's because they are so close together.
Dang...now that I think about it..maybe you should double check and make sure you're going to Guam and not Germany, they're easy to mix up...they both start with G and that can be confusing to the military ~grin~.
Hang in there! At least they didn't say "Who told you that? You're not getting permissive leave orders as a matter of fact we're not approving any leave"
CRAP! Man, I was hoping that was the break you were gonna get. I'm sorry. :(
ReplyDeleteSorry for the runaround and the false hope.. yuck. But, at least he gets to leave and doesn't have to use his time off. They at least didn't try and take that away too!
ReplyDeleteIt is normal to bruise and bleed some... so don't worry. As far as the time, as long as you are close you are golden.
wow... ups and downs, eh? So glad he doesn't have to use leave, though. I'm reading today that you've got a Lupron headache. OUCH - sorry. Wishing you lots of luck in these next 3+ weeks!!
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